u/jasonaa6969

So my sister in law and I (my wife’s sister) have always been close. We’re only a few years apart by age, and her and my wife are pretty close so we have spent a lot of time together over the years. She’s always been flirty, free spirited, and attractive, so obviously there have been *thoughts* but nothing beyond that.

One day we were out drinking, and my wife had to step away so we stayed out. She keeps telling me about this guy she’s dating and how he’s the best. She goes to show me a picture of him, but when she turns the phone it’s on one of her nudes. I quickly looked away and said “wrong one” and she just looked at me and said “no that’s right”. So of course I looked again.

Then the crazy thing happens. She says she needs to go to the bathroom, but leaves her phone. Before she walks away she says “you can look for more” and goes.

I didn’t end up looking but every time I see her now I wish I had.

I’ve been married going on 4 years now, and generally speaking, we are happy! I’ve always had a crazy high sex drive compared to my wife, so instead of pressing her for more, I come on here to blow off steam.

Not looking to change my situation, just looking for fun, flirty, (and sometimes filthy) conversations with people in a similar situation.

So a few weeks ago, I received a random follow on TikTok. This happens from time to time so didn’t think anything of it, but after not responding for a few days I got the same notification again- which basically means then retracted the invite and resent it. This caught my attention.

I clicked on the profile and it was private, so I decided to follow back. I was almost instantly “accepted”. And fuck.

This account has one post. The thumbnail is a black screen with yellow text “hi Jason! 🧡”. Obviously I’m confused and a little freaked out so I click into the post and start swiping through the slides- and it’s just a bunch of lingerie, teasing, underwear and bra pics from one of my wife’s friends. Not like her close friend or best friend or anything- but like friend of a friend. I’ve met her a few times and we’ve chatted when we crossed paths, but this was a COMPLETE surprise.

We’ve been messaging and flirting and all that but I’m really wondering what I should do next? It’s all stayed virtual/ over the phone but should I take the next step and meet up?