u/indecent_insomnia

We’re curious to know whether anyone has had bad experiences in the lifestyle, especially in India. We’re asking purely to be more aware of the risks involved and to understand how people handled situations that didn’t go well.

We’ve been in the lifestyle for around two years, though we’re not super active. So far, most of the people we’ve met have been respectful and our experiences have been largely positive. But we know that not every experience is perfect, and we’d like to learn from others so we all can stay safe and aware.

What kind of issues have you faced, and how did you deal with them?

I’m a married Indian woman from Kerala, and I have an No-face, NSFW profile on Reddit where we post a lot of explicit content.

I found out accidentally that one of my colleagues at work (we work together on a daily basis) follows my account here. Instead of staying quiet, or avoiding him here, I started replying to his messages in my DMs, and now I am hooked.

I sometimes send him pictures and videos of myself. Private ones. More revealing, more teasing, closeups etc. We have long, lovely, very dirty chats too. In return, he sends me videos of himself doing cum tributes to me. He opens up about his life, his marriage, and that he think of me while having sex with his wife.

What makes it really arousing is that he still has no idea it’s me. Every time we sit together for coffee or lunch, smiling and talking like normal colleagues, I feel an intense rush knowing he’s seen every intimate part of my body. He’s pleasured himself to me, shared his deepest fantasies, and confessed how much I occupy his mind...and that the conservative, professional woman sitting across from him is his secret obsession.

I have zero plans to ever act on it (safety first), but this secret fantasy has me dripping ever so slightly almost every single day now.

Just wanted to confess it here… because sharing it turns me on even more.

Anyone else get off on this kind of risky, secret exposure play? 😈