u/just-a-lil-lily

Just in another relationship where the freakiness scale between me and her are way unbalanced. I have expressed my needs and they are not being met (over and over) although there are promises of trying to change and do things differently. I have sent information, bought books and been so specific about what I need.. aaaah.. I feel so frustrated to be in another relationship (2 years in) where it's really good sexually in the beginning and explorative and then down the road they get comfortable with things and just become orgasm focused. Anyways, just looking for advice, or should i abandon all hope that i will ever have my sexual needs met in a long term way