
u/jake11990

41M sub feeling horny
41M sub bored and horny. Spent the day looking for fun but sadly nothing materialised.
English chastity sub looking for a connection - please check out my profile for more info :)
41 [M4M] English sub looking for Dom friend #online #UK
About Me:
I’m a chastity-orientated submissive who likes structure, direction, psychological control and pleasing my Dom.
I’m looking for a younger, fit, confident Dominant bro/friend who enjoys taking the lead and building a dynamic that’s consistent and genuine. I value clarity, communication, and a connection built on trust rather than just quick interactions (**trust is essential**).
My Submissive Style:
I lean toward obedience-focused submission: following tasks, routines, and challenges that reinforce ownership and discipline. I’m driven by service and performance — I enjoy being given roles, tasks, and goals that strengthen the dynamic and help me stay aligned with my Dominant’s standards.
Interests & Kinks:
-Chastity (central to my submission; I respond well to long-term control, rules, and accountability).
-Poppers (make me very sub).
-Tasks / performance based play.
-Feet & socks (worship, service, objectification dynamics).
-Performance & ritualised obedience
-Worship dynamics (attention, devotion, and status-focused submission).
-Building a solid emotional and psychological connection, not just a casual exchange.
-I have started to explore light sissification.
-Anal/oral.
Limits / Boundaries:
-Hard exposure
-Blood, scat, or anything in that category
-No permanent harm
-Sounding
For me, a healthy dynamic is built on communication and mutual understanding.
What I’m looking for:
A younger, physically fit Dominant bro/friend who wants an online dynamic where they take meaningful authority — structure, tasks, check-ins, and psychological ownership. Someone who enjoys building a connection: not just controlling, but also guiding, shaping, and understanding the submissive they’re working with. This, whilst be a bro/friend by sharing other aspects of life.
I also need to see you. Not necessarily nudes, but I need a visual connection.
I have pics on my profile.
I am based in the UK so a compatible timezone is important (EU).
41M slim English chastity sub looking for connection.
Chastity-focused sub looking for a younger, fit, confident Dom friend for a long-term dynamic.
Into lots including: poppers, performance play, feet/socks worship, ritual obedience, exploring light sissification and more. My limits are the usual no scat, harm, sounding etc.
Trust + communication are essential.
UK based (compatible timezone needed). I have pics on my profile. I need a visual connection/attraction to a Dom, so I am not into anon and I like to see you.
Lots more info on my profile so please feel free to take a look.
Chastity-focused sub looking for a younger, fit, confident Dom friend.
Long-term dynamics only.
Into poppers, performance play, feet/socks worship, ritual obedience, and exploring light sissification.
Trust + communication are essential.
UK based (compatible timezone needed). Pics on profile. I need a visual connection/attraction to a Dom.
Recently had trust broken, so I’ll move slow — genuine person only, please :)
Lots more info on my profile so please feel free to take a look.
Chastity-focused sub looking for a younger, fit, confident Dom friend.
Long-term dynamics only.
Into poppers, performance play, feet/socks worship, ritual obedience, and exploring light sissification.
Trust + communication are essential.
UK based (compatible timezone needed). Pics on profile. I need a visual connection/attraction to a Dom.
Recently had trust broken, so I’ll move slow — genuine person only, please :)
Lots more info on my profile so please feel free to take a look.