Looking for a side guy (totally not into anal or anything related to ass) who loves to frot, kiss, make love etc and cums prematurely just like me?
Not a big fan of armpits or other such kinks too. Hung me up!
There is a specific kind of high when you and your bro finally drop every single boundary. No roles, no prep, no asking for permission. Just the unspoken rule that his body is completely yours to use whenever the urge hits, and yours is his.
Imagine just walking into the room, grabbing him, and shoving him back on the bed. No talking. Clothes only half off—just enough to pull out both your rock-hard cocks and press them flush together. He already knows exactly what’s happening. He just tilts his hips up and lets you take over.
That’s the beauty of it. It’s pure, greedy friction right from the very first second. You are using his body to get off, pinning him down, gripping his thighs tight so you can grind exactly the way you need to. And he’s doing the exact same thing right back to you, chasing his own high, pushing back against every heavy thrust.
You get completely lost in it. Deep, wet, desperate kissing while you hump him relentlessly. No performing, no worrying about lasting—just using each other for that instant, high-voltage release. It’s the heavy breathing, the sweat, the slick heat of pre-cum making every single stroke electric. You strip away everything else until you are completely merged, furiously rubbing until you both short-circuit and explode together.
Nothing beats that boundary-less, skin-on-skin release. You take what you need, and you give him exactly what he craves.
Who else is obsessed with this kind of raw, free-use friction? Drop your ultimate fantasy below.
Hey guys,
This is a post for a specific group of us I know are out there but often have a hard time connecting, especially here in India.
I'm talking to the guys who don't fit into the usual "top," "bottom," or even "vers" categories. The guys whose ideal sexual encounter is all about hot, passionate, non-penetrative fun.
I'm talking about "Sides."
What is a "Side"?
For anyone who hasn't heard the term, a "side" is a guy who is not interested in giving or receiving anal sex. Instead, his focus is entirely on other amazing forms of intimacy and fun. This includes things like:
Frotting (Lund se lund ragadna / rubbing)
Mutual masturbation (ek doosre ka muth maarna)
Passionate kissing and making out
Oral sex (giving and/or receiving)
Touching, cuddling, and body-to-body contact
Being a side isn't "less than" being a top or bottom; it's a complete and valid sexual preference on its own.
The Struggle to Find Each Other in India
I know I can't be the only one who feels this way. You go on apps like Grindr or PlanetRomeo, and the first question is always "top/btm/vers?". When you say you're not into anal, people either get confused, lose interest, or try to convince you otherwise. It can feel really isolating, making you think you're the only one.
But we're not. There are many desi gay and bi men who prefer non-anal fun. We love the intimacy and friction of lund to lund rubbing, the thrill of mutual pleasure, and connecting with another guy without the focus on penetration.
Let's Build a Community
The problem is, where do we find each other? How do we connect?
This subreddit (r/lundtolundrubbing) is great for the specific fantasy and act, but we also need a broader space to talk, share experiences, and find potential partners and friends within our desi community.
That's why I wanted to point everyone here to r/desigayside.
It's a growing community for all South Asian gay, bi, and queer men to connect. While it's not exclusively for "sides," it's a safe and welcoming place where we can be open about our preferences and find other like-minded guys from our own culture. The more of us who join and are open about being sides, the easier it will be for all of us to find each other.
So, if this post resonates with you, please:
Upvote this so more Indian guys can see it.
Comment below. Are you a side? What has your experience been like dating in India? Let's talk about it.
Check out and join r/desigayside to help build our community.
You are not alone in this. Let's make it easier for us to find the connection and fun we're looking for.
That’s me doing the thing I love the most: humping the bed to cum
Looking for young boy to love like this. Have place tomorrow. Janakpuri
Super excited, first time trying it. Both of us are in college so I haven't seen him in a while but we got talking recently and now we got plans to get high and rub dicks :D guess my question is what else should I try? I don't get to do this often lol
