It turns me on so much to think about friends and anyone else finding out about my issues. It would be so humiliating but so hot. Unfortunately I’ve never gotten the chance to experience this. I’d love to hear stories about awkward hookups getting shared, or maybe ex girlfriends that tell everyone you can’t last or anything in between. They really are the hottest stories ever to me.
The closest I ever really came to this was on a trip to Amsterdam where my wife and I met two beautiful, young women our age on a boat ride. We met them for drinks the next day and I joked about how the average visit in the red light district was less than 5 minutes. Their reaction was laughter and disbelief that the whole visit could be that quick, as well as shame directed at those men like “geez you couldn’t slow down and enjoy it”. I’m sitting there wondering if my wife was going to throw in a “I wish my husband could last even half that time” in front of these beautiful women. I would have died of embarrassment but she (thankfully I think) just smiled and laughed along.