Young frum couple for couple
So I (Male half) have been here for a while but never posted. Also never really found what we were looking for by direct messaging so figured maybe a post would help. (Wife has no patience for reddit but is fully on the same page)
We are a chasidish regular monsey couple in our upper 20s more to the skinny side and decent looks. We have a fun and somewhat hidden naughty side to us. We are also pretty soft and classy. Not loud brash and all out there. We dont drink, smoke etc but not super frim either. Hard to explain but anyway. We are not complicated and like to have an equal give and take with the people we enjoy being friends with.
What we are looking for is a soft, sweet drama free couple in their 20s or very early thirtys that is also chasidish, NY area, (so a "potential" meetup can always be feasible) and should be to the skinny side too and good looking. We are not looking to meet up right away. More of an online relationship for a few months and then see what the chemistry is like. 2 deal breakers for us is being stingy with body pics/vids and not having telegram. Obviously all pics would be without faces to protect all identities until both feel comfortable sharing identities which is also not guaranteed to happen at all. If you dont like sharing lots of pics, thats ok but not something that we are looking for so please dont waste everyones time. If we both reach the point where we are comfortable with each other, we would love to be normal couple friends, going away for shabbos together, vacations together, eating out at night randomly together, watching movies together some bowling nights etc. And of course a bit of carefree naughtiness between us when in private settings wouldn't hurt...
As a lot of couples know womans (and mens too) mood, hormones, and appetite can fluctuate when it comes to anything being colored out of the line, and at this point we basically figured out through trial and error that the above is what we would generally be comfortable with. Of course things can change there too but this is where we are at for the last 2 years. If you know that you or your other half are still struggling to find your comfort and guilt free zone please be upfront about it so we can decide whether its worth our time pursuing it or not as we are looking for something more stable and potentially long term. Quality over quantity. Not sporadic flighty kind of communication.
We will absolutely verify that its a couple where both are on board, with a non sexual but foolproof way to prove that everyone is real before wasting time on chit chat. So please dont reach out if you are not able or interested in a verification process. Its not the exciting part of starting something new but im sure all the real couples out there understand why its necessary.
Lastly we might decide after exchanging pics that there is no physical attraction there for us and respectully end the interaction. If you think you might take that personal please do not reach out. Not everyone is made for everyone. Its not personal.
P.S. Im not so active on reddit so might be off here and there until we connect to telegram. Please dont ask me to dm and if you do decide to reach out please list your basic info right away, including age, skinny or average, area you live at, level of frum, etc. Please do not reach out if you are not a couple. It will just waste eveyones time.