u/lisalovespisa

Hey everyone,

I’ve been lurking here for a while and finally decided to share my recent experience because it feels like a real win after some duds.

A couple weeks ago I connected with this guy (early 50s, owns a couple of businesses) on Seeking. His profile was low-key but the conversation was surprisingly good — no immediate dick pics or “what are you bringing to the table” nonsense. We chatted for about a week, nothing too heavy, just normal getting-to-know-you stuff. He suggested a lunch M&G at a nice steakhouse downtown.

I was nervous as hell because my last two meets were awkward and cheap. But when I showed up he was already there, well-dressed, good energy. He stood up, hugged me, and immediately told me I looked even better than my pics (points for that lol). We had a really nice lunch — he was funny, asked about my goals, and didn’t grill me about my body count or whatever.

After the meal he said he had something small for me “just because.” Handed me an envelope with $800 inside and said it was for my time and to buy something nice. No pressure, no “let’s go back to my hotel.” Just “I’d love to see you again if you’re comfortable.”

We’ve now had three dates. The last one he took me shopping and told me to pick out a bag I liked (got a gorgeous YSL I’ve been eyeing forever). We haven’t even slept together yet — he said he wants us both to be relaxed when it happens. PPM is generous and consistent, and he’s already talking about helping with my tuition next semester.

I’m lowkey scared it’s too good to be true, but so far it feels really comfortable. Has anyone else had that “this one feels different” experience that actually worked out?

Would love to hear your thoughts or similar stories!