u/justbuiltbetter

*are there things you tend to do to let one know that you are open?

I’m an experienced (15+ year) Single M/Bull. Travel the most exotic vacation places all over the world regularly! I understand the dynamic well but always always always prioritize respect over anything else initially. I know how challenging the truly organic meet is and how rare it occurs but, also how exciting it is when it does! (Always want to try and make this happen for couples if possible!) My question is, what approach would you prefer? Taking into consideration how challenging it can be for the single…ie. what if the situation was misread and in fact the couple isn’t LS or maybe just not interested. I am familiar with the tell tale anklet, black wedding bands and pineapple attire. But are there other things you tend to do to let one know that you are open? I see many couples wearing clothing/ very revealing swimsuits who I would almost bet are open in the right situation but, I also don’t know how many are truly brave enough to shoot the shot. Would you want the bull to approach in a sexual confident manner or more of a friendly manner that would allow for general conversation but not insinuate anything?

*For conversation purpose, my most effective means have been finding a way to strike up general conversation and then let them get to know that I’m not some weirdo. Often times it transitions to why I’m on “vacation” (actually work) alone and then as they start to get a look into my life you can feel them relax and watch the gears start to turn. But I’m always curious to different approaches techniques that could really spice up someone’s vacation and make some unforgettable memories! I’m all ears…