u/kikyohater

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I feel like I'm not fully pleasing my clients so I want to see what exactly a sub gets out of this dynamic. I do enjoy seeing men blush and I very much enjoy watching a man break down his defenses (as to what he thinks a man is "supposed" to be like) and letting me care for him or participate in findom for him. (tho I will say I feel like I need better things to say)

But ultimately I struggle to find the right positioning as I'm not "mommy"

Please let me know what you desire and seek from this so perhaps I can do better. I think I'm actually being too gentle?