r/BullPsychology

In my last post I talked about wanting to fuck a wife with the husband involved. What really turns me on is the idea of the cuck cleaning up after me — licking his wife’s pussy after I’ve given her a creampie, cleaning my dick with his mouth, and also giving me a rimjob. I also want both of them to worship my cock.

I’ve never done this in real life yet. I’m a new bull and still figuring things out.

A lot of people in the comments said they love a guy like me, so I’m curious — for those of you who have actually done this (bulls, wives, or husbands):

How was the experience?

What worked well?

Anything you wish you knew beforehand?

Looking for real experiences. Thanks.

I like bulls who are actually nice people outside of the bedroom… but once things start, I need a bit of an asshole. The kind who can be warm and respectful in conversation, then switch and make both me and my fiancé feel it mentally.

Not cruel for the sake of being cruel. Just that confident, slightly arrogant energy that pushes boundaries in a hot way. The ones who tease my fiancé about how I’m taking them raw, how they’re not pulling out, how they’re not even sure I’m on birth control (I am, but the mind-fuck of them saying it while they’re still inside me is unreal). The ones who look at him while they’re using me and make little comments that land hard.

Physical dominance is great, but the mental side is what keeps me coming back. Being made to feel owned, and watching my fiancé get quietly dismantled at the same time....that’s the part that stays with both of us for days.

Anyone else have bulls like that? The ones who can be genuinely good guys and still know exactly how to get under both of your skins?

So I’m 19 and I have a gf I’m well built and my dick is a good size we fuck daily and she’s pretty satisfied at least I thought she was until she told me that there is nothing wrong with me but she loves the idea of a a guy who is better built than me and have a better cock fucking her infront of me what do you yall think

We haven’t been in the lifestyle for so long and we’re still figuring some things out.

Sometimes I wonder if bulls prefer couples who show up with clear rules and a set dynamic already in place, or if they actually like the ones who are more open and let the bull influence how things develop.

From the bull side, which do you prefer? I’m really curious 🧐

I remember the first time I had a wife rim me, she kissed her husband right after and it felt filthy, dominant and intimate all at once. One of the things I wouldn’t be open to unless I was a bull lmao.

He got mad when I did not creampie her.

Why are cucks like that?

I’m a very masculine, fit, attractive guy married to a beautiful wonderful woman. We’ve done some hotwifing that has evolved into more of a cuck dynamic as I’ve realized how turned on I get from that type of scenario.

What really makes me curious is the other side, how do you guys come to be bulls? Can you spot guys like me in the wild? What’s the source of that superpower you all have?

Bf gifted bikini panty for my husband's bday!

We introduced my bf as a family friend in earlier occasions, so none of our friends or family raises questions about him.

Last week we had a small cake cutting party for my hubby and everyone visited including my bf, we didn't really show off that my hubby is cuck or anything it was a normal bday party.

My bf and hubby didn't talk much to eachother as in the ice wasn't broken yet. My bf knows that hubby is fine with it, my hubby knows that I sleep with my bf that's all no conversation beyond that.

So when my bf asked me, whether he can gift something to my hubby I thought it was a sweet gesture and said yes immediately... On the bday party bf handed over the gift and shook hubby hands before leaving.

Since we didn't want to look desperate or anything we didn't open the gifts in front of everyone so we kept it all in the side and kept talking with everyone who came.

I genuinely felt good that my bf gifted hubby something because even his own friends didn't bring any gifts, his mother gave him some money and a few others bought some clothes and stuff. Sad ain't it.

After everyone left I was jerking off my hubby and was telling him how sad is it that none of them gave good gifts and a few other things to humiliate him. He likes it that's why I said all that on his bday, I'm not cruel.

So he came on my hands and i simply wiped my hands on his cheeks and left to change my dress. I came back and sat besides him as he unwrapped all the gifts. When he opened my bf gift I couldn't control myself, I laughed so much and then hugged my hubby and kept laughing...

It was a yellow bikini panty which had lacy finish in the edges and a small bow like in the middle, and a sticky note in the butt area saying " best wishes". My bf kept it aside and didn't say anything, he started opening other gifts and honestly all of them were boring gifts, I sat close to him hugged him and kept whispering in his ears about how good the panty was and I kept kissing his cheeks asking him if he wants to try it on.

He went straight to bed without saying anything and my bf kept texting me asking what happened, I too went to bed thinking that we crossed a line with him and went too much. The next day he was getting ready for office and I was too lazy to wake up and make food so I just kept sleeping. I finally wokeup and the sticky note which said "best wishes" was on the dressing mirror, the bill tag was on the floor... I called him up immediatley and asked him if he's wearing it right now and he said yes!! I then said I'm sorry for not making lunch for him and stuff and said that I loved him and I'm waiting for him to come home.

Empty nesting… both kids are finally off to college and hubby just started a new job, so our focus has been settling into this next chapter.
We’ve taken about a year-long break from the lifestyle, but I’m seeing my old BF/Bull tonight and couldn’t be more excited.
That said, now that we’re empty nesters I’m really looking forward to traveling with hubby more often. He travels a lot for work. When we first started this lifestyle we used to fantasize and talk about what it would be like when I could travel with him to different cities and find local BFs I could play with more openly in public since we’d be out of town. Being out of town also gives that natural separation, and with the right connection it’s something to look forward to the next time we’re back in town. There are so many hot situations we want to set up.
We’ve both been long-time members of this group, mostly lurking. I know there are a ton of bulls in here who get our dynamic, so I thought this would be a good place to say hi. If this isn’t the right spot or should be posted somewhere else, feel free to delete.
Just wanted to put out a little roll call… bulls, what cities are you in?
Not looking for pen pals. Looks are just as important as understanding our dynamic. Chemistry is important and for me that starts with looks, so please if you reach out know that I will want to see pics of you before we get any further. If you’re not ok with that please ignore the roll call.
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Ten days from now, I’ll be having sex with my first BWC ever. It’ll also be my first time fucking another man since getting married. We could not have asked for a better bull! He’s had a vasectomy, so he’ll be cumming inside me multiple times throughout the night and can go for multiple rounds.

Naturally, my cuck husband will be cleaning up in between rounds. We’re both excited, but since this will be our very first experience with this part of the cuckolding dynamic, we figured we would ask the community rather than just wing it.

Hubby will be caged throughout, which seems to be common advice. However, I specifically wanted to ask:

— Any particular strategies that work especially well for a first cleanup?
— Positions that make it easier or more intense the first time?
— Technique nuances. Should he start from the outside and work inward, top to bottom, bottom to top, focus on licking/lapping/slurping/sucking in a certain order, etc.?
— The technique question also extends to cuck orally cleaning up the bull.

Any advice you wish someone had given you for the first cleanup, whether you’re a cuck, hotwife, or bull, would be super appreciated!

Is it normal for a cuck to do a better job at oral sex than his vixen ?

I have noticed this with my last 2 couples. With the first one, I did not want to raise attention to the matter, but with my most recent one, he genuinely took the spotlight from her whilst giving me a blowjob, with her even letting him do all the effort solo, and just shoving his head deeper at times to make him gag, and guiding him whilst she was looking at my facial expressions and reactions.

Once we were done and chilling, I talked to them about it and basically, she taught him how to “worship cock” from scratch, and now he is addicted to it.

I have a regular couple that I see like once a week sometimes more every time I go over to their place the wife is super loud, not just moaning, but verbal to the point. I’m pretty sure the guy that lives in the apartment underneath them completely knows that I’m banging the wife, which is fine but they do have other friends in the apartment complex that they don’t really want to be aware of our situation I would prefer to keep this private, but I have a bad feeling that this is spinning out of control and unfortunately, I cannot host

I have been locked at my gf’s request on and off for the last year. My gf’s new bull has told her he wants to keep the key and decide when I can be unlocked (he has said he will hide a key in our apartment incase of any emergencies).

I’m a bit apprehensive to this as I always thought of it as something between me and my gf.

I’m wondering if this is common among bulls and what to expect.

Cuck here with a question to the real bulls out there, in which dynamic out of the following do you “PERSONALLY” enjoy the most with a couple regardless of their preference or if you were given total power and free use and over the whole dynamic.

(1) - Solo only with the wife and the cuck or stag is not present with you both? And with pics/vids or without to send to hubby?

(2) - Cuck or stag present and watching silently with no participation or directing like a ghost in the room and he is just ignored.

(3) - Cuck or stag present and participating equally as you do more like a MFM? Double team, DP, spit roast, etc.

(4) - Cuck or stag present but in an assistant role, but no action or activity with you or the wife, but tasks such as getting lube, towels, drinks, room service, water, or requests made by you or the wife.

(5) - Cuck or stag present, but completely submissive, to you and the wife. He is chastity, no threat to you or your dominance over the wife, is completely the beta in your dynamic, the wife’s pussy and body belongs to you only. Other elements of erotic humiliation are done to the cuck, for your or the wife’s enjoyment if you choose so.

Let us know what you prefer (number 1-5, or a combo of them) and if you like, why that is and an example if you’d like to share in your experiences that you enjoyed or if your desired dynamic varies depending on your mood or has evolved over the years.

Bulls: have you ever experienced this? And if so how did you handle it? Wasn't sure if this was roleplay which I really don't think it was or it was legitimate when the wife and I returned from a date and we're getting ready to go into the bedroom.

I realized this is a controversial question and is going to spark some strong opinions and hate.

I wonder did you guys bully and dominant since childhood and school years, if you say yes what kind of bullying or humiliation you did to a beta male. Cucks also could answer what kind of humiliations they take

My cuck husband is leaving for a 5-day work trip and I’ll have the house to myself. We’ve discussed and he’s fully on board with me texting our bull 🐂 on the side and secretly inviting him over to have sex 🥧 while Hubby is gone, so it feels like I’m cheating. We are both open to the thought of our bull staying over one or two nights, maybe more…

We agreed I’ll really try to hide it. For fun, though, I want to leave a few traces that aren’t too obvious, just enough that he might catch something if he’s paying attention. I’ll also film and photograph some of it so I can surprise him with it later, once it’s a little less fresh.

Has anyone actually done this? If so, how did you pull it off, what kind of clues worked without making it too easy, and what did you get up to while he was gone?

Thanks in advance for all your awesome advice! 😘

Curious about the bull preference on this.

Some husbands are fully into it, ready to help, clean up, wait on you, and make everything easier. Others are more hesitant, awkward, or visibly dealing with mixed feelings even while they go along with it.

From the bull side, which one do you actually prefer?

The eager and willing type, or the one who’s clearly working through it while it’s happening?

Hi bulls, little wannabe cuck here. Would love to hear about what got you into this dynamic, and what you enjoy about it. How many of you enjoy humiliating the cuck, and how many are in it more for the women? Also love to know if youre hung, or if thats a factor at all for you?