Bad Sex with Great Guy
I (26F) have been dating this guy (40m) for about 5 months and everything was going really great initially. We had some really great dates and our personalities really complement each other. We spend so much time together and the chemistry is so damn good. The problem I’m having is we recently started having sex a few weeks ago and it has been terrible. I didn’t know his age when we first started dating but I didn’t think 40 was old enough to start having sexual issues.
He struggles with maintaining an erection and this is still the case when taking performance enhancement. He also was really bad at performing oral initially. He was biting which was wild asf but I got him together on that end pretty much. Last night he gave really good head but he still can’t stay hard.
I have no idea what to do. I really like him but sex is so important to me. I want to talk to him about it. I brought it up a little when we recently had a conversation about me expressing my sexual needs but I didn’t want to hurt his feelings and didn’t know how to go about it in a nice way so i didn’t hone in on the erection issue as much as I should have. I don’t think sex is everything in a relationship but it is important and I fear it will only get worse from here. I could really use some solid advice pls.