I’d been seeing this guy and we had been out on a few dates except this one ended with me going back to his.
We were in bed, he’d used his fingers and I was definitely turned on then he went to slide it it in he kind of goes “hmmmmmm” so I just thought he was moaning as it went in like some guys do but then he pulls out and starts using his fingers again.
After about a minute I told him to put it in again and he says “I’m sorry I’ve already finished” and looking really embarrassed he took off the condom. He was doing pretty well with his fingers I told him to keep going and we’d try again later.
When he was hard again he put his condom back on and we tried again but this time it was still only about 30 seconds before he was done so we just stopped there.
I slept the night and made an excuse to leave early in the morning then a couple days later I sent him the “I think we’ll be better as friends” message.
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I’d been seeing this guy and we had been out on a few dates except this one ended with me going back to his.
We were in bed, he’d used his fingers and I was definitely turned on then he went to slide it it in he kind of goes “hmmmmmm” so I just thought he was moaning as it went in like some guys do but then he pulls out and starts using his fingers again.
After about a minute I told him to put it in again and he says “I’m sorry I’ve already finished” and looking really embarrassed he took off the condom. He was doing pretty well with his fingers I told him to keep going and we’d try again later.
When he was hard again he put his condom back on and we tried again but this time it was still only about 30 seconds before he was done so we just stopped there.
I slept the night and made an excuse to leave early in the morning then a couple days later I sent him the “I think we’ll be better as friends” message.
This ex bf is the reason I got into “sph”. He was so small that sex with him was just kind of boring and I got no real “pleasure” from it just not hitting the spots it needed to so we used to do a lot of other things with his tongue, fingers or vibrators but I’d still crave that feeling of intimacy that real sex gives.
I was talking to my friends to see if they had any ideas and one of them is a lesbian and suggested him using a strap on to fuck me instead of his dick. I spoke to him about it, he said he’d try it so we went out with him and got one.
The first time he used it was so funny seeing his little one next to it and he said that surely nobody was that big so told him how I’d been with bigger guys and how most guys are closer to that size than his. It felt amazing to finally have something do that to me again and he said he’d never felt so powerful than seeing me moan and orgasm even though it wasn’t his real dick. It made me cum really hard, like a proper leg shaking one, and then he took it off and went to use his real dick but after that I just felt nothing at all from it so I stopped him and just used my hand.
From then on sometimes we would be having sex (which was quite rare because I always tried to get him to do other stuff) and I’d stop him and get that out instead. He would look at it like it was something evil but he would use it while I told him how good it felt, how happy I was to do all the positions he couldn’t do again and how much I wished he had a real dick like that was then it would end with him begging for sex after and getting his quick handjob instead.
This ex bf is the reason I got into “sph”. He was so small that sex with him was just kind of boring and I got no real “pleasure” from it just not hitting the spots it needed to so we used to do a lot of other things with his tongue, fingers or vibrators but I’d still crave that feeling of intimacy that real sex gives.
I was talking to my friends to see if they had any ideas and one of them is a lesbian and suggested him using a strap on to fuck me instead of his dick. I spoke to him about it, he said he’d try it so we went out with him and got one.
The first time he used it was so funny seeing his little one next to it and he said that surely nobody was that big so told him how I’d been with bigger guys and how most guys are closer to that size than his. It felt amazing to finally have something do that to me again and he said he’d never felt so powerful than seeing me moan and orgasm even though it wasn’t his real dick. It made me cum really hard, like a proper leg shaking one, and then he took it off and went to use his real dick but after that I just felt nothing at all from it so I stopped him and just used my hand.
From then on sometimes we would be having sex (which was quite rare because I always tried to get him to do other stuff) and I’d stop him and get that out instead. He would look at it like it was something evil but he would use it while I told him how good it felt, how happy I was to do all the positions he couldn’t do again and how much I wished he had a real dick like that was then it would end with him begging for sex after and getting his quick handjob instead.
I’d been with my ex for about a couple months and we had messed around doing other stuff with our hands and oral like all horny young people do but we’d never actually had sex until this point.
The first attempt:
We’d had the conversation together, I’d told a bunch of my best and closest girlfriends I was going to do it, he’d got some condoms and we were in the bedroom, he had put the condom on for the first time, we got in position and started making out so I reached down, wrapped my hand round it and started rubbing it. Not long later I was definitely feeling ready so I let go and told him to put it in but he tells me he can’t and when I look down he had already filled the condom from my hand (usually from my hand he lasted a lot longer than that and that was when I was trying to make him finish) so it didn’t happen that night and I had to tell my friends it hadn’t happened yet when they asked how it was the next day.
The second attempt:
A couple days later and this time he survived the warm up went to slide it in but didn’t really have the angle right so as he pushed forwards it pressed against the side of my pussy then kind of flicked down and slid under my ass and he goes “oh no… Sorry! I’m Sorry” and he’d finished from pressing it up against me so again it didn’t happen that night.
The third attempt:
About a week after the last try we were back in the same situation with his dick in my hand except this time I didn’t let it go and guided him in myself, as it went in it hurt a little, the second pump it didn’t hurt so much and then it started to feel a little good but only about 20 seconds after we started and probably only about 5 or 6 pumps it he pulls it out, drops down on top of me and says “that was incredible. Did you cum too?”
No, no I didn’t.
He started lasting longer as we got some more practice but I don’t think he ever lasted more than a few minutes before we broke up.