r/BullPsychology

UPDATE: Giving our bull a gift(s) for our lifestyle anniversary

I made a post asking for advice on giving our bull a gift(s) for our, or I guess my, 6 months pussy free anniversary. Thank you everyone for your input in the comments and in my DMs. This post is an update laying out what my gf and I have decided. Here’s a link to the original post:

https://www.reddit.com/r/CuckoldPsychology/s/MWezZaBePk

\-To those who brought up concerns about me being pussy free: did a short pussy free trial run, discussed how we felt and if we wanted to continue. We all decided we wanted to continue and picked my birthday later in the summer as my “release date”)

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As opposed to just giving him a physical gift we are treating him to a nice day along with some gifts (plus my gf wanted an excuse to have a fun day). I’ll layout everything from the perspective of how we have the day planned:

\- We’re going to take advantage of the long weekend and go out this Sunday to celebrate. I will tag along and will effectively be acting as our bulls assistant, my gf will act as his gf. We think he deserves a day of the girlfriend experience, plus my gf and I don’t want our dynamic to be clearly displayed in public (her clearly being my gf but I let an older guy treat her like his gf). So I’ll just tag along, typically following a few steps behind them, no displays of affection between her and I, but our bull and her will hold hands, kiss, and whatever other PDA they choose

\- I got them a half day couples spa package. They have one of those fancy packages with a couples body massage, a scalp/foot massage, hot stones, and access to the rest of the spa. I will be at the spa also but only with a regular day pass so I’ll be hanging around the common amenities and they have the time to themselves at their spa treatments as well as the amenities reserved for higher packages (some fancy saunas/steam rooms and a separate pool area)

\- I’ve scheduled a lunch reservation at a pretty nice restaurant that is serving a tasting menu. Our bull is a bit of a foodie and enjoys the fancy/unique food combinations. For the lunch my gf and I decided they should have some private time so I will be across the street having lunch at a more toned down place. Then after lunch we’ll be going to a rooftop cocktail lounge, I won’t be sitting in the same booth/couch area that I reserved for them but won’t be far away. We’ll be in view of one another so it’ll be easy to leave when they’re ready and I can just follow when they get up and wave to me that it’s time to leave

\- We are then going back to my place where I’ll give him the physical gifts. He’s getting a few cigars, a cigar kit, this whiskey he likes, and a robe with his initials embroidered. Lastly I’m giving him a watch my gf got me for Christmas. A person suggested that a gift with sentimental value would be a great display of respect which my gf and I discussed and agreed (it’s not some expensive watch or overly sentimental between us, it wasn’t the “main” gift she got me for Christmas that we both value highly). Oh and thank you to the person who suggested this

\- I got my gf some things to commemorate the occasion for both her and our bull. A new fancy lingerie set, I don’t know what all the things are called exactly so I’ll probably forget some but it has stockings, garters, a belt, crotchless panties, brassiere. Idk it’s 9 pieces lol. A dress she chose, she actually needed a dress for an upcoming event anyway so this works out. I’ll also be surprising her with a small silver necklace

\- After I give our bull his gifts she is going to step away to get ready, shower, hair, makeup, get dressed, etc whatever else girls do to prepare themselves. While she gets ready my responsibility is basically to just make him comfortable and serve him as needed (non sexually lol). Poor him drinks, light his cigar, prepare snacks, give control of the TV, play music, light massages, have conversation, whatever it is he wants really

\- When she’s finished getting ready and joins us in the living room I’ll present her to our bull. I’ll thank him for taking this dynamic upon himself, leading the dynamic, and the positive contributions he’s made to our relationship - my gf wants me to give him a little appreciation speech so that’s what that is really. I’ll ask our bull if he’d do us the honor of taking her raw - I haven’t gone raw with her yet. I will request to film it, offering him a copy of the recording - we haven’t filmed before. Lastly I will ask if he’d be willing to stay the night with her, offering my spot in our bed.

\- We’re also pulling some of our “hesitant” limits back for the day - things that aren’t hard limits but we also things we haven’t explored to much of a degree. Broader impact play (moderate face slapping, whipping, belting, paddling, etc), bondage/restraint/light BDSM gear, spit, light cbt, etc. He’s shown some interest in exploring these with us, but knowing in knowing we’re hesitant of them he has never pushed or pressured us to try them

Ich (Cuckold) bin neugierig, wie es bei Anderen so läuft.

Wenn Ihr gemeinsam mit Cuck, Hiotwife und Bull in der Öffentlichkeit unterwegs seid, ist dann die Rolle des Bulls erkennbar? Und falls ja, wie?

Bei uns ist es so, dass wir in der Umgebung, in der andere Menschen sind, die uns kennen, als Freunde auftreten.

Sobald wir diese verlassen haben, z.B. in einer anderen Stadt ausgehen oder gar im Urlaub sind, sind der Bull und meine Frau immer das liebende Paar und meine Aufgabe ist es, in respektvollem Abstand (3-4 Schritte) dahinter zu gehen.

Meine Frau ist dabei immer als Hotwife mit entsprechendem Fußkettchen oder auch T-Shirt sowie einem Vixen-Tattoo am Bein erkennbar, manchmal muss ich auf ihre Anweisung hin auch ein Cuckold-Shirt tragen.

Wie ist das bei Euch?

I am currently “dating” a lawyers wife.

The husband is pushing me to go on dates with her and consistently trying to please me. Its amazing!

Last night the husband made us dinner and while I’m eating the wife starts sucking me off under the table while the husband is rationing out my mash potatoes and asking how my steak is lol.

This is heaven.

P.S. every cuck that reads or comments on this post is required to send me a pic of their S.O.
I don’t make the rules

I’m 22, been a bull for 2 years now and obviously noticed that a good majority of couples prefer older bulls. I understand it’s mostly because of immaturity, higher chance of flaking, stuff like that. I’ve never flaked on a couple I’ve genuinely gotten to know and set up a date with, but What’re some ways to change the stereotype or view on younger bulls?

My fiance cucked me for the first 3 years of our relationship. I’ve stopped being a bitch, started going to the gym and have began looking for an opportunity to bull for another couple. My question is regarding the bull mentality. How have you guys broken past any anxiety or hesitation when it comes to the act of pleasing a dudes girl?

Between you and the couple you are seeing right now, what is your size vs the cucks size?

Dick size and overall size is important to me in this lifestyle, I love playing with couples where the guy is just smaller than me.

I tend to look for couples that satisfy this need. How about you? What is your size vs the cuck of the couple you are currently with

Hey all,

I know this is a more of a subreddit for cucks but here we go! I love the idea of being part of a couple! The idea to please the wife and make the husband happy! The area I’m in is quite hard do find such a kink or anything around that. I am absolutely in the market for a fun and beautiful couple but it is damn hard! I am good looking and fit and clean but I am not into the hook ups and being one off. Would love to know ideas of how to find, engage, or how you guys all meet or where to look!! Would love to hear more about your experiences and some fun and good advice!

Looking for things to humiliate my cuck with centered around his cum.
We currently do the he isn't allowed to cum in his wife thing.
When they do have sex, which is rare, after he takes off the condom, his wife goes "Eww, Yucky!" Pinches her nose and tells him to throw it in the toilet before the smell makes her sick.

Oldest woman I’ve ever done, she put in a lot of work to get in shape. Hottest part is they’re a Hispanic couple and her husband don’t speak English so we deadass talk about fucking and cheating on him in his presence. First day we met we deadass talked for 30 minutes while her husband sat silent by the corner 😂😂

Fast forward few days, we’re in a parking lot building and her husband is standing guard while she sucks my dick and swallows the entire load.

That weekend we got a room and just fucked like animals, her husband prolly waiting in the lobby, should’ve asked him to watch.

Hey! Wife and I are still pretty inexperienced in the LS. We are curious what types of limits bulls place with couples. We know the usual ones that couples set for the bulls, but are curious about the opposite.

Im a bit of small dicked cuck, and not confident during sex so ive never had a woman like really really want me and cum on my cock, but I imagine bulls have that happen a lot. It must be such an ego boost. Do you guys enjoy it and how does it feel?

Hey all bull here!

Gotta say, I’m the type of bull that likes to foster relationships. Where we can grow, enjoy and develop something fun! So where we can have something exclusive and fun :) however I find many couples or cucks really look multiple cocks. Not my jam. Curious to see if any bulls or couples have success in search of what I look for and where you have found something great!

Hi Bulls,

33 cuck here. Been in the lifestyle for a couple of years. With the previous bulls I’ve always been present and watched my wife and the guy.

This new bull wants me to stay at home, at least for now. I’m into it but it also got me wondering which situation you all prefer and why. If the guy’s at home, do you ever think of him?

Hey been thinking about a throuple situation with a bull. Would love to hear your experience and any issues you guys may have run into ? If it was a mistake or something to avoid

During university, I had this classic alpha roommate: very handsome, charismatic, confident, tall, fit, and very successful with women. We were good friends, but had an interesting dynamic. He was somehow what I would've liked to be. I was a bit jealous, but I also admired him. We were friends, but I basically did everything he asked me to.

For example, when we went out, he often disappeared dancing with women. I often stayed for hours sitting around alone because I was the driver. Whenever I brought a women home, I could tell how their attention immediately shifted to him. It was exhilarating realizing that as long as he was around, I was completely ignored by every woman.

Countless times he asked me to quickly clean the flat because one of his dates was coming, and I always did. I never complained about a sleepless night because I could hear them all night.

Looking back, I very much miss this kind of friendship. I'd love to have a bull as friend to support whatever they are doing, but also be part of the exciting life they are having. I mean this in a completely non sexual way.

To the bulls:

- Do you have these kind of friendships with other men, be it cucks or just vanilla friends?
- Do you like these kind of friendships?

Had an interesting but fun situation this past weekend. I had been talking to a couple for a few weeks and her husband had mentioned that she was nervous, so the plan was to take things slow. We met for dinner, drinks and as it got later into the night, I could tell she was still nervous. I told her it was perfectly fine to not go through with it and she asked “Can you strip for me while my husband eats me out?”

We head up to their room, she strips down and her husband begins to eat her out. At this point, I start to slowly take off my shirt. She moans. I pull down my jeans. Another moan. I wait a good 15-20 seconds for her to beg for the briefs to come off. She finally says “please, I need it.” Her eyes lit up when I finally revealed my thick cock. She motioned for me to walk over and I did, my cock inches from her face. I could tell she was getting close so I asked “Want to feel your first bull?” She wrapped her little hand around my cock and her fingers wouldn’t fit all the way around it. She let out a deep moan and a “holy shit” the instant her hand grasped my cock. As her orgasm subsided, she kept holding onto me.

As I got dressed to leave, she said “Be expecting a call from us soon. Im definitely going to want the full experience next time.” Fun time even though I didn’t get laid!

Has anyone else had experience with a bull requiring full time chastity when he is seeing your significant other on a regular basis ?

Almost every one I talk to has breeding fantasies, or getting knocked up by another man. Is it more of a humiliation thing or a ‘used for breeding’ submission thing for wives. That I’m complaining I do find it extremely hot. But the last couple I saw were almost upset that I didn’t wanna get her pregnant and become a father lol.