32 [F4M] #NYC - I'm looking for my long term submissive boy, so we can practice gentle-femdom together... that's at times... not as gentle.
Ages: between 27-37 only. Okay! I'm looking for:
someone to cuddle with, who will give me shoulder massage, send me photos to help motivate my day, let me fill you holes with anal or sounding or fisting, assistant me when I shave my pubic hair, watch porn and read smut with me, practice bondage and deprivation play with me, be a friend and go on non romantic dates with me, hold my groceries, chop my root vegetables, make art with me, assist me with the more physical parts of the crafting (zine making & tie dyeing & photography).
An partner who'd be mine, but also not closed off to non-monogamy in the future. (someone who's not looking for monogamy would be best!), who is at least bisexual, someone to prioritize kink with, to explore intimacy with, someone to live in the moment with and to have fun with me.
Someone who communicates clearly and keeps me clued in when their thoughts or feelings change about our connection. Someone who doesn't keep me in the dark about important decisions that would affect our dynamic. Someone who's willing to practice open communication, who will enthusiastically express their current feelings and ever-changing needs. Someone who lives in or near Brooklyn, New York (no, no, no online, no!).
MY LIMITS: serious pain (little bits are cool), Mommy play (mdlb), needles, blood, scat, humiliation, degradation (a teeny bit of this is okay), forced feminization, tickling, CNC, gaps in communication (╥﹏╥)
I prefer femininity, but people are multifaceted. (I love masculinity as well, of course, but it can be overbearing... but not unwelcome completely). A person who would be interested in dressing femininely at times would be cool. I like different body types, but I think my limits get reached at dad bod (a good confident posture is appreciated as well). I prefer stronger people, but super skinny is okay too. I identify a switch, but I'm looking for a sub right now.
If you work from home, that would be a plus (but not a deal-breaker). Me and my friends test frequently with r.a.t. tests before hanging out, so that would be applicable for you as well. I can provide the tests as needed. You don't have to be vaxxed, but people in my life normalize testing.
I'm tall, Black, introverted but talkative. I like art and music and the internet and nature. I wish I could do extreme things, but I usually live pretty mundane. My outfits make me blend in, I think? I dress like a boy at the gym. I wish I exercised... ever. I can be kind of existential and talk deeply. I like meditating with people who have a lot in common with me. I'm constantly trying to grow, but I also love staying the same.
Send me a chat? Tell me if you could have one stuffed animal, what would it be? What would it look like? Would it be an animal at all? I kind of wish I had a stuffie that was shaped like origami. Oh right! I use they/them pronouns! So only use those pronouns when speaking about or to me, okay? Thank you, ttys!