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My wife has always been open about her sexual past so I know a lot about her ex's and she knows it turns me on. Last night we were out to eat and I told her one of my friends just got diagnosed with a medical condition. She started talking about it like she was an expert. I asked how she knew so much and she said from the Dr. she dated for almost a year before we met. I joked by asking "did he he injected the knowledge in you or did you talk about it". (This guy she has always referred to as the asshole with the nice cock attached.) We laughed and moved on to another topic.

When we got home she led me to the bedroom right away and we started aggressively undressing each other. I went down on her and paused long enough to ask if she was so horny because she was thinking about her ex's cock and she only moaned. She came pretty quickly and then climbed on top of me. She can easily cum riding and grinding on me so she had 2 more orgasms before I came.

We laid back and she reached for her vibrator and I told her to hand me the "sex toy box". We have a lot. I grabbed the biggest dildo we have which is maybe 8" long and pretty girthy, in fact I can't quite get my thumb and middle finger to touch when I wrap my hand around it. I didn't even need to lube it up, it went right in. I started moving it in and out and asking her if it was as big as her ex's cock and she said yes. During this time she was stimulating her clit with her vibrator. I started moving the dildo in and out a little faster and telling her to take that big cock and she began orgasming harder and longer than I have ever seen her before. When she finally caught her breath, after a few minutes, she couldn't stop talking about how incredible that orgasm was. I'm definitely adding this to my arsenal.

Preface: My wife has never been shy telling me about her sexual past. In fact it probably started about our 3rd date and she doesn't back away from any question I ask her.

After my wife got a divorce she had a bit of a slutty streak for 10 years before we got together. A week after her divorce was final a friend took her out to celebrate. They ended up at a bar and a (still) popular local band was playing. She locked eyes with the singer at some point and during a break he came over and sat next to her and bought them drinks. She was 34 at the time and he was very early 20's. He asked if they were sticking around and she told him they were but shortly after they started playing again her friend said she was heading home, she was still married. She told her before she left not to do anything crazy.

When they finished he came to the table and another band took the stage. They were playing another set after them so he was going to be there until 1 am. They went outside to get "some air" and almost immediately locked lips. Things got heavy and she told him if they weren't at the bar she would eat him up. He led her to their tour van and they got in the back and tore each others clothes off and fucked like crazy she said. After they were done she told him she was heading home. They didn't exchange numbers, she thought he was way too young.

Several months later she saw them again at a different bar (not intentionally) and this time they were finished at 10 and she went back to his apartment and spent the night. She told me he could recover and be ready to go in less than 5 minutes so she is not sure how many times they fucked that night but she admitted they ran out of condoms and she screwed him raw.

This band is still going and we have seen them together twice. She pointed him out and told me this story the first time we saw them. During the break she said hi to him and they had just a quick cordial conversation like they knew each other from work He was married with kids and she was there so the conversation was pretty short you could tell he was nervous. When she sat down she told me he is still hot. I asked if they both weren't married if she would screw him again and she said yes without hesitation. My disk was hard the rest of the night.

After my wife was divorced she went through 12 guys during the 8 years before we met as well as a 3 one night stands. She actually got set up on a date once with a guy who was recently divorced. He had only had sex with his wife who he started dating in high school. He caught her cheating. On their first date he talked a lot about how devastated he was over the divorce, so much that my wife decided she was not going to see him again. Anyway he called a few days later and asked for a do over so they met for some drinks. This time he didn't talk at all about his ex but he also didn't have a lot to say and was pretty awkward. Again she decided she was done seeing him and even told him she had a nice time but didn't think they were a match.

About a month went by and he called her and asked if they could go on a picnic at a local state park and reluctantly she agreed. This time she could tell he had been practicing what to talk about and conversation was a little easier. She decided to make a move on him and leaned in for a kiss. He seemed really nervous but eventually relaxed. She said things progressed rapidly, and even though she felt no chemistry she led him by the hand to a small storm shelter near their picnic spot. She laid the blanket on the floor and they ended up having sex but he only lasted about 4 thrusts. She said he was so embarrassed and visibly upset he started to cry. She reassured him everything was ok. She never heard from him again and she was glad. She admitted she only had sex with him because she felt sorry for him.

I asked my wife if she would tell me about the most times she had sex in a day and with who. She said she can definitely remember the most times she had sex in a weekend. She went to a wedding, she was a bridesmaid for a good friend, in Kansas City with a guy she had only been dating about 3-4 months. This is what she told me from what I remember.

• She gave him a a blowjob in the car on the way to KC and swallowed
• The fucked as soon as they walked in the hotel room and they were late to the rehearsal dinner
• After the rehearsal dinner they all took a bus to a bar and he fingered her on the bus.
• Fucked when they got back to the hotel.
• Fucked in the morning.
• Met the wedding party for brunch, she thinks they fucked in the shower while getting ready after. Said they definitely did at some point that weekend.
• Went to take photos in a park and blew him again in the car on the way to the wedding venue.
• She got really drunk at the reception and was rubbing his cock on the dance floor. They fucked in a small closet standing up at the reception venue (she is pretty sure the grooms father caught them coming out).
• Back to the hotel after, practically tore each others clothes off in the elevator on the way to the room, and fucked again.
• Fucked again in the morning. She thinks he may have even woke her up in the middle of the night once that weekend.
• Pulled over on a dirt road (we have done this) and fucked during the 6 hour drive home
• Fucked when they got home.

She thinks that was all but may have missed something. I believe her because when we go on vacation or weekend trips she is insatiable.

My wife told me this weekend that her first long term boyfriend she thought she was going to get married to broke up with her because she told him she didn't want to do anal sex anymore. Apparently he loved fucking her in the ass and even though she didn't really enjoy it she used to let him.

One time he was fucking her in the ass particularly hard and tore her asshole. After that she told him she didn't want to do it anymore. A few weeks later he broke up with her.

We have never done it and to be honest I'm not in to it anyway but one time she was super horny and told me I could do whatever I wanted to her even fuck her in the ass. We did do some freaky shit that night but not anal.

Ne Year's Eve 2013. My wife was freshly divorced from her first husband and she went back to her hometown for the holidays. Her and three of her friends went out for NYE to a new bar, they arrived around 10pm, and went straight to the dance floor. Long story short they ended up meeting some guys, kissed at midnight then her and two of her friends went back to one guys place. Eventually they all split up into separate rooms and the guys she was with practically tore her clothes off. She said looking back it was almost a little rapey. They ended up fucking on the couch and the other friends went into bedrooms with their guys. According to her they each gave each other oral, she rode him cowgirl, he bent her over the arm of the couch and they fucked missionary. One of her friends and the guys she was with walked in on them while she was sucking his cock to get a drink of water in the bathroom and she didn't stop. They fucked again in the shower in the morning and she left, never saw him again.

So my wife of 3 years has always been very open about her previous sex life and she knows I love hearing about her stories and there has been many. Last night I heard a new one that she for some reason she was afraid to admit to me. She had denied having any one night stands until a few years ago when she finally fessed up to having one when she was in grad school. Then last night she fessed up to another one.

We both did an on-line dating service and that is how we met. She had been single for about 10 months and she had been on many dates that went no where. She was getting fed up with the guys she was matching with. One night she confessed to her neighbor who she was good friends with that she really missed having sex but was about ready to give up trying to find someone. Her neighbor suggested Tinder and they made her a profile that night and she had several guys reach out immediately.

The first guy she met lived in town and she met up with him buy politely told him she was not interested when she immediately saw his profile photos were at least 10 years old or more. The next night she decided to meet a guy that lived about 2 hours away. They met half way and even though she thought he was too cocky and kind of a jerk he was good looking and they got a hotel and fucked. She said the sex was pretty good and they spent the night and had sex a couple times. He kept wanting to fuck her in the ass but she wouldn't let him but she gave him a blowjob and he was pretty decent at eating her pussy (she said I'm better). They did it in a lot of positions and in the morning they fucked in the shower. They exchanged numbers and she told him maybe they could do it again.

The very next day we matched and went on a date, on a Wednesday, and really hit it off. Earlier that day she had got a text from her Tinder guy to see if she could meet up that weekend and she told him yes. At the end of our date I asked her if she was available to go on a date that weekend and she said yes and ended up cancelling her meetup with the Tinder guy. I told her it would have been hot if she fucked him before our date and she laughed.

When my wife and I are out together on a date sometimes we like to play games like never have I ever or truth or dare. Stupid games like that. She knows I have a hotpast kink and she has been very open with me but I do still find out new things. When I say she is open I mean sometimes even in the presence of friends she will talk openly about sex with previous boyfriends knowing I’m sitting next to her with a hard-on.

The last time we played 3 weeks ago the question was have you ever had grudge sex. I hadn’t but she told me about I guy, I already know plenty about, that she dated after her divorce from her previous husband. He proposed 3 months into their relationship and she said no because she needed more time. She told me she probably would have married him if they stayed together 3-4 years before he proposed because she really liked him. She told him if he wanted to date other people he could because she didn’t want to deprive him of finding a wife since he seemed to be in a hurry.

They stayed together but mostly as “fuck buddies” because he was good in bed but something happened when she said no that changed the way he acted as far as pursuing her. This went on for almost 2 years. During this time she was going to talk to him about giving their relationship more attention and making it something more than it currently was. She had been thinking about it too long apparently because he told her he met someone else and they had been dating a few weeks (during which time they were still fucking).

She broke off them seeing each other and parted on good terms. He came over a few months later and told her he was getting married but he told her he would not do it if she told him she loved him and if she could see a future with them together but she obviously didn’t like that ultimatum.

She wasn’t sure who initiated, she thinks it just happened, but they were suddenly on each other there in the living room and they tore each others clothes off and had sex. She said she had carpet burns because they were almost wrestling each other and told me it was like they raped each other. He ended up spending the night and they did it a few more times each time it was aggressive like that.

The next day he proposed to his new girlfriend and they are married to this day.

I have heard several times how big my wife's ex-husband is. She told me sex was not pleasurable because he would often hit her cervix if he was not careful. I don't really buy that but whatever. Anyway yesterday he came to pick up their kid's and he came to the door and I answered. He never comes to the door but he said he forgot his cell phone at home so he couldn't call to let them know he was there. I have never seen him in anything other than jeans but he was wearing board shorts this time and obviously no underwear. You could see the outline and holy shit it's a freak of nature. Now I can't get the image out of my head.

My ex-wife and I lived a hotwife marriage for 14 of the 23 years we were together. I am remarried now and I have brought up the idea of watching my wife fuck another guy and it's always met with not going to happen. I have never brought it up during sex though.

Last night I told her I was having dirty thoughts about her all day and we ended up in bed. While we were fucking she asked what I was thinking about all day and I told her I was thinking about her getting fucked from behind over the kitchen table. She told me that was hot and asked if I had someone particular in mind and I said no but asked her if she did. She told me she is thinking about her old neighbor. During her divorce she was having a short fling with him (he was married). She asked me if I was watching and I said I was sitting at the table. She really started playing into it moaning and saying how good it felt having him fuck her. With that I busted a nut loud. She said wow that really turned you on.

We didn't talk really further about that but I hope we do it again. This is how it started with my first wife and after a few years it became a reality.

When my wife and I met and first started having sex one night she offered me a handjob because she was having her period and didn't want to have sex. She started out with just her hand but then she got in her bedside table and dug something out from her box of toys. It was dark so I didn't actually know what she was doing until she started doing it. It felt good and it didn't sink in until after I came so I asked why she had that. She told me she bought it at a sex toy party for her ex and yes she used to use it on him. They broke up about 3 months before we started dating and he lived with her for 3 years. Back then it freaked me out a little and she threw it away. Now I wish she kept it. We still sleep on the mattress he fucked her on.

Every so often my wife will say something about how hung her ex-husband was. She has explained it before that it is like a seltzer can but 1-1/2 times longer. I measured one and that means it is 6.5" around and 9-10" long. She said could not get close to getting her finger and thumb to touch and he couldn't go all the way in without hitting her cervix (which she said was painful for her). She preferred riding on top because then she could control the depth easier. Saturday we were going out to eat and she said something about what an asshole he was and I said "well he must have been great in bed" and she replied "the only thing he had going for him was he was hung like a horse".

I told her I can picture him bending her over his desk at work (they had a work affair, he was married at the time). She said that happened a lot. She did say in the beginning she could only have sex with him once a day or every other day because she would be sore until she got used to it.