u/jm_spider

For all the bulls out there, what makes the difference for you about showing up with a lot of tension and sexual energy? We’ve noticed a few guys need more of a warmup to get there (I’m not talking physical arousal, but like the headspace). We generally have the same playbook, but it’s inconsistent on this front. Is it something you prefer to talk about? Manage yourself? Is it just that people are different and some need a different approach to this lifestyle?

Appreciate your perspectives 🙏🏻

Looking for someone who actually knows what they’re doing and ideally has a portable table (lmt to front of line). Wanting to skip her usually spay day routine to something that fits our mutual interests. An actual massage to start… decent, not rushed or performative. Then work it to a full on happy ending and her both.

She’s hot and fit, and seek similar in a match.

Years into the lifestyle, you can lose a bit of the “magic”. All of the stress and happenings of day to day life can just get in the way, and my wife and I decided we needed a long weekend with no friends or family or responsibilities. We ended up getting a spot in San Diego and planned 4 days of no plans.

Realistically, we knew that we’d be open to a little lifestyle fun, so we put out a few feelers before we went, but had no concrete plans. Ended up having a chill night and a nice dinner in La Jolla the first night. Did our thing and turned in a little early.

The next day while she was getting ready I checked in with a couple of dudes we’d connected with and made a few flexible plans. She came out of the shower in a very seductively wrapped towel (high on her thigh, low on her breasts) and told me she wanted to have some fun. Walked over to me sitting on the edge of the bed and lifted her towel, revealing her sweet pussy and asked if I wanted to share. We enjoyed our banter and I gave her my cuckold persona. Ended up connecting with an older guy nearby who was in town alone for a wedding and no plans until the evening.

We ended up meeting him for a light lunch overlooking the bay… super touristy area, but convenient and close. His disposition was super chill. Honestly gave no “bull vibes” at all, and just kind of that that chill, zero drama, not a care in the world vibe. Perfect for us as we really were just starting out on our vacation and it was easy to engage in that vibe. We chatted and had drinks for maybe an hour and a half, and the conversation started to run its course. He just kind of picked up the cues and said that it was fun hanging and that he’d like to chill again before we all left town. My wife (ash) was trying to play it cool, but you could see the disappointment in her face. He honestly baited her… gently put his hand on her thigh and said “unless she wants to keep it going now”.

That was a turning point. He went from “The Dude” to “Don Draper” on a dime. She was relieved but trying to catch up… his latent bull vibes came out and he took charge. He looked us both in the eyes for the next few minutes as he established his ground rules and asked for ours. It wasn’t clinical at all, but very purposeful and a little forward. Grounded yet enticing. We settled the check and made our way back to the hotel. He held her hand as we walked and they had a good 15 minutes of low-intensity physical contact with few words needing to be spoken as they just established some physical chemistry. I just watched on in awe.

We arrive at the hotel and things got heated fast (all within the bounds of our lunch discussion). We took the elevator to our floor and I held the door open as he picked her up and carried her into the room. He playfully tossed her on the bed and said “now slut” and she stood on the bed and pulled her sun dress over her head and tossed it aside. He looked at me and pointed at her. I did my part to remove her bra and thong. He grabbed my head by my hair pushed my head towards her pussy and told me to “kiss it good bye”. I complied.

She climbed off the bed walking towards him. He explored every inch of her body with kissing, touching, groping, and nibbling. He expertly drew out her deepest state of fluster without daring penetrate any bit of her. He then positioned her in doggy style on the edge of the bed and ate her from behind. He then gave her swollen pussy his fingers. Rapidly, deftly, surely, he brought her to two consecutive orgasms. The second causing her to squirt on his hand and clothes. He removed his fingers and slapped her ass leaving a bright read handprint.

He removed his shirt… then his pants. For late 40s he was in great shape with visible muscle tone, but that obviously mature physique. He rubbed his package against her as she was still coming down from her orgasm. He told her to to ask for what comes next. She said “you’ve won, claim your prize”. He dropped his underwear to the floor, took her ponytail in one hand, his cock in the other and he pulled her onto his cock gently but firmly. He slowly explored her pussy almost studying her reactions to learn her body. He found a few angles and speeds, giving her another 2 orgasms in doggy. She was gushing and a mess as she fell forward after the (now) 4th. Laying prone, she was trying to compose herself as he reached to his pants to get his belt. He gave her 4 strong lashes. He then turned her on her back, used her hair to pull her head to the edge of the bed, and inserted himself into her throat.

He gently fucked her throat always up to the cusp of gagging or losing her breath but never beyond. He’d been making love to her for maybe 30 minutes at this point. While she’d been building up, this was still no more than 3 hours from deciding to even meet the guy and she wasn’t physiologically prepared for a marathon. He could sense her eagerness was giving way to satiation. He pulled his cock from her throat and looked at her asking if she was ready. She nodded yes and he sat on the edge of the bed while she climbed onto his lap and lowered herself down in the lotus position. He gently worked her back up to another orgasm and let her enjoy a brief, shallow orgasm… and as she hit it, he grabbed her legs and stood up, putting her weight again his cock as he walked over to the wall holding her in place while he used his strength, speed, leverage, and raw skill to just pound her senseless to her final orgasm as he finished himself. They both came ferociously and she collapsed with her arms barely holding herself upright as he belt a grip on her thighs.

He gently returned her to the bed, kissed her breasts, and pulled away. He looked at her drenched body and then at me, and said “enjoy”. He got dressed and walked back to retrieve her thong which he pushed into his back pocket. Smiled and said “see you guys later” and walked away with the hotel door closing behind him, just leaving us to bask in the glow.

More to follow, but taking a break from all this writing.