u/hllwnprty420

like the title says ): he’s a meanie (not rlly) and wanted me to play a sad song on our last call so now i’m in my feels lol but it’s got me thinking like i have been these last few months. court has been getting postponed since january. he was supposed to have trial in january then it was scheduled to be in july but he ended up making a deal with the da which is kinda fucked but now he’s only fighting one charge and it’s the lesser but it is a felony still ): it’s so sad cus he didn’t even do it and the person who did? da gave immunity to. but it’s the cards he was dealt. he’s so strong and i’m so proud of him we do a good job of balancing each other out but i feel like he carries me more than i do him. long story short he has his punishment hearing in a little less than a month and this time next month he’ll either be back home or waiting to catch chain ): but tbh it is looking good all things considered it’s just sad cus whenever we think it’s gonna go one way it always goes the other. praying for the best but preparing for the worst type beat u know but if all goes well which it SHOULD my baby should be home next month and i can’t wait to hug him kiss him look at him when i tell him i love him. i remember the last night we had he didn’t want to get up and said it might be the last time he can hold me for a while. i wish we stayed in bed longer. 14 months in a few days and it sucks. it sucks for everyone involved and the person responsible got to move away to a different state with no repercussions. but i know god will do as he sees fit and it’s not my place to question but it does feel super shitty lol. I love him more than anything and we’re incredibly blessed to be able to talk to each other every day and video visit almost every day for the last 2 ish months since i can’t go visit him but i’ll take what i can get. i just want him home!!! i miss him so much i just hope next month is the end of it so we can finally breathe and rebuild ):

just needed to vent cus fuck ts sucks

hiii so i’ve only posted on here once for a not so serious question. this might be kinda long 😭

but ive been on this sub for about a year since me and my bf got arrested ): my charge was dropped the next day but my bf has been in county since /: i was with him so ik exactly what happened and he isn’t guilty of what they’re saying he is!!! long story short the person who caused the most damage was given immunity… it’s fucked even admitted to it multiple times plus his priors are related to the crime!!! yet my bf is still in there and it breaks my heart every day. HOWEVER he’s agreed to take the lesser charge and has a punishment hearing in 2 months ): it’s looking good tho honestly the state originally denied his offer of 10 yrs deferred and ik everyone’s case is different but there’s been people who are literally guilty and get off with that or less /: he is getting his psi soon and we’re not too worried about it, the state told the judge how they’re super impressed with his behavior (no write ups no lockdown no 23’s, in classes completed multiple programs and certificates got his ged etc) he has no priors as well! he is a really good boy (i miss him) compared to all the stories we’ve heard, and with his lawyer we think probation is highly highly likely with all things considered but we’re preparing for the worst if he gets tdc /: we try not to even put that out there and keep praying for the best. he has his final hearings in 2 months and idk what my real question is ig what should we expect? he’s not really “signing” more like both sides present their case and the judge will decide what she thinks is best. we have our hopes in probation so my baby can come home again with all things considered. he’s getting in the headspace of being more prone to irritability since the time is quickly approaching but he’s really level headed even tho people in there are stupid asf i’m so proud of him but he wants to come home and has good emotional regulation! but i know a person can only take so much so i understand his frustration. we just take it day by day and keep him busy til the countdown is over.

does anyone have any advice on what the weeks leading up to sentencing looks and feels like and i guess what to expect? were there any signs your lo was getting probation looking back? we never thought we’d be in this position but here we are and i truly love him so much he’s my best friend and the kindest soul. he feeds those who are hungry sometimes (that are kind and never make commissary he can’t help it) in there as he knows what it’s like to be truly hungry and i hate to see him in there and wish i could tell him more than same itll be over soon and reassuring words and keeping him busy

idk any words/advice helps thank you😭🫀