Started with giving brother dating advice
I’ve submitted this post to another incest subreddit that’s SFW, so I figured I’d post on this one since it’s gay and I can keep certain details in. I’m honestly just trying to find people who’ve had similar experiences, and please feel free to drop some encouragement or advice. While I love chatting with open-minded guys, I only want to ask that guys with real experience respond or dm for further info. I want genuine advice, not to hear about your incest fantasy or kink.
So this all started about a year ago. My brother (20M) was going through a breakup, and I (27M) was there to support him. We grew up pretty close since we were both closeted gay guys in a deeply religious family. In May of 2025, the whole family met up at my parents’ house to celebrate my mom’s birthday. That’s when he told me about the breakup, and we talked for about an hour about it. I gave him advice from my experience with my past relationships, and he seemed pretty grateful. Starting that night, we began texting a lot more than we had been. It almost turned into a nightly routine where when we got into our beds, we’d text each other since we lived about an hour away from each other.
As we began texting more, we began talking about the type of guys we found attractive, what roles we played in relationships, etc. And slowly it was kinda becoming obvious that we were each other’s type. Eventually this normal talk somehow became us flirting with each other. Eventually he brought up my dick size, basically wondering how big it was. With about a minute of thinking, I pulled up Snapchat and sent him a pic of it. And thankfully, he was very impressed. That led to an exchange of pics back and forth. Then finally one night around late June of 2025, I invited him over for the weekend to hangout. Needless to say, that weekend was our first time having sex. We swapped head, and I topped him.
The next day was almost a repeat of the night before. We just hung out (surprisingly things weren’t that awkward) then eventually hooked up again that night. And ever since, we’ve been meeting up about once a month to continue our little rendezvous. So this has been going on for a year, and I’m a bit nervous to talk to him and see where all this is going. It’s almost gotten to the point where if I start seeing someone else, it’ll almost feel like another breakup even though we’re not dating. Any encouragement or advice about next steps would be great.