Open to it as fwb…but now as my gfs shes open..but more concerned
My (m28) gf (30f) started off as a passionate sex fueled sexting relationship in secret. We knew eachother at work years ago but never talked and she was escaping a very abusive relationship with her ex. She literally had to stay with him for months after the breakup bec he had destroyed her credit took all of her money etc
I guess she was expressing very pinned up sexual needs and despite her shy and sweet demeanor (and her hesitations of me giving off player vibes) she was very sexual with me and even expressed her sexual attraction towards women and was super horny. We even tslked about threesomes EARLY. I have always wanted to explore having a gf who was into that or even a fwb… and i was super excited lol.
As we got more serious. Conversations…dates etc. she has expressed to me that she would have had no problem us doing that or if we werent in a relationship BUT now she is nervous i might become attached or involved with the other girls.
I find it kind of weird and disappointing that as a guy who is not in a relationship with her and has less invested etc…i could have access to a wild and uninhibited version of my gf…but as her boyfriend shes less into it?
Is it doomed? Or a matter of me ensuring her emotional security(i really emotionally have zero interest in knowing or bonding with anyone else)