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Wife’s giving mixed signals

Hi all sorry for the long message wanting some advice Longtime wannabe stag been with my wife over 20 yrs pretty much since college I was her first but she wasn’t mine. I have had this fantasy for well over a decade & finally one night while having sex semi exposed it to my wife she was loving being touched while the the vibrater done its job & I then mentioned “bet you would like other guys hands touching you all over” in which she quickly shut me down asking if I wanted that to which I replied well I love the idea if I would be ok in real life is another question she seemed a little taken back put it that way & said she was shocked & we didn’t talk about it again. Fast forward a good six months or so & all had been put behind us & I had surprised her with a wand & a 9inch bbc dildo she loved the wand but shut down the bbc saying that’s not going near me I didn’t push it but now & again would bring it up then one day she actually agreed so after a lot of foreplay & lube we trued the bbc & we did manage to use it properly to which I felt she was a little embarrassed to admit but I could tell she liked it we continued to use it again but not every time but now & again but it’s got to the point where we will start off with the wand & she will stop half way through & ask for the bbc which I love I love watching her body react & seeing her orgasm we then have sex after & I often tease her how she’s my QOS & how she’s now bbc only I try to get her to talk dirty to me about it but she won’t & when I ask if she likes it she just reply’s “what do you think” I have since brought her a black thong with the words I love bbc written on the front which I get her to wear now & again if she has an important meeting at work & I have recently introduced temp tattoos that she now again agrees to wear. I guess I’m asking where do I go from here what else can we introduce could this be leading to anything? Any advice appreciated Thanks in advance

Wife’s giving mixed signals

Hi all sorry for the long message wanting some advice Longtime wannabe stag been with my wife over 20 yrs pretty much since college I was her first but she wasn’t mine. I have had this fantasy for well over a decade & finally one night while having sex semi exposed it to my wife she was loving being touched while the the vibrater done its job & I then mentioned “bet you would like other guys hands touching you all over” in which she quickly shut me down asking if I wanted that to which I replied well I love the idea if I would be ok in real life is another question she seemed a little taken back put it that way & said she was shocked & we didn’t talk about it again. Fast forward a good six months or so & all had been put behind us & I had surprised her with a wand & a 9inch bbc dildo she loved the wand but shut down the bbc saying that’s not going near me I didn’t push it but now & again would bring it up then one day she actually agreed so after a lot of foreplay & lube we trued the bbc & we did manage to use it properly to which I felt she was a little embarrassed to admit but I could tell she liked it we continued to use it again but not every time but now & again but it’s got to the point where we will start off with the wand & she will stop half way through & ask for the bbc which I love I love watching her body react & seeing her orgasm we then have sex after & I often tease her how she’s my QOS & how she’s now bbc only I try to get her to talk dirty to me about it but she won’t & when I ask if she likes it she just reply’s “what do you think” I have since brought her a black thong with the words I love bbc written on the front which I get her to wear now & again if she has an important meeting at work & I have recently introduced temp tattoos that she now again agrees to wear. I guess I’m asking where do I go from here what else can we introduce could this be leading to anything? Any advice appreciated Thanks in advance

Wife’s giving mixed signals

Hi all sorry for the long message wanting some advice Longtime wannabe cuckold been with my wife over 20 yrs pretty much since college I was her first but she wasn’t mine. I have had this fantasy for well over a decade & finally one night while having sex semi exposed it to my wife she was loving being touched while the the vibrater done its job & I then mentioned “bet you would like other guys hands touching you all over” in which she quickly shut me down asking if I wanted that to which I replied well I love the idea if I would be ok in real life is another question she seemed a little taken back put it that way & said she was shocked & we didn’t talk about it again. Fast forward a good six months or so & all had been put behind us & I had surprised her with a wand & a 9inch bbc dildo she loved the wand but shut down the bbc saying that’s not going near me I didn’t push it but now & again would bring it up then one day she actually agreed so after a lot of foreplay & lube we trued the bbc & we did manage to use it properly to which I felt she was a little embarrassed to admit but I could tell she liked it we continued to use it again but not every time but now & again but it’s got to the point where we will start off with the wand & she will stop half way through & ask for the bbc which I love I love watching her body react & seeing her orgasm we then have sex after & I often tease her how she’s my QOS & how she’s now bbc only I try to get her to talk dirty to me about it but she won’t & when I ask if she likes it she just reply’s “what do you think” I have since brought her a black thong with the words I love bbc written on the front which I get her to wear now & again if she has an important meeting at work & I have recently introduced temp tattoos that she now again agrees to wear. I guess I’m asking where do I go from here what else can we introduce could this be leading to anything? Any advice appreciated Thanks in advance