How-to: Navigating the Struggles of Verification in Subreddits
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How-to: Navigating the Struggles of Verification in Subreddits

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We all know the most tedious part of Reddit promotion tends to be the endless required verifications for new subreddits. Many NSFW subreddits will require one or multiple verification photos. As all communications with moderators will usually be held on the platform itself I’m modmail, there is no way to attach images as files. Because of that we have to utilize an image hosting site to upload our images into an album with a link. I absolutely remember when I was new on the platform stumbling in the dark with this. This was back when Imgur was the norm. Since Imgur banned NSFW RedGifs has become the new standard method of submitting verification photo albums which are often required when verifying in new subreddits. Recently I saw someone ask for clarification on how to submit verification to subreddit moderators. As I said, I remember the frustration of learning this. In fact it was only just in 2023 that the shift in image hosting platforms happened and we have had to learn this new platform. So I figured we could spend a bit of time today breaking down step by step how to submit a modmail for verification on a subreddit. We will have a heavy focus on using RedGifs as the image hosting site for photo albums.

Verification in Subreddits Requirements

One of the first things you should do when visiting a new subreddit is to review their rules in depth. If a subreddit requires verification or approval to post it will likely be stated in those rules. If there is no mention of verification there, you shouldn’t just assume it isn’t required until also checking:

  • The sidebar on desktop browsers
  • The subreddit wiki
  • The description of the subreddit
  • Any pinned posts

Most subs that do require verification will have their rules either listed in those spaces, or a link to get to their verification guide which is commonly hosted in a subreddits wiki or a post. Please be absolutely careful when reading these. Some, not all, subs will only give you one chance to verify correctly. When I am going through a verification guide I will take notes of the main things required. I do this mainly to help keep myself organized as I tend to batch apply to subreddits. Since most subs require a sign of some sort to be held, I will write those notes on the back and fill out the front of each sign so that I don’t have to go back and forth between verification guides to remind myself of what I need.

Subreddit verification requirements vary sub to sub, but there are a few commonly seen requirements. This is not an exhaustive list of seen requirements. I am also going to throw out a few things I have learned.

  • A handwritten sign, oftentimes required to be crumpled and then flattened out. The text that needs written will be specified in the verification guide
    • It does not have to be crumpled to the point of absolutely decimated. All they are looking for is to be able to see some wrinkles in the pages and your ink. This helps prevent someone from being able to Photoshop some other username on the sign and helps prevent someone catfishing using our images. 
    • Make sure when you take your picture all corners of the sign are in the frame. Also make sure nothing is obstructing anything written on the image including your fingers. 
    • Use a thicker marker. Your pictures will sometimes have to be taken from farther away so that you can see more of your person and ball point pen doesn’t show well from any distance.
  • Usually more than one photo will be required along with more than one angle of yourself. If you show your face, you will likely be required to show it in your verification album. If you do not, that will usually be compensated by showing as much of your body as you do in promotion. This is to help moderators be able to cross reference your verification photo to your profile and again help prevent from being catfished.
    • Note here: Pay attention to the type of image they want to see. Some subreddits require images with full or partial nudity. It is entirely up to your comfort level if you do so. I personally have never felt comfortable with that, so I just found different communities. Most, however, require you to be clothed. 
    • Most subreddits will not allow any editing or filtering. Be sure to take a high quality image in good lighting that is clear. That being said, y’all like one person is ever going to see this and they absolutely do not care one bit so long as you look like the same human as the one on your profile. You don’t need to glam up here.

     

  • Though this is seen more in content selling subreddits than regular NSFW promotional subreddits, I still think it is worth mentioning third party age verification links. These would be links to your verified profile on an adult content hosting site, or other site that verifies your age and identity prior to verification.
    • A huge note: Most subreddits have a specific list of sites they allow to be used as age verification. It is rare to see OnlyFans or Fansly on those approved sites. 
    • It really is a waste of time to message the moderators and ask to use a site that is not on the approved list. So many of us have tried. They will 99.9% of the time say no. They usually have those chosen because their age and identity verification process aligns with what they feel is safe. If others are not on there, it is because they don’t meet those standards. I never messaged to ask for other options after seeing so many others say it didn’t work. Looking back now, I am remembering that the only reason I signed up for and got verified on ManyVids was so I could verify in sexsells.

     

  • All subreddits that require images will require you to provide a link to an album with these images on an image hosting site. The two mainly approved sites are Imgur and Redgifs. As I mentioned previously due to TOS changes many now only allow RedGifs.

If you are new to using RedGifs, or using it for verification purposes it can be a bit of a trek. But, hang with me, we are going to break that down in the next section. 

Redgifs Albums

Once you have your images taken to the verification guide’s specification, you need to get them uploaded to an image hosting site. This step is necessary because modmail, the messaging system used to contact the moderating team, does not allow files such as images to be uploaded. So, we need to upload them and provide a link when we submit our application. This is going to go step by step through this process. Since the seemingly most required or accepted image hosting site seems to be RedGifs, this guide will only go through that platform. This is moving forward assuming you have an account and are logged in already.

  • Click on the plus sign, or the ‘Studio’

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  • Click ‘Upload’ or the plus button

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  • Click ‘Upload Image’

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  • Select all of your verification photos for the subreddit you are applying for
  • Click next on the screen that pops up after selecting your photos after reviewing and ensuring you have them all there
  • Select the audience, tags, and skip the niche. These genuinely do not matter and you can button smash because this album and these images will be set as private.

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  • Hit publish after you are sure it is set as private.
  • Copy the link from the next screen

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And that’s it! We are done with RedGifs and can move on! I know it seems like a lot of steps. And to be honest, it feels a little ridiculous sometimes especially when you have five, twelve, twenty subreddits to verify in.. But, for now, its what we gotta do. And some subs are just beyond worth it.

Sending Modmail

Once you have your photo album link, double check the verification guide or your notes and make sure you have all other verification requirements ready. Really pay close attention. Many subs will slip in specific things that need to be stated in the Modmail sent like key words or phrases, and some will not make it obvious. This is usually done to help moderators know who has taken the process seriously and who hasn’t.  This is a good indicator to them of who has also read all of the rules and is likely to follow them.

Once everything is ready, it’s time to send the verification request to the moderators. While you are still in the verification guide look for how they request you submit this. Some just require Modmail. Some have a specific link that must be used. Again, this is usually found in the guide. If a subreddit has a specific link to use and you use any other, you will be denied. Mod teams do this to help organize their Modmail inboxes and to streamline and prioritize verifications. 

If that is not stated, this will usually be done through general Modmail. To find their link for their Modmail open your app or browser to the subreddit and check in any of the following places (this is not an exhaustive list, also not an iOS girly so don’t fully know the platform layout differences… Sorry!!!):

  • Mobile 1 (Android): On the right hand top corner there should be a 3 dot menu. Open that and find ‘Message Moderators’. Clicking that will open a modmail.
  • Mobile 2 (Android): Directly below the sub banner and description click where it says ‘See More’. Then scroll to the heading that says ‘Moderators’ (usually at or near the bottom). Next to that should be an icon of an envelope. Clicking that will open a modmail.
  • Desktop (old, new, and reddit. com): On the right hand side of the subreddit is a sidebar. Look or scroll down that sidebar until you find a button that says ‘Message Mods’. Clicking that will open a modmail.

When sending the Modmail there are some steps you can take to help the process along:

  • Format your message to make it easier to understand. Little things like putting in line breaks between links, labeling your links, etc can really help.
  • If the Modmail has a preformatted template, don’t erase what is written. Simply put your response after the question and move to the next. I put a line breaks after the prefilled question and then my response. That is not at all a requirement, but my neurospicy, type A brain requires it. Keeping the preformatted questions keeps the context and your responses in one place.
  • In the title, mention this is for verification in some way. My go to is ‘Verification request’.
  • Be polite and professional when writing your message. Moderators can absolutely get on our nerves, but they are human too and will react to disrespect or impatience in kind. I have had more than one occasion where I should have been permanently banned from a sub but because in all other interactions I was always respectful to the mods I got another shot. 
  • Once it has been sent off, be patient. I know it is frustrating after a few days have gone by with no response or even confirmation it was received. But, these are volunteers who do this in their personal time or while at their desk pretending to be working. They often have civilian jobs and equally as often they are other creators and they have to balance that and finding time to do this. That being said, if a couple weeks have gone by, a respectful inquiry as to the status and if you could provide anything else to help, isn’t the worst idea.

Though this is a long, tedious as hell process, it genuinely keeps us safer. It helps prevent bots from taking over a space. It helps cut down on cat fishing accounts or accounts using stolen content. It also keeps scammers from posing as us, scamming consumers, and worsening the market climate. It also is a green flag for a more well run, more trustworthy, and more well moderated subreddit (most of the time). I know the process can be confusing at first, so I hope this helped make it a bit easier to do!

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Well my worst fucking nightmare has come true. Fan growth for Reddit is currently down because of reddit's updates. Is anybody else's scheduler no longer working?

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Out on the Patreon now is the full updated Payment Methods for Adult Creators! Link/sourceless/media-less version in body!

Click here for the full resource!

I tried to copy and paste and got filtered for a banned link. On the patreon is all source links etc. here is the same resource, no links. I have no idea which of the 50 tripped it, and am not gonna find out lol! Also looks like adding images to reddit text posts just got stupider and i am NOT trying to post this again (5th time now...... ugh).

Every year I try and sit down and write out a resource that covers all available and widely used payment processors that creators can use. I always try and include both the less safe but still used options. We also go over all of the safer options. Safer, but not safe. And we also try and find whatever truly safe options there are out there for us adult creators to be able to use.

Let’s get into the safe, safer, and unsafe payment options currently available for adult content creators to use as of June 2026. Now we do normally structure this into those categories just listed, but given the state of gestures wildly at everything, we will just be breaking it down with the following:

  • Cash transfer apps
  • Wishlist sites
  • Platforms
  • Clip sites
  • Other

It's entirely up to yall to do a bit more research and determine if you find it safe.

Note that as of 6/9/2026 both Throne and YouPay have recently reported issues with their payment processors.

2025’s Payment method resource can be found here

2024’s payment method resource can be found here

Cash Transfer Apps

Cashapp

Cashapp is still widely used by mostly US based creators and buyers. Lately though reports of account shut downs have skyrocketed.

Anonymity:

  • Cash App may make the following information available to other Cash App users:
    • Your name
    • Your $Cashtag
    • Your prior transaction history with that person
    • When you joined Cash App
    • Whether you appear in the person’s contacts
    • How many people in their contacts have also transacted with you
  • Cash App’s current profile-name guidance also states that a user’s legal last name is used as the profile last name. That creates a much larger privacy concern than the older assumption that creators could display any completely unrelated stage name.

Regarding TOS:

  • Regardless of if you have a business account and follow those TOS or the personal TOS, usszing Cashapp to sell or accept payment for any adult services is against tos.
  • There have been thousands and thousands of accounts shut down for no reason, and creators report account closures regularly. I am one of those creators. Until August 2024 I was able to use Cashapp as my primary account, earning over 80k on the platform with a business account before they shut it down along with every other one I have attempted to open.
    • 💡Tip: Give your clients a direct copy and paste that they can put into the notes section for each payment to reduce flags this way. Blacklist any one who deviates for putting your business at risk. Always have a business account as this is absolutely taxable income.

Regarding Payouts & Fees:

  • Cashapp business fees are: “A 2.6% + $0.15 processing fee on each payment you receive from your customer’s Cash App account to your Cash App Business account”
  • Payouts are at user decided speeds and have separate fees associated:
    • “Standard transfers are free and usually arrive within 1–3 business days
    • Instant transfers typically arrive immediately to your linked debit card and are subject to a 0.5%–2.5% fee (minimum $0.25–$1, maximum $75).”

Critical Links:

Cash App General Terms

Cash App Business Terms

PayPal

Before you think of using paypal, I implore you to read through this giant collection of creators reporting account shut downs or give this a read. Just dont use paypal.

Anonymity

  • PayPal says the recipient of a payment may see:
    • The payer’s name
    • Profile photo or avatar
    • Payment amount
    • Payment comments
    • Shipping address when paying for goods or services
  • A PayPal Business account allows the account holder to use a company or business name as the name attached to the business account. That can reduce the risk of a buyer seeing the creator’s legal name. However, the creator needs to carefully review their business profile, receipts, invoices, payment links, customer-service information, return address, email address, and statement descriptor.

Regarding TOS:

  • Of all apps out there that hate sex workers, this one takes the cake in strictness. PayPal does not permit transactions involving sexually oriented digital goods or services, including:
    • Downloadable adult pictures
    • Downloadable adult videos
    • Adult website subscriptions
    • Webcam content
    • Digital adult content delivered through another medium
    • Services facilitating meetings for sexual activity

Regarding Payouts & Fees:

  • They have multiple payout methods and fee structures that can be found here.

Critical Links:

PayPal User Agreement

PayPal Acceptable Use Policy

PayPal Policy on Sexually Oriented Goods and Services

PayPal Business Fees

Venmo

For some reason folks are still using venmo for payment for adult goods and services. Venmo... which is owned by paypal. If I were to be categorizing into safe and unsafe, this would fall into the later.

Anonymity:

  • Every participant in a Venmo transaction can see:
    • The payment amount
    • The payment note
    • The names of the sender and recipient
    • The date and time of the payment
  • If the payment is set to Public or Friends, other people may also see the names, note, and timestamp. The sender’s payment method is not visible to the recipient.
  • Users can choose a separate display name, but Venmo still records the legal identity behind the account.

Regarding TOS:

  • Venmo’s User Agreement incorporates PayPal’s Acceptable Use Policy. PayPal prohibits sexually oriented digital content and services, including downloadable adult material, subscriptions, and certain sexual services.
  • Venmo also requires commercial transactions to be completed through an approved business profile or identified as a goods-and-services transaction. Personal payments cannot officially be used for business transactions.

Regarding Payouts & Fees:

  • Venmo payouts are multi tiered and multi-optional. As this is a platform we shouldn't use, I won’t be writing them all out. They can be found here.

Critical Links:

Venmo User Agreement

Venmo Fee Schedule

Venmo Privacy Settings

PayPal Acceptable Use Policy Incorporated by Venmo

Wishlist Sites/Apps

Throne

Throne is still the OG for gifting platforms and one of the most widely recognized tipping platforms in direct selling that is not a cash transfer app. She is my main payment platform and my tried and true.

Anonymity:

Throne provides some of the strongest privacy protection between a creator and a buyer.Throne states that fans will not see the creator’s real name, delivery name, home address, or other identifiable shipping information. The creator enters their real delivery information privately, and Throne only shares the information required to complete the shipment with the merchant fulfilling the order.

Regarding TOS:

  • Throne describes itself as a gifting platform. Its terms state that a gift cannot be received:
    • As consideration for a transaction
    • As payment for services
    • As payment for goods
    • In exchange for access to a creator’s content, services, or products
    • In exchange for any other goods or services
  • Throne’s separate cash-gift policy is even more direct. Cash-gift requests cannot reference NSFW content, sexual content, adult services, performances, or content. Cash-gift requests must be connected to a physical item and cannot simply be listed as “tip,” “cash,” “money,” or a dollar amount. Violations can result in removal from the platform.
    • 💡Tip: Have a copy paste of 7-10 gift titles that are actual, physical things to cycle through for cash gift titles to make things easier. Mine include get my hair did, nail day, desktop computer dreams, etc.

Regarding Payouts & Fees:

  • Creators are not charged to receive gifts. You earn 100% of what you list the gift for. The applicable costs are added to the gifter’s checkout total.
    • As of June 2026 the fee structure for buyers includes payment processing and service fees.
  • Minimum payout is $3.50 and creators have two fee-less options for payout
    • payout through Throne Payouts. if a fan has chosen expedited withdrawals, for me the turn around to my bank is a few hours.
    • payout through stripe. when I was using this less-safe option it usually took about 3-5 days.

Critical Links:

Throne Terms of Service

Throne Cash Gift Restrictions

Throne Fee Structure

Youpay

YouPay is still the newcomer on the wishlist scene but has built a solid base of buyers and creators who prefer it for its cash gifting.

Anonymity:

YouPay also provides extremely strong privacy between the payer and the recipient.

YouPay states that gift recipients do not have access to the payer’s private information, and payers cannot see the recipient’s personal details. This includes private information such as legal names, email addresses, payment details, and shipping addresses.

Regarding TOS:

  • YouPay’s terms describe payments as nonrefundable gift donations. They specifically state that payments are not made in exchange for goods, services, or benefits and that the payer should not expect anything in return.
    • 💡Tip: keep your gift titles CLEAN! Nothing sexual and nothing to reflect payment, only donations and gifts.
  • YouPay’s creator guidance also explains that gifts must have “donative intent.” That means a creator cannot guarantee content, products, or services in return for the gift.
    • “All payments made are non-refundable gift donations. They are not made in exchange for any goods, services, or benefits. You are donating out of goodwill to the recipient whose wishlist page you are contributing to. No user should expect any services or products in return for making a gift donation.“ -TOS section 6

Regarding Payouts & Fees:

  • Creators receive 100% of the listed gift value. The payer is charged YouPay’s gifting fee.
    • As of June 2026 the fees included base and additional payer fees.
  • Creatorflow is YouPay’s current cash-gifting and withdrawal system. Creatorflow offers instant and standard payouts. The payout fee changes based on your payout method but instant withdrawals incur a 2% fee.

Critical Links:

YouPay Terms of Service

YouPay Setup Walkthrough

YouPay Gifting Fees

Creatorflow Explained

Platforms

MintPay via MintStars

Want a platform for tipping that was basically built for these purposes? Who is so down for sex workers that they went and built their own payment processor just to protect us? Yeah, that’s Mintstars.

Regarding TOS:

  • As an adult content platform primarily, mintstars has no concern for creators being paid for adult content. When it comes to being paid for off platform services, they don’t officially say anywhere. However in the youtube episode breaking down MintStars, which included a section of praise for being a direct selling tipping solution, the previous co-owner gave her sign off. They have even created Mintybot, a discord bot to accept tips off of Mintstars. Though their legal docs dont say anything specific, i think it is safe to assume its allowed.
  • MintPay expressly allows a supporter to send a creator money without maintaining a full MintStars account, easier facilitating direct selling off platform.

Regarding Payouts & Fees:

  • MintStars built their own payment processor to help stabilize the process and protect creators payouts. To payout creators can choose to use banks, a crypto wallet or to a creator debit card.
  • Creators earn 100% of their listed price and buyers incur any and all fees.
  • Payout fees vary by method but for me to payout via ACH to my bank it is always a flat $1.70.

Critical Links:

MintStars

How MintStars Works

MintPay FAQ

MintStars Legal Policies Hub

OnlyFans

Onlyfans is still used as a payment method by some who still have the platform already. After being scammed by chargebacks three times I stopped offering it as an option a long while ago.

Regarding TOS:

  • The main question that comes up here is can I deliver content off platform, or take people off platform. That info is very hard to find specifically stated on their platform, but in email their support said it is allowed.
  • Onlyfans allows fans to chargeback, and will deduct the chargeback from your account balance. There is no protection from this scam on this platform and your account can be shut down if you are scammed too many times.

Regarding Payouts & Fees:

  • Creators earn only 80% of their listed price as the platform takes a flat fee f 10%. Different areas of the world have different payout methods, including direct bank transfer, international/wire transfer, etc.
  • Creators can set their account to payout automatically daily, weekly, or monthly or use manual payouts.
    • 💡Tip: OnlyFans holds all funds for 7 days before you can withdraw. Note that a chargeback can happen at any time within or after this window.

Critical Links:

OnlyFans Terms of Service

Fansly

Fansly is the adult platform that I would personally say is a safer alternative to onlyfans. I personally use it as a payment method. I add 20% to the total cost of whatever I sell to cover the platform fee.

Regarding TOS:

  • Fansly shields creators from chargebacks in most cases. That isn't all cases though. If you have too many pile up, or too high of an amount charged, they will look at closing your account.
  • Their Creator Security FAQ says that if the content violates TOS you cannot use the platform as a wallet. But they dont say you cant use it if does comply. It reads like a dont ask dont tell, but dont use the platform as a wallet for violating content.

Regarding Payouts & Fees:

  • Similar to OnlyFans, Fansly uses the same fee structure for creators at 80% take home, and 20% platform fees.
  • Funds are held seven days before payout is available.
  • Payout minimums are dependant on the payout method.

Critical Links:

Fansly Terms of Service

Fansly Creator Security FAQ

Getting Started on Fansly

Fansly Payout Processing Times

Fansly Payout Minimums

Clip Sites

ManyVids

Many creators have left ManyVids after their comments from their leadership, and their recent public behavior. It is still however, a viable option for payment.

Regarding TOS:

  • In section 4.3 of their TOS they have it clearly stated that ManyVids is not to be used as a payment platform.
    • *“*To clarify, Tips and Tokens cannot substitute for Content payment or any activity violating these TOS, nor are they obligatory for Members to access the Platform or Content. When Members allocate Tips or Tokens, they do so voluntarily without expecting any reciprocation.”
  • ManyVids strongly condemns interactions between users and uploaders outside the platform.

Regarding Payouts & Fees:

  • ManyVids takes 20% of tips and creators keep 80%.
  • ManyVids currently processes creator payouts weekly on Wednesdays after a seven-day holding period.
  • Typical delivery is approximately two to seven business days, depending on the method.

Critical Links:

ManyVids Terms for Uploaders

ManyVids Terms for Users and Members

ManyVids Payout Percentages

ManyVids Payout Information

IWantClips

IWantClips is a great clipsite that many creators do offer as a tipping platform. Watch IWantClips vs Clips4Sale here.

Regarding TOS:

  • Tipping is an option on the platform, however the platform does not allow it to be used as payment.

Regarding Payouts & Fees:

  • IWantClips offers multiple, multiple payout options that can all be found here. each has its own fee structure.
  • Creators earn 80% of tips.
  • IWantClips offers charge back protection up to a certain amount monthly.

Critical Links:

IWantEmpire Official Help Center

IWantClips Content Publishing Guidelines

IWantClips Tips and Tributes Guide

IWantClips Revenue Shares

IWantClips Payout Policies

Suggested in the Community

Amazon Gift Card

This is a fairly highly contested method of payment. That gift card you get can only be used on Amazon, and cannot be cashed out in any way. Again, ensure that your buyers know to not leave any notes on this gift. As Amazon is also adult content creation and sex worker unfriendly. The biggest pro with Amazon gift cards is they are non-refundable unless required by law.

There are a couple commonly used methods of accepting an Amazon gift card and some are safer than others. But that golden rule still applies with this, you do not perform that content or service until you see those funds in your gift card balance in your account.

  1. A very common method of receiving Amazon gift cards is a code. The buyer will purchase the card, copy the code, and then send it to you. Again, do not perform any content or services until you have made sure that that gift card works and it is for the correct account by applying it to your balance.
  2. Another common method is through email. You provide your work email, which only has your stage name information on it, to the buyer. They will purchase a card and then email that card to you. And then you will check that balance in your account and make sure it works.
  3. Critical Links
    • Amazon.com Balance and Amazon.com Gift Card Terms and Conditions
    • Amazon Privacy Notice
    • Amazon Conditions of Use

Fangate

FanGate is an adult-friendly direct sales platform built for creators who want to sell digital content through individual payment and delivery links. Creators can share those links through Reddit, Telegram, X, email, direct messages, websites, or QR codes, which makes FanGate specifically designed for off-platform promotion and direct customer communication. The buyer pays through FanGate, and the platform delivers access to the purchased media through the generated link. FanGate’s official materials state that creators receive 90% while FanGate charges a 10% fee, which is generally added to the buyer’s checkout total rather than deducted from the creator’s listed price. The platform also requires buyers to confirm that they are adults before accessing explicit material and may require additional age verification depending on the buyer’s location.

  • Critical Links:
    • FanGate Terms of Service
    • FanGate Direct-to-Fan Sales Guide
    • FanGate Creator Fee Comparison
    • FanGate Card-Terminal and QR Payment Guide

Square

Be careful using square. Though I have heard of others using it as an option, Payment Terms specifically list adult entertainment-oriented products and services as an unsupported industry, including adult material provided through the internet, telephone, or printed media. Square’s current Free plan charges 2.6% plus $0.15 for in-person payments, 3.3% plus $0.30 for online payments and invoices, 2.9% plus $0.30 through its online API, and 3.5% plus $0.15 for manually entered or card-on-file payments. Standard next-business-day transfers are free, while instant and same-day transfers cost 1.95%. Square is not anonymous because it requires the account holder’s legal identity, business information, address, tax details, and bank information. Customers generally see the business name entered in the Square account on their receipts and card statements, so using a legitimate business or brand name can provide some buyer-facing privacy, but Square and its financial partners still know who owns and operates the account. Square may also hold funds, establish reserves, respond to disputes, or terminate accounts that violate its terms.

  • Critical Links:
    • Square General Terms
    • Square Payment Terms
    • Square Processing Fees
    • Square Processing Fees
    • Square Transfer Options and Fees

Again, I know none of the links are there. Reddit is meaner than me and I am lazy. Full resource with links can be found here.

u/kuyariggedalley — 20 days ago

Help! Where are you getting paid??

Howdy hey everybody!

I'm wondering if I can pick your guys's brain to help me with a resource! We are doing the updated version of the available payment methods resource and I'm pretty old school and set in my ways with my throne, youpay, and mintstars for payment methods. Made me realize I might be missing some new kids on the block and I need more suggestions and more examples of what's out there!

Where are you using as a payment method!? Would love to hear:

  • Where?
  • And maybe what you like/dislike about it if you don't mind sharing!
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u/kuyariggedalley — 28 days ago

How Femdom Creators Build Power, Trust, Boundaries, and a Real Business - New podcast episode has dropped!

A While back we asked y'all what you would want to know about femdom and that podcast episode is finally out!

Got more you want to know?

Leave it all in the comments below, because Quynn is going to be sticking around with us for the long run and if we see enough questions or comments come in from everywhere we might have to do another episode just like this!

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u/kuyariggedalley — 1 month ago

Creators Spicy Tea and Creators Resource Chats are celebrating our anniversary!

Howdy Hey Everyone!

Today is the anniversary of Creators Spicy Tea and Creators Resource Chats partnership and we wanted to take a hot sec and CELEBRATE!!!! In that time we have seen our little family grow in members by 44%, become so much more diverse in the variety of creators, types of content being made, advice and perspective being shared, and all varieties of people, and we have seen genuine, deep connections form between members.

This space has just become my home away from home, filled with my friends, family and peers. I am so blessed and grateful to have this partnership with CRC and the owner, Kiki. Kiki also wanted to share a sentiment to celebrate today!

"It feels like it should be more than two years for the anniversary, but I'm grateful so every second still. May we have plenty more and welcome even more people home."

Thank you all so incredibly much for the past two years together. For all the help you have given me and every member of the community here. For all the support, love, care, kindness, reality checks, mental health support, and friendship over the last few years together! And as Kiki said, may we have plenty more together!

Creators Resource Chats for those who don't know, is a verified-creator only discord server dedicated to sharing education, resources, support and community for adult content creators, and the best corner of the Internet to exist.

❤️,
Alley & Kiki

u/kuyariggedalley — 1 month ago
▲ 8 r/Creators_spicy_tea+1 crossposts

Subreddit Prime Posting Time Analysis

Social Rise Subreddit Analysis

If you are manually posting on Reddit, timing is everything!

When I manually post my content I always check this subreddit analysis tool to find the best posting times and this bad boy never seems to fail!

Just plug in the subreddit name in the search bar and then check the heatmap that populates to find the best times to post your promo!

u/NoirSoleXO — 1 month ago

X introduces multiple account limits for unverified users

What are the limits?

"What are the new X limits? X said that the current technical limits for non-verified accounts include:

  • 500 Direct Messages per day
  • 50 original posts per day for unverified users
  • 200 replies per day for unverified users
  • 4 account email changes per hour
  • 400 follows per day"

Why is this changing?

"According to details shared on X’s Help Center, the company said these limits are intended to reduce pressure on backend systems, lower downtime, and minimise error pages during periods of high activity."

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u/kuyariggedalley — 2 months ago
▲ 19 r/Creators_spicy_tea+1 crossposts

r/FetishWantAds Rules - Broken down and explained with examples

Lately I have been noticing some confusion in the community regarding  (will also be called r/ FWA in this resource) and their rules. So, I thought we could break them down one by one, while focusing on what sellers/creators need to know!

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What is r/ FWA?

 is a subreddit dedicated for purchasers of adult content, both physical and digital, to post requests for paid content to the selling community. The focus of the subreddit is for fetish based content, though we see requests that span everything from vanilla to taboo. This is not an advertising or promotional subreddits and sellers/creators can not post. Only purchasers/buyers are permitted to post their requests. This subreddit is the marketplace community for  r/FetishBuyersCommunity (also to be called r/ FBC in this resource). As such, this sub is within the r/ FBC, , and  family of communities.

What are the rules?

First things first, where can the rules be found? Usually they can be easily found in one of two places:

  • On desktop browser: On the right hand side sidebar.
  • On mobile: Underneath the subreddit banner and name should be text that says "see more". Clicking that will open up the subreddit about info including the rules.

Base Subreddit Rules

The subreddit rules as listed and described in the sidebar and mobile see more menu are as follows:

  • Zero Tolerance for Harassment This includes but is not limited to racism, sexism, bullying, homophobia, etc.
  • Keep it Legal Do not utilize this subreddit in a way that violates the law or reddit's content policy. This includes but is not limited to:
    • All users must be 18+
    • No in person services. Meetups are for physical item exchange only.
    • Consenting parties only.
    • No involving animals (this includes insects).
    • Roleplay is allowed, but the terms must be explicitly stated in requests and responses.
  • Violations of this rule will result in a ban.
  • This is a Marketplace for Buyers and Sellers
    •  Buyers - When posting an ad, you must be prepared to pay for the items or services. Unless clearly stated in your post, you must be payment ready for what you list in your ad.
    • Sellers - Do not offer free items or services. Offering free or discounted items/services in exchange for a review is not permitted
  • Account Requirements
    • Buyers - Accounts must be 90+ days old in order to post requests.
    • Sellers - Accounts are required to meet certain account age and karma requirements to comment on requests. We do not disclose the exact requirements, but they can be met quickly by actively engaging in reddit by making posts and comments. Attempts to circumvent this policy (DMs to buyers) will result in a ban.
  • Post Requirements
    • No seller posts.
    • No photo posts, embedded photos in requests are permissible.
    • Buyer requests are the only permitted post.
    • All posts must contain specific details of what is being requested, as well as details related to budget, payment methods, etc.
    • Off platform usernames and alternate contact info are not permitted within requests.
    • Posts shall be limited to 2 submissions per member, every 7 days (twice per week). Attempts to circumvent this rule will result in a ban.
  • Time Wasting and Scamming
    • Buyers - We have zero tolerance for time wasters. Wasting a seller's time is grounds for a permanent ban.
    • Sellers - We have zero tolerance for scamming. Scamming will result in a permanent ban.
  • No Direct Messaging - Sellers must comment on the post. Sellers must comment on the buyer's post. This ensures the buyer that the seller has not been banned from the community.
    • Sellers - DO NOT direct message or send chat requests to the buyer unless they request it after you comment! If they are interested, they will contact you. This includes external platforms.
    • Buyers - DO NOT encourage sellers to direct message or send chat requests to you! DO NOT include alternative contact info in requests. If interested, they will comment.
  • Comment Requirements
    • Sellers
    • Do not comment unless you are able to fulfill the request and meet all of the listed requirements.
    • Comments that only mention the budget are not permitted.
    • Buyers
    • Do not comment on other buyers' requests.
    • Buyers & Sellers
    • Discussion comments are not permitted.
    • No “warning” comments. Sellers can report timewasters in , and buyers can report scams in r/FetishBuyersCommunity*.*
    • No "recommendation" comments. Do not tag other users.
  • Good Standing w/Community All users must be in good standing with r/FetishHaven, r/PlayhouseSellersForum , and r/FetishBuyersCommunity.
  • Do Not Attempt to Circumvent the Rules attempts to circumvent the rules will result in a ban. This includes but is not limited to:
    • Using alt accounts to post more often.
    • Using alt accounts to utilize the sub during temporary or permanent bans.
    • Posting a request that meets our criteria but sharing illegal aspects of the request in dms.
    • Sellers direct messaging buyers instead of (or after) commenting on the request.
    •  etc.
  • Reporting FWA does not host or handle any reports beyond seller initiated dms.
    • Sellers - you can report buyer misconduct to r/PlayhouseSellersForum and r/FetishHaven
    • Buyers - you can report scams in r/FetishBuyersCommunity*. To report seller initiated DMs from FWA requests, send us a modmail with a link (using an image host like imgur, redgifs, google drive folder, etc) to view a screenshot of the interaction.*
  • Taboo and Extreme Requests When requesting something that is considered taboo or extreme, all relevant details must be listed in the request post. This allows sellers to have clear expectations when responding, reduces time wasted on both sides, and ensures that the details of requests made do not violate this subreddits rules.
    • Roleplay is permitted, but the terms of the arrangement must be explicitly stated in both requests and responses.

Lets break those down!

We are going to dive deep into the rules here, specifically the ones that affect creators. But first, a very very important thing to note! It does not matter if you as the creator did not post a rule violation. If you even just comment showing that you will provide the requested severice on a post that violates any of the rules, you will also be reprimanded. Consequences could consist of everything from a warning, to a temporary ban, to a permanent ban. The severity of the consequences for rule breaking is dependent on the rule, the number of infractions you have had, and multiple other factors.

  • Zero Tolerance for Harassment
  • Just be kind y'all. If that is too much of a stretch, then respectful. And if even that is too much, don't comment, and scroll by.
  • Keep it Legal
  • All users must be 18+
  • This is an easy one to follow as we all should be over 18 if we are creating adult content and we should all be verifying that our clients or potentials are over 18 with age verification. For a quick reminder on age verification processes, check this resource)
  • No in person services. Meetups are for physical item exchange only.

This one tends to get a few people so lets go over it with some examples.

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This seems great and dandy, right until that very end where it mentions "this arrangement would have to go more than online". Immediately right there is the Big Red Flag and what will get your account and you a consequence if you respond to it. Let's see another:

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This one is definitely tricky and can get a bit confusing. The buyer clearly mentions that they are willing to do both online and offline. A big rule of thumb would be any post you see that mentions going IRL, offline, in person, anything like that, anything past a online service, do not respond. Do not comment. Do not DM. Nothing like that. Because even if it says the buyer is looking for either, or both, that post is already in violation of this rule. Therefore any commenters will also be in violation.

  • Consenting parties only.
    • This means no one who does not expect to see or be involved in the content final product or content creation process can be involved. Think of this rule as similar to most platform rules. When it comes to content creation and the final product or service, only you, and other consenting, knowledgeable and age verified adults can be involved. This means requests such as the following will not be allowed:
      • Showing other people the clients image
      • Showing yourself to other people
      • Public nudity or sexual acts
      • Etc, this is by no means an exhaustive list.
      • No involving animals (this includes insects).
    • is not uncommon by any means to see requests for crushing videos, acts involving pets, or other requests that ask for animal involvement. These are all not allowed. No animal should ever be involved in any of your content. Due to the general sexual nature of the subreddit, and the general nature of the content we create and that thee buyers are coming to us to consume, we need to consider all of our content and services to be of a sexually gratifying nature. Therefore the involvement of animals could easily be seen as, misconstrued as, or manipulated to seem to be beastiality. Lets look at an example:

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This request specifically states they are not looking for overtly or obviously sexual content. However, again due to the nature of the marketplace it was posted, and the general focus of the content us creators make, we must assume there is a level of sexual gratification in this for the consumer. Rule of thumb: if you see anything mentioning an animal, that is not explicitly stated to be roleplay between consenting adults, do not comment. This is absolutely in violation of this rule.

  • Roleplay is allowed, but the terms must be explicitly stated in requests and responses.
    • Where a lot of the rules and regulations get fuzzy is when it comes down to roleplay. We discussed roleplay fairly in-depth in the first Fetish and Kink Dictionary resource where we defined it as "...when participants, two or more, act out erotic fantasies." There are a million different forms of this but, what we are focusing on is the taboo forms such as pet play or age play. Lets look at an example that does follow the rules.

https://preview.redd.it/spoqrj84ex0h1.jpg?width=820&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5299a941feec839754e04b72d08af51ef7c2d714

This very, very, very explicitly states and re-states that this is roleplay only. Due to this, even though the subject matter would be violating the rules, since it is going to only be a scenario acted out amongst consenting adults, it is fine.

  • This is a Marketplace for Buyers and Sellers
    •  Buyers
      • This rule is one we don't really need to go in-depth on. It is a rule put in place to attempt to protect us from timewasters seeking to gain free content. Violators of this rule should be reported to .
  • Account Requirements
    • The mods do not and will not ever publicize this. They wont tell anyone what the account age or karma requirements are for sellers. Build your profile then start commenting. The only ways to check if you are eligible is to comment and wait for automod to respond, or remove your comment, or message the mods. Note: Y'all, I know we all want this information. But please know this, if the requirements are publicly posted, the mods will only increase or in some way change them.
  • Post Requirements
    • As creators/sellers we cannot post so we will not go into this
  • Time Wasting and Scamming
    • All time wasters should be reported to   r/FetishHaven and r/PlayhouseSellersForum along with screenshot evidence of the interaction and the buyers profile information.
    • Scamming has zero tolerance as it should. If you cannot deliver promised content, you must communicate this with the buyer and work out another arrangement or provide a refund.
  • No Direct Messaging - Sellers must comment on the post.
    • The amount of time the moderators buy accounts alone recieve DMs blows my mind. It may seem like a work around if you are unable to comment yet, but even buyers wont tolerate this and sellers are constantly reported to mods for this.
  • Comment Requirements
    • Focusing on seller requirements lets break it down
    • You need to know for certain that you can fulfill this request. That means all aspects of it. For example, if a specific age range or body type is mentioned and you do not fall in that category, don't comment.
    • It is totally alright to have questions on their budget. But you cannot just comment "is the budget flexible". Add more details than that on why you are intrested in the request. Not only does that keep you compliant to the rules, it is overall best practices.
    • Discussion comments, such as responding to a request with no intention to fulfill it, but rather to just start a conversation on it is a no. There are many other great places for this.
    • I feel you hard when it comes to the stipulation of no warning comments. If you have been scammed by a buyer it is only natural to want to spread the word and protect your peers. This is not the place. Again, that needs to be reported to r/FetishHaven and r/PlayhouseSellersForum
  • Good Standing w/Community
    • As r/ FWA is a subsidiary of the r/ FBC family, your account must be in good standing with all of the affiliate communities mentioned at the beginning of this resource. That means no temp bans, bans etc.
  • Do Not Attempt to Circumvent the Rules
    • This is fairly straightforward so we will move on from this rule.
  • Reporting
    • Again, any buyer misconduct should be reported to  r/FetishHaven and r/PlayhouseSellersForum

To close out, understanding and following the rules of r/FetishWantAds is crucial for all sellers and creators to maintain a good standing in the community and to ensure a safe, legal, and respectful marketplace. By adhering to these guidelines, not only do you protect your own account from potential bans, but you also contribute to a more positive and transparent experience for everyone involved. Remember, r/ FWA operates within a larger community network, and your actions on this subreddit impact your reputation across all related communities. Stay informed, respect the rules, and engage responsibly to build a successful and sustainable presence in this unique space.

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u/TFP-Artemis — 2 months ago

This Google sheet (linked in body) contains a giant rundown of what is and is not allowed or restricted on very, very many adult content platforms such as OF, Fansly, etc!

Site Restrictions Google Sheet

This resource was created by Sophie Ladder. ​Heads up the most recent documented update on the change log was 4/2025 so please be sure to also check the platforms ToS to ensure accuracy!

u/kuyariggedalley — 2 months ago