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G’day everyone,

It’s a privilege to be trusted by so many blokes in Brisbane through my sensual massage business. But I have to admit, it also feels like a bit of a feather in my cap when guys reach out and say they’d like to work with me!

A couple of weeks ago, I received a message from a Taiwanese bloke named Joey, asking whether I was hiring. I’m a one-man show, so I’m never really hiring—but I’m always on the lookout for good four-hands partners.

Joey asked if I’d meet him, so I did. And wow… he is handsome. But he’s also very humble, which I reckon makes an attractive person even more attractive.

Tonight, we did our first four-hands session together for one of my regulars. And let’s just say… Joey is even more impressive with his jocks off. 😂

He has massage experience, but he’s new to this particular style.

He did very well tonight, and I reckon he enjoyed himself too!

For a limited time, I’ll be offering four-hands sessions with Joey for a special price per hour.

He’s available Monday to Friday from 3pm, as well as all day Saturday and Sunday.

DM me if you’d like to know more or make a booking!

Cheers

Pat

G’day everyone,

I love Queensland, but growing up as a gay kid here in the 90s wasn’t easy. And I’m from a bit out in the sticks, so you can imagine what things were like there.

Long story short, I just resigned myself to the “fact” that I’d never experience love or have a family, and so I poured everything I had into my career at the time.

I got used to living as someone who wasn’t my authentic self. And although I did have happy moments, living as someone you are not long-term gets you down.

One night, I stumbled across an ad online. M2M massage — nude. I couldn’t stop thinking about it. How would I react to a man with his hands all over my body? What if I did something stupid and embarrassed myself? What if my you-know-what is too small and he’ll laugh at me? What if someone finds out, or follows me?

My heart was racing as I made my way to the address. My hands were shaking as I handed over the cash. And as I removed my clothes and got down on the massage table, I felt like I was going to faint.

But then, maybe after about ten minutes, I realised something. I was feeling good. I’d felt good before, but this was something else.

It felt right. It felt like what I had always needed. I felt light. It was as if there had always been something a bit off, or that something had always been missing. And now I’d found the piece to the puzzle.

From that day on, life was easier. I didn’t come rushing out of the closet — that would still take years. It was easier because I knew that there was somewhere and someone I could go to be myself, even just for an hour or 90 minutes every other week.

Life wasn’t just easier though, it was less scary too. Part of life is learning who you are and coming to terms with it. I had always been afraid of how I would react to being with a man. Would I feel guilt? Would I feel regret? Is it even safe to be gay?

When you face your fears and come out the other side, it makes you a stronger person. I was afraid of myself and my emotions. So taking that step, meeting a stranger, and getting a sensual massage helped me overcome a number of fears and put me on the road to living genuinely as my authentic self today.

I saw my massage guy for years, and I’ve mentioned here before that we still keep in touch.

I remember one night, after the massage had finished, he asked if I smoked. I said I did, and he went and got one. We sat on the floor naked, smoking a cigarette while we chatted about life.

It was so liberating. Society convinces us that there are many, many taboos in life. So far, I reckon, most of those are just mental blocks to stop us having fun and enjoying life.

So, you don’t necessarily have to see me — there are other guys in Brisbane offering gay sensual massage — but if you are a closeted gay or bi person, I really do encourage you to challenge your limits and give yourself (your mind and body) a moment to be itself before you decide whether or not you’ll stay closeted.

Because you should have all of the perspectives and information available before you decide that life would be easier hidden.

Life does feel so much better when you just be you. It takes a little getting used to… and I reckon that fear I felt at my first sensual massage wasn’t necessarily fear, it was just that I was feeling things that I had never felt, and it felt foreign.

So, take it from someone who grew up around very conservative people and was deathly afraid of how I would survive living as my true self, life on the other side of coming out is so, so, so much better.

Anyway, just wanted to share these thoughts with everyone. Hope you found them interesting or maybe even helpful.

Have a lovely week!

Cheers
Pat