u/limitlessrainfall

I feel like it’s night and day when it comes to how dommes treat dominant men and submissive men.

I find that a large chunk of domme will actively rub it in a subs face how useless they are and how they prefer dominant men. And it’s like they find subs gross. Like damn, pretend you like subs and lie.

Shout out to the dommes who will type in the chat that they love submissive men and would only date submissive men.

It feels way safer with those dommes because you know they cherish submissiveness. The ones who are vocal about how subs are *insert bad trait* seem to use this kink to extract money and use this as some form of striking back against the patriarchy / men.

Which is commendable, but I don’t think there’s anything noble extracting money from my buddy Freddie who works 12 hours a day roofing and strokes himself to sleep every night. Like go for the frat guys who spike drinks or your boss at Wendy’s or some. It’s like throwing eggs at the homeless because the ceo got McKinsey to come job and justify his decision to do layoffs and you got caught.

MY name is not FREDDIE

I’ve had 2 dynamics that lasted 1 year long. I could tell that things were going to last after 5 minutes of talking.

Sometimes I feel bad because I would message a domme and 5-10 minutes into the convo, I can feel that things aren’t meant to be so I politely just leave after letting her know I have to use the bathroom.

One dynamic was with someone the same age and the other was with someone 2x my age and she was in her early forties.

I can’t explain it, but i can just instinctively tell.