u/jakeekaj_

Hello all,

I, 30m, and my fiancé, 24f, have recently dove deeper into the world of femdom! It has been an absolute thrill and I finally feel like I get to truly be myself!

With that being said, I am looking for advice on some things:

1. We’ve been buying toys and gear, what are some must haves that are not thought about? For reference we have a harness and a few dildos, plugs, vibes, basic BDSM stuff, a cage she is dying to get me in, but what would you say has been a nice surprise?

2. I recently came out as bisexual to her and have been exploring my lingerie/panty addiction, but I do not identify as sissy/femboy; what are some good sites other than Amazon to purchase men’s lingerie?

3. I have been on a weight loss journey the last few years and have regained confidence in myself and my body through out this experience, is there any diet must haves as a switch bottom?

Thank you for any answers!