G’day everyone,

I don’t mean that in a sexual way—or that I can somehow read someone’s entire history just by touching them.

But sometimes, when a bloke first lies on my table, his whole body seems braced for something. His shoulders are raised, his breathing is shallow, and even when I ask him to relax, it’s almost as though his body has forgotten how.

Then, slowly, something changes.

His shoulders drop. His breathing deepens. He stops worrying about what his body looks like, how it might react, or whether he is doing something wrong.

Sometimes, I think men go a very long time without being touched in a way that asks nothing from them.

We shake hands. We slap each other on the back. We might have sex. But gentle, patient touch—with no pressure to perform, impress or give something back—can be surprisingly rare.

Some blokes apologise for being nervous. Others apologise for their stomach, their body hair, their scars or simply for taking a while to relax.

But you never need to apologise for any of that on my table.
I don’t think wanting human touch makes someone weak, lonely or strange. I think it makes them human.

And sometimes, you don’t realise how much you needed it until your body finally lets go.

Have a good one,

Pat

G’day everyone!

As I shared a little while ago, a super good looking Taiwanese guy recently reached out, asking if I was hiring. Now, he’s my new four-hands partner!

We have done a couple of massages together so far. For the first one, he was a little nervous, but the client had a great time.

Fast forward a bit to a couple of days ago, and we did our first four-hands massage together with… some extras.

I was a little bit nervous for some reason. And he had to go to the toilet a couple of times before we got started, so I could tell he was a little nervous too…

I said, “If you feel uncomfortable at any time, or want to stop, please let me know”. “Okay,” he said.

He took a deep breath & we went in, and got the job done ;). Very nicely, too, if I might add.

Anyway, 90 minutes later, we emerge from the massage studio to allow the client to get dressed. Joey has a huge smile on his face, and says, “That was really fun!”

“Sweet. Let’s have more fun together in the future, then!”

I was so relieved. I enjoy working with Joey & I didn’t want to scare him off! And now that I know he’s good with extras… the sky’s the limit!

If you want to have some fun this weekend with us, feel free to reach out. Joey is available after 3:30pm on weekdays, and all day weekends.

He’s massaged before, and his technique is actually pretty good! I’m offering a special price (save 75) while I’m still showing him the ropes, but after that, we’ll be back to the usual price.

Hope to hear from you & hope you have a lovely weekend!

Cheers

Pat

G’day everyone,

I love Queensland, but growing up as a gay kid here in the 90s wasn’t easy. And I’m from a bit out in the sticks, so you can imagine what things were like there.

Long story short, I just resigned myself to the “fact” that I’d never experience love or have a family, and so I poured everything I had into my career at the time.

I got used to living as someone who wasn’t my authentic self. And although I did have happy moments, living as someone you are not long-term gets you down.

One night, I stumbled across an ad online. M2M massage — nude. I couldn’t stop thinking about it. How would I react to a man with his hands all over my body? What if I did something stupid and embarrassed myself? What if my you-know-what is too small and he’ll laugh at me? What if someone finds out, or follows me?

My heart was racing as I made my way to the address. My hands were shaking as I handed over the cash. And as I removed my clothes and got down on the massage table, I felt like I was going to faint.

But then, maybe after about ten minutes, I realised something. I was feeling good. I’d felt good before, but this was something else.

It felt right. It felt like what I had always needed. I felt light. It was as if there had always been something a bit off, or that something had always been missing. And now I’d found the piece to the puzzle.

From that day on, life was easier. I didn’t come rushing out of the closet — that would still take years. It was easier because I knew that there was somewhere and someone I could go to be myself, even just for an hour or 90 minutes every other week.

Life wasn’t just easier though, it was less scary too. Part of life is learning who you are and coming to terms with it. I had always been afraid of how I would react to being with a man. Would I feel guilt? Would I feel regret? Is it even safe to be gay?

When you face your fears and come out the other side, it makes you a stronger person. I was afraid of myself and my emotions. So taking that step, meeting a stranger, and getting a sensual massage helped me overcome a number of fears and put me on the road to living genuinely as my authentic self today.

I saw my massage guy for years, and I’ve mentioned here before that we still keep in touch.

I remember one night, after the massage had finished, he asked if I smoked. I said I did, and he went and got one. We sat on the floor naked, smoking a cigarette while we chatted about life.

It was so liberating. Society convinces us that there are many, many taboos in life. So far, I reckon, most of those are just mental blocks to stop us having fun and enjoying life.

So, you don’t necessarily have to see me — there are other guys in Brisbane offering gay sensual massage — but if you are a closeted gay or bi person, I really do encourage you to challenge your limits and give yourself (your mind and body) a moment to be itself before you decide whether or not you’ll stay closeted.

Because you should have all of the perspectives and information available before you decide that life would be easier hidden.

Life does feel so much better when you just be you. It takes a little getting used to… and I reckon that fear I felt at my first sensual massage wasn’t necessarily fear, it was just that I was feeling things that I had never felt, and it felt foreign.

So, take it from someone who grew up around very conservative people and was deathly afraid of how I would survive living as my true self, life on the other side of coming out is so, so, so much better.

Anyway, just wanted to share these thoughts with everyone. Hope you found them interesting or maybe even helpful.

Have a lovely week!

Cheers
Pat

G’day everyone,

It’s a privilege to be trusted by so many blokes in Brisbane through my sensual massage business. But I have to admit, it also feels like a bit of a feather in my cap when guys reach out and say they’d like to work with me!

A couple of weeks ago, I received a message from a Taiwanese bloke named Joey, asking whether I was hiring. I’m a one-man show, so I’m never really hiring—but I’m always on the lookout for good four-hands partners.

Joey asked if I’d meet him, so I did. And wow… he is handsome. But he’s also very humble, which I reckon makes an attractive person even more attractive.

Tonight, we did our first four-hands session together for one of my regulars. And let’s just say… Joey is even more impressive with his jocks off. 😂

He has massage experience, but he’s new to this particular style.

He did very well tonight, and I reckon he enjoyed himself too!

For a limited time, I’ll be offering four-hands sessions with Joey for a special price per hour.

He’s available Monday to Friday from 3pm, as well as all day Saturday and Sunday.

DM me if you’d like to know more or make a booking!

Cheers

Pat

G’day everyone,

So, I’ve been thinking again. Thinking about why M2M massage still carries so much stigma. Or massage in general, for some.

So many animals groom one another. They lie together, comfort each other and use physical closeness to build trust. Why does touch become complicated or shameful when humans do it?

Part of me feels that we are all lacking human touch. We are alone in this universe, and thanks to gravity, we feel the weight of it on our shoulders all day.

At the same time, the media constantly promotes the idea that “sex sells”. We are told to spend money becoming fitter, younger, smoother and more attractive. But we are also taught that touching another person—or wanting to be touched—is somehow taboo.

Is the message that people are allowed to look, but not touch?
Why do some people feel guilty simply because they enjoyed being touched?

I often meet nervous clients. They don’t know how they will feel during the massage, or how they will feel about themselves afterwards. I think much of that nervousness comes from the conditioning we have received: the idea that touch must always be sexual, naughty or something to feel ashamed of.

But I believe we were meant to be closer to one another. Sometimes, all a tired body needs is a little warmth and closeness with another human being.

Touch also requires trust. Most people are decent, kind and respectful, but many of us are afraid that if we show vulnerability, somebody will take advantage of it. So we protect ourselves. We stay tense. We keep our distance, even when part of us desperately wants to feel safe enough to let go.

That’s what I want my massage space to offer.

Come to me for a massage and a chat. Let yourself be vulnerable for a little while. I won’t take advantage of that vulnerability, and I won’t judge you. I want to remind you that it is okay to touch and to be touched—with trust, respect, communication and clear boundaries.

In fact, I think healthy human touch can be deeply comforting.
Whenever you need it, I’ll be your safe space. No judgement and no pressure. Just some time to breathe, relax and be yourself.

Have a lovely weekend.

Cheers
Pat

G’day everyone!

I am available all day today and tomorrow in Woolloongabba.

- Easy & free street parking
- Discreet location & no standing by a door on a busy street
- I’m a certified therapist with 10+ years of experience
- Respectful, clean, private & hygienic (always fresh towels)
- 30-min to 90-min bookings available
- Deep tissue/acupressure/sensual

Reach out for more information or if you would like to make a booking!

*$50 deposit required for four hands bookings

Cheers
Pat

G’day everyone!

My name’s Pat & I am a certified massage therapist with 10+ years of experience.

I can do deep tissue, relaxation, acupressure… and sensual.

So if you’d like to kill two birds with one stone: get a very decent massage with some fun at the end, then I’m your guy.

Based near Woolloongabba Rotary Park. Easy parking. Quiet location. Reach out if you’d like to know more :)

Cheers
Pat

G’day everyone!

The most popular extra people add to my massages is a body slide. I usually charge an additional $50 for this, but throughout August, I’m trialling something new.

I know things are tough at the moment and everyone is trying to save a dollar or two. So, I thought I’d introduce a new package to help my regulars—and anyone who has been wanting to give it a try—save a little.

My August Body Slide Massage prices are:
30 minutes — $130
45 minutes — $165
60 minutes — $180
90 minutes — $230

It’s the same great massage, with a body slide included—saving you up to $20.

Available throughout August. Feel free to message me if you have any questions or would like to make a booking 😊

Available: Saturdays (pre-bookings only, check for last-minute cancellations), Sundays, Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays (pre-bookings only), and Friday afternoons from 4pm.

I am sometimes available on Saturdays and Thursdays, so feel free to text and check (0423340238).

Have a good one!

-Pat 👍🤲🤝

I grew up in the 90s. I remember my grandma saying something like, “You don’t know how lucky you are to live in a world that will never see war again”.

And yet, here we are in 2026, and although my grandma had the best of intentions, we can rest assured knowing she never went into fortune telling.

Wars. Interest rates. Culture wars. Inflation. Social media. Bills. Deadlines. Unexpected expenses. Life.

Sometimes, I get a bit stressed too. If things have been a little quiet, I start to spend more conservatively. I don’t take care of myself as much as I should.

And then a mate who also does massage sends a message and asks: wanna exchange today?

Phew. Yes. It was exactly what I needed. It helped reset me, both physically and mentally. After a shower, I was tuckered down at the kitchen table, paying bills & catching up with things I had missed or had been procrastinating over.

And then I say to myself, you’ve gotta do this more often. But ai never do.

Yes, a massage is a luxury, especially in the current climate. But you’d be surprised at how much more productive & mentally prepared you are & ready to face reality you feel after a decent one.

I’m available all weekend, and this evening. Reach out if you’d like to know more about the massage services I provide.

Both sensual and relaxation/deep-tissue available. Woolloongabba home studio with easy parking in a quiet & discreet location. Certified Aussie massage therapist in Brisbane (gay-friendly).

Cheers,
Pat

I’m a good boy, I didn’t start providing this type of massage here until it was legalised. Thanks, QLD Government, you changed my life. Haha.

Anyway, I had been massaging on and off for about ten years. I’d been overseas, and started massaging after returning home.

After a bit, and when it became legal to do so, I started offering sensual massage for blokes. Bit of a lane change there!

In my work, most of the time you don’t know what the person is going to be like when they turn up. They could be my type, or the exact opposite. They could be nervous, or shy, or very talkative.

And I used to get very nervous around people who both were and weren’t my type. I used to feel a bit strange, getting very intimate with another person that I wasn’t physically attracted to. And I’d feel a bit self-conscious around the people that were cup of tea.

But now, what attracts me has changed.

I used to have a very defined type. I won’t share what that type is here, but it was pretty consistent & narrow. And it was kind of… superficial.

But now?

I find that both confidence and the ability to allow oneself to be vulnerable in front of another are what attract me now. I’ve come to realise that we are all just souls and brains attached to spinal cords & packaged in different bodies, made up of flesh and bone. Some big, some small, some good looking, and some with scars that could tell stories for days.

I find the mind attractive. Confidence. Manners. And vulnerability attractive. Regardless of the package these traits might come in.

Anyway, just wanted to share this.

Have a good one,
Pat

😇

Thank you for respecting my time and not running in circles while texting me

Thank you for mostly being on time, and if not, a couple of minutes early

Thank you for respecting my boundaries & appreciating when I respect yours

Thank you for smelling nice!

Thank you for sharing your life stories with me, and your opinions. We might not always agree, but I certainly appreciate hearing them

Thank you for using manners. They are a huge turn on for me

Thank you for being gentle, it feels nice to be able to share and receive closeness

Thank you for coming back again and again, it is the biggest complement I could ever receive

Thank you for allowing yourself to be vulnerable in front of me

Thank you for being a gentleman

Thank you for understanding that no means no without further explanation

Thank you for texting once you’ve parked. I know we’ll have a great session because you’re a good communicator

Thanks for asking to extend the time. I can’t always make it happen, but every time you ask it puts a smile of my face

Thanks for the big hug as you walk out the door. It feels good for both of us

Thank you for being you. Thank you for following me on Reddit, and if you’ve seen me before: thanks for coming & I sincerely do hope I will see you again!

Thank you to all of my wonderful clients: It feels like I have so many good mates :)

Cheers,

Pat

G’day everyone,

A lot of my clients tell me the same thing before their first booking:

“I’ve never done anything like this before.”
“I’m a bit nervous.”
“I don’t know what to expect.”

Honestly… that’s completely normal.

When I first started massage full time, I assumed people were mainly looking for a good massage. Over time, I realised many people are actually looking for something else first: clarity & certainty.

They want to know where to park. Whether they’ll be greeted at the door. Whether they have to make awkward conversation. Whether they can just relax in silence. Whether they’ll feel judged.

So I put together this little step-by-step guide showing exactly what it’s like to visit me & my four-hands partner Jo if he’s available.

No surprises. No pressure. No awkwardness.

Just a calm, private, judgement-free experience where you can switch off for a while and let someone look after you for a change.

If you’ve been thinking about booking but have been feeling a little nervous, hopefully this gives you a better idea of what to expect.

And if you still have questions after reading it, my inbox is always open. 😊

Cheers
Pat

G’day everyone!

I’m available from 9am to 11pm Saturday and 12 midday to 1am Sunday. Also available all day Monday for those with long weekends every weekend.

I’m a little slow to reply to messages on here, so please text: 0423340238 (same for WhatsApp).

Easy & free street parking, quiet & discreet location. Certified therapist.

I’ve noticed something over the past year.

Before I started doing M2M massage full time, I think I saw people the way most of us do.

We’d make assumptions based on how someone looked, how confident they seemed, what job they had, how masculine they appeared, whether they were covered in tattoos, drove a nice car, or looked like they had everything together.

Now? I’m not so sure any of that tells us very much.

One of the strange things about massage is that you meet people at a very different level than most professions. Within minutes, you’re often sharing the same quiet space. People relax. Their guard comes down. Conversations become surprisingly honest.

The tough guy sometimes turns out to be incredibly gentle.

The quiet guy can have the funniest sense of humour.

The bloke who looks like he has life completely sorted is sometimes carrying more stress than anyone else.

And some of the men I expected to be the most confident are actually the ones who are the most nervous simply about receiving kindness.

I’ve realised that almost every man is carrying something. Work stress. Relationship problems. Loneliness. Family pressure.

Expectations. Grief. Sometimes they don’t even have the words for it—they just know they haven’t relaxed in months.

It’s made me much slower to judge people.

These days, when I meet someone who’s rude, distant or awkward, I find myself wondering what’s happened to them rather than assuming that’s just who they are.

Massage has taught me plenty about muscles and anatomy.

But I think the biggest lesson has been about humanity.

We know so little about the battles other people are fighting.

Has anyone else had a job that completely changed the way you see people?

Have a good one!

-Pat

G’day everyone,

Don’t forget to look after yourself this July. A little self-care never hurt anybody!

Cheers,
Pat

Available most days 10am - 1am. Early-morning bookings available upon request.

G’day everyone,

I was not originally going to be available today and tomorrow, but there’s been a slight change of plans.

So, I have bookings open all weekend. After that, I will have something else occupying my time, and so will be available again on July 7.

June promotions still available this weekend (see image).

Hope you are having a cracker of weekend. Get out there and enjoy the sun!

Cheers
Pat

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Hey everyone,

Just thought I would share something that might make the straight guys on here a little jealous. I offer male massage (M2M) for curious, bi, and gay guys in Brisbane. I also provide massage to trans clients. I am body positive & LGBTQI+ friendly… of course.

But every couple of weeks, usually here on Reddit, a lady will reach out to me and ask if I am open to providing sensual massage to women.

The answer is, yes I am.

Sometimes, I will explain that I am gay & that although I will enjoy the closeness and tactile nature of the session, I won’t be sexually attracted in the same way I might be for a bloke, and I’ll hear nothing back.

But I have found that some women see this as a plus. Perhaps sensual massage serves a different purpose, or maybe meets a slightly different need, than for men. I’ve been told that me being gay makes them feel more at ease. They don’t need to perform for me, and they also know that the session is purely about them.

So yes, despite primarily working with men, it might surprise you to know that I do have a couple of regular female clients. And they are just as much fun to hang out with.

And… yes, I absolutely love the relationships that I have built up with my male clients. We are friends. But with the couple of ladies that come to see me, it is a different type of friendship. I don’t know, built on a purely pragmatic basis, starting with logistics and practicality, but then, something on top of that grows based around the unique experience both of us are sharing.

Almost as if I am one of the girls, if you know what I mean. That sounds corny and weird, but it’s true. And I feel really special and privileged that I am afforded this amount of trust.

So yeah, just another part of my job that I find extremely rewarding. I am not just saying this: if you allow yourself to open up to new people, new possibilities, and more opportunities… it might be scary at first, but there’s no such thing as hidden treasure that’s easy to find!

I do keep myself fairly busy, but I am always happy to make new friends! So, if you are decent and kind, whether you are male, female, identify as any other gender, or you’re fresh off the ship from planet Mars, you are welcome in my studio.

A mate of mine who also does massage recently asked me for some advice.

He’s been thinking about offering sensual massage to ladies and wanted to pick my brain about the industry, what clients are looking for, what works, what doesn’t, and all the rest of it.

As we got talking, I jokingly asked him, “Well, if you’re interested in trying something different, would you give massaging blokes with me a go?”

To my surprise, he said yes.

So here we are.

For those who have ever wondered what it might be like to receive a sensual massage from a genuinely straight bloke, this is your chance.

He’s fit, punctual, professional, extremely decent, and has fantastic technique. I don’t put just anyone in front of my clients. If someone is working with me, it’s because I genuinely believe they offer something special.

One of the things I enjoy most about this job is creating experiences people can’t easily find elsewhere, and bringing new options to Brisbane.

Whether you’re simply curious, enjoy four-hands massage, or want to experience a different kind of energy in the room, this may be exactly what you’re looking for.

As always, discretion is guaranteed, and all appointments take place in a safe, respectful, judgement-free environment.

Feel free to send me a message if you’d like more information. I’m excited to experience this myself.

– Pat

Please note: specials are for 60/90 minute bookings

Happy hump month!

This June, to help you save a little while things are tough & the crazy orange man is still wreaking havoc across this globe of ours, I’m offering:

~ Save $10 on any booking (including 30- & 45-minute bookings) when you prepay via PayID or secure payment link ($3 surcharge applies for payment link — sorry, I know it sucks!)

~ Book an evening session (after 8pm) before 5pm & save $10 on a 60-minute massage & $20 on a 90-minute massage

~ $20 off 60/90 minute massages for cops, firies, nurses, ambos, police, military & rescue personnel to say thank you for everything you do for the community.

Available until June 26 (I’ll be on holidays for 8 days then).