u/idontknowHow114

After a night out, i(19)had a one night stand with a guy (48) and after that we started chatting. I dont usually do one night stands but i rly liked this guy, until now.

I got a dm from some woman that i dont know, we didnt even had any shared friends, her text was just straight forward “ STOP FUCKING MY HUSBAND”, it took me good 10 min to understand that am a fucking home wrecker, her profile pic was her and three kids(i assume his) and in her bio was his initial.
My whole life i was against cheating and here i am.
I cant even look at the mirror even tho i know that am not guilty for anything bc i didnt knew, but still i feel sick to my stomach

I always dated older guys, but i never went over 42 and idk what to think about me dating a 50yo as a 19yo. We been texting for past 2 weeks and we gone on some dates but in dif city. Idk if i can tell anyone about him bc of the jugment. He also has 2 kids and both of them are older then me so i rly dont know.

Everything is so good about him, he cares, he listens and he is a rly good cook tbh. But am rly afraid of people comments, i know i shouldnt be but a 19yo dating divorced 50yo sounds sus for me even tho i am that 19yo.

I rly like him and i think i will continue to see him but mby he will be my secret.

Girls who are in ur 19/20s how would you deal with this, or guys in their 50

My ex(36m) is stalking me every day and i cant say anything. I broke up with him like 2 weeks ago and since then hes always waiting for me near my school or places i go every day. I cant report him to the police bc i never told my brother that i was with him(my brother is police officer) and i know that my ex wouldnt hurt me but its annoying seeing him every day after we broke up. The reason we broke up was bc am going to uni in september and i need to get ready for uni and life there and i dont do distance relatioship at all.