41M sub feeling horny

41M sub bored and horny. Spent the day looking for fun but sadly nothing materialised.

u/jake11990 — 3 days ago

41 [M4M] English sub looking for Dom friend #online #UK

About Me:

I’m a chastity-orientated submissive who likes structure, direction, psychological control and pleasing my Dom.

I’m looking for a  younger, fit, confident Dominant bro/friend who enjoys taking the lead and building a dynamic that’s consistent and genuine. I value clarity, communication, and a connection built on trust rather than just quick interactions (**trust is essential**).

My Submissive Style:

I lean toward obedience-focused submission: following tasks, routines, and challenges that reinforce ownership and discipline. I’m driven by service and performance — I enjoy being given roles, tasks, and goals that strengthen the dynamic and help me stay aligned with my Dominant’s standards.

Interests & Kinks:

-Chastity (central to my submission; I respond well to long-term control, rules, and accountability).

-Poppers (make me very sub).

-Tasks / performance based play.

-Feet & socks (worship, service, objectification dynamics).

-Performance & ritualised obedience

-Worship dynamics (attention, devotion, and status-focused submission).

-Building a solid emotional and psychological connection, not just a casual exchange.

-I have started to explore light sissification.

-Anal/oral.

Limits / Boundaries:

-Hard exposure

-Blood, scat, or anything in that category

-No permanent harm

-Sounding

For me, a healthy dynamic is built on communication and mutual understanding.

What I’m looking for:

A younger, physically fit Dominant bro/friend who wants an online dynamic where they take meaningful authority — structure, tasks, check-ins, and psychological ownership. Someone who enjoys building a connection: not just controlling, but also guiding, shaping, and understanding the submissive they’re working with. This, whilst be a bro/friend by sharing other aspects of life. 

 I also need to see you. Not necessarily nudes, but I need a visual connection. 

I have pics on my profile. 

I am based in the UK so a compatible timezone is important (EU).

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u/jake11990 — 1 month ago

41M slim English chastity sub looking for connection.

Chastity-focused sub looking for a younger, fit, confident Dom friend for a long-term dynamic.

Into lots including: poppers, performance play, feet/socks worship, ritual obedience, exploring light sissification and more. My limits are the usual no scat, harm, sounding etc.

Trust + communication are essential.

UK based (compatible timezone needed). I have pics on my profile. I need a visual connection/attraction to a Dom, so I am not into anon and I like to see you.

Lots more info on my profile so please feel free to take a look.

u/jake11990 — 2 months ago

Chastity-focused sub looking for a younger, fit, confident Dom friend.

Long-term dynamics only.

Into poppers, performance play, feet/socks worship, ritual obedience, and exploring light sissification.

Trust + communication are essential.

UK based (compatible timezone needed). Pics on profile.  I need a visual connection/attraction to a Dom.

Recently had trust broken, so I’ll move slow — genuine person only, please :) 

Lots more info on my profile so please feel free to take a look. 

u/jake11990 — 4 months ago

Chastity-focused sub looking for a younger, fit, confident Dom friend.

Long-term dynamics only.

Into poppers, performance play, feet/socks worship, ritual obedience, and exploring light sissification.

Trust + communication are essential.

UK based (compatible timezone needed). Pics on profile. I need a visual connection/attraction to a Dom.

Recently had trust broken, so I’ll move slow — genuine person only, please :)

Lots more info on my profile so please feel free to take a look.

u/jake11990 — 4 months ago