Hi, thank you for clicking on this post! ☺️ If this is still up then I’m still looking.
Doms age 28-37 only. Preferably in the PNW (I’m mostly in Oregon) but I might be open to relocating. I don’t drink, smoke or do drugs of any kind and prefer my partner doesn’t either. A drink on occasion is okay. I also would like to be a mom in the future so I’m open to marriage and children with the right person. This is something I will not compromise on.
Here’s a bit about me:
I’m a 27 year old female sub, about 5’6, feminine body type. I’m strong, fit and athletic but also curvy in the right places and take my health very seriously. I’m fairly introverted and shy but when comfortable I have a bubbly sunshine and rainbows type of personality that tends to lean on the cute side. I’m also extremely loyal and dedicated. I thrive on rules and schedules and take time for growth and introspection. As a sub, I am naturally submissive and obedient. Like a little lamb lost in the wood, I would always be good to the shepherd who watches over me. I have absolutely no desire to be a brat, but I am intentional and discerning with who I submit to.
Being active is a big part of my life and prefer someone who values that as well. I run very regularly and I love lifting, pilates and yoga. I also just love being out in nature and going hiking or just long walks. I’m a bit of a book worm (mostly classic novels, plays and philosophy). I’m into hobbies like crocheting, painting, and writing novels. I used to be a baker for a few years so I’m decent at baking and cooking. I make sourdough weekly with my appropriately named starter, Poof. I’m also vegan (14 years now and don’t see that ever changing) but I don’t impose that on anyone. I’m perfectly fine with making non vegan meals and being with someone who isn’t vegan. And I have two cats that I love so much. I would love to have a dog someday, preferably a large breed.
I absolutely love music and pretty much any genre. I’m definitely a music nerd 😅 I just like music that makes you feel something. My top genres are classical, jazz, rap and r&b. I’m not much of a movie/tv watcher in general. Maybe I need someone to watch with 😉 I’m old fashioned, but I don’t mind it. That’s how I want to be as long as you agree to stay old fashioned with me. But my all time favorite tv show is Seinfeld. I could watch it on repeat.
For work, I’m a professional classical musician and I teach a bit too. I have done a fair bit of traveling as a musician and bounce around the PNW quite often for gigs. I’ve been on tour across Europe and played in some of the best symphony halls in the world and it was seriously a beautiful experience that I’ll never forget and hope to do again. I would love to travel more in general and see as many countries as I can.
What I’m looking for:
I’m a romantic so I gotta be honest that I’m looking for that feeling of when you walk my way a thousand violins begin to play. But realistically, I’m looking for a caring, stable, patient, and growth oriented partner for a long-term monogamous relationship built on trust, clear communication, and honesty that will lead into an eventual 24/7 TPE dynamic. I’m looking for something genuine and someone who shows up consistently and reciprocates what I give. I move slowly and vet with intention. Respect, consent, and emotional maturity are non-negotiable. If you’re not looking for something real, we won’t be a match. I have no tolerance for manipulation, dishonesty, or abuse disguised as dominance.
I don’t engage in casual play. I need emotional foundation and some level of commitment before anything physical happens. For me, it’s not just about kinky sex, it’s so much deeper than that. And the best way I can describe BDSM and submitting to a Dom I trust is that it feels like standing in front of a thunderstorm behind a protective shield. It’s strength without instability. Authority without cruelty. Intensity balanced by care. And with the right Dom, it’s the kind of power that inspires surrender through trust, not fear. His presence commands my focus because he is grounded, compassionate, upholds accountability and is a person of integrity.
It’s important to me that you are able to understand that your power is a responsibility, not just a privilege. True leadership is not about putting me in a box and limiting my potential. It’s about guiding and supporting the direction of my life to create a space for me to safely grow into my own authentic self. Submission never means self erasure. It means choosing to trust, respect, and follow someone who protects and values every aspect of me.
Physically, I’m not that picky as long as you take good care of yourself, stay active, and dress nice. I do like beards though 🤭Physical attraction is important but it means nothing if we’re not attracted to each other’s minds and who we are as people.
Kinks:
Freeuse, orgasm control, bondage, cock worship, and I’m into CNC in appropriate times. I’m generally open to discussing and exploring anything as long as it’s safe and doesn’t leave any permanent marks and has been agreed upon beforehand.
Limits:
Nothing illegal or dangerous, no blood play, no permanent marks and nothing involving scat or anything like that. Degradation/humiliation is limited and must be discussed in detail.
If you’re interested in something with me, tell me a bit about yourself and what you value in a dynamic, how you lead, and what kind of connection you’re seeking. If we talk for a while and you don’t think we’ll work out, be upfront and tell me and I will do the same. Thanks for reading and I hope to hear from you! ☺️
P.S. I referenced three songs in this post. Curious if anyone noticed them. If you did, I’d like to hear what your favorite recordings are!