Not even sure why I'm posting, just want to share it with someone.
I'm a 49 year old "straight" guy. Divorced a few years ago have had some random hookups with women but nothing serious, and honestly, I'm not looking for anything serious. I do not find men attractive the way I find women attractive but the thought of being penetrated is a huge turn on.
I had a friend in HS that developed into a friends with benefits situation. The benefits were he got blowjobs and I got to swallow his load. It ended after high school and I never did it again (well once with a crossdresser a while back). Over the years I've bought toys for my backdoor, watched trans/CD porn and even bought some of my own lingerie and high heels to wear. Not a crossdresser, just enjoy the way of all feels.
Anyways, joined Grindr about a year ago, curious and horny. Hadn't met anyone I felt safe with until a few weeks ago. Found a gay guy who also enjoys lingerie, high heels, etc. We've agreed to meet next week and I'm beyond excited about it. Completely nervous but the thought of finally being a bottom has me more excited than I've been in a long time. He seems experienced and has said he'll lead and be patient.
I know how to properly prepare, looking at what my diet should be in the days ahead. Any other suggestions? I'm well groomed but should I shave back there? Any crazy secrets to make it more fun then first time?
Thanks for reading if you made it this far.