u/lookingForLust222

26 [M4F] Toronto - Never came from head; Never told a lie

Hi! As the title suggests I've never came from head and I have never told a lie. I know this is something people lie about but I'm actually telling the truth!

This is a very simple post, I am looking to see if head is something for me. So far in my life the answer to that has been no but the way people talk about getting head makes me think I'm missing out on something big.

Of course it isn't fair at all if I am the only one who gets pleasure out of this exchange. While I have never arrived via head I have helped many a woman reach what I (seemingly) cannot achieve. I can also offer you a wide array of jokes that might be funny 10% or 20% of the time, of course these would happen before any head giving takes place because if I actually tell a good joke it might ruin the mood.

So I've said all of this but I haven't said what I am like at all, so I'll get to that.

About me

I'm 26, white, 5'10", in Toronto, and muscular. I am very clean (I shower like an adult, what can I say) and while I don't think I've seen a member I think looks very appealing in my life I think it looks fine, it's a bit above average in size but nothing crazy.

Outside of things like that, I would describe myself as having very nerdy interests. I enjoy many forms of high fantasy and science fiction. I'm also an avid gamer and a passionate explorer of the city around me. I love to discover new cafés, museums, and hidden gems in Toronto that I haven't tried before (let me know your favs). I don't do any drugs, but I do drink on occasion.

I do have many kink related interests but these are not incredibly relevant to this posting. If you are curious I would be more than happy to talk with you about them.

About you

Ideally, you'd be someone curious, adventurous, and willing to try new things! I'd prefer if you didn't do any hard drugs, had overlapping interests, and also were into fitness to some extent. The latter two are not hard requirements though.

Naturally, I would have to be attracted to you and I wish I could give you a type but I've found myself attracted to many different women. Perhaps womankind should consider being less attractive to me or something as it would make it easier for me to write something helpful in this post.

Given the nature of this posting you should probably be confident in your skills, even if you are not though I am fine to be practice as I never quite get there.

Communication/Meeting up

I'd like to talk a bit before meeting up, I'd like us to both be sure that the other party is sane! I am fine with you hosting, me hosting, I've always had an interest in public play so maybe the world hosting is fine too. I have a car so I can get places/get you places.

To conclude

If this interests you send me a message with a bit about yourself and whatever from my post that caught your eye!

The alternate title I was considering for this post was "Headless looking for Head", but perhaps that is best used at a different time of year. Maybe keep your head up to see that one later.

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u/lookingForLust222 — 2 days ago

26 [M4F] Toronto - Underproductive at work due to brat obsession, help?

Hi hope everyone who reads this is doing well! Another very boring day at the office has me thinking about a group of women I'm not sure I could live without, brats, but I'll get into that a bit more later. I'm looking for a D/S dynamic, where play includes discipline, post-orgasm torture, overstimulation, varying degrees of bondage, degradation, really anything you can think of under that umbrella of kinks. If I were to describe myself using buzzwords I'd say I was somewhere between a brat tamer and a pleasure dom. I'll elaborate more on kinks later. First I'll let you know a bit about myself.

A bit about me (vanilla)

As the title suggests, I'm 26, but I'm sure you want to know more than just that! I'm white, 5'10", in Toronto, and muscular. I have blonde hair and blue eyes, I hold an advanced degree and what I like to think is a good job. As for if I'm actually charming, that's going to be up for you to decide. If nothing else I have a mischievous smile and a love for telling bad jokes.

Outside of things like that, I would describe myself as having very nerdy interests. I enjoy many forms of high fantasy and science fiction. I'm also an avid gamer and a passionate explorer of the city around me. I love to discover new cafés, museums, and hidden gems in Toronto that I haven't tried before (let me know your favs). I don't do any drugs, but I do drink on occasion.

A bit about me (kinky)

The part where I said I would elaborate more! I think something that would explain me pretty well is I LOVE BRATS and I LOVE TAMING BRATS! Subs that bite back and love to tease just drive me absolutely wild.

Most of my kinks revolve around losing control after some teasing, punishing misbehavior, and breaking/taming following some brat behavior. On another note, I like to throw my weight around a bit. I'm muscular, and I think it's fun to engage with that during sex. Think not just being pinned down and thrown around a bit but also being forced into restraints. If you were curious, I'm above average down there. I'm not wielding any sort of lethal weapon though so you can rest easy.

If I didn't cover anything here that you're curious about again, feel free to ask, I'd be more than happy to explain to try to make sure we both get what we want.

A bit about you (vanilla)

Ideally, you'd be someone curious, adventurous, and willing to try new things! I'd prefer if you didn't do any hard drugs, had overlapping interests, and also were into fitness to some extent. The latter two are not hard requirements though.

A bit about you (kinky)

You may have guessed from my about me (kinky) section I'd really like it if you have brat tendencies or if you would like to explore something like that. You don't need to be bratty 100% of the time either, if sometimes you aren't feeling it, and you just want to be subby sometimes I'm fine with that too. The most important thing to me is that you are eager to do whatever we've set up to do. If you aren't up for something, tell me! Communication really is the key to great sex, so I'd love for you to speak up whenever you have ideas or concerns. Aside from those, I'm not too concerned about experience level or anything like that. I'm sure I have enough for both of us to get by on. I also have no issues teaching or going slower, whatever you're comfortable with, as long as you communicate it with me.

Communication/Meeting up

To start off, I'm fine hosting. I live downtown near a subway station, so I'd say I'm in a fairly accessible spot. If you'd like to host for whatever reason, I also don't have an issue with that. I also don't expect to meet immediately or anything like that. I'm okay with moving at whatever pace you are comfortable with. In terms of communication during sex, I'd expect us to follow best practices. Stuff like establishing safewords and limits beforehand, especially if it is our first time meeting. I'd also like to meet for the first time outside of a bedroom. If we decide to go to a bedroom after that, I'm probably not going to complain, but I want to make sure we vibe beforehand.

To Conclude

If this interests you send me a message with a bit about yourself and whatever from my post that caught your eye!

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u/lookingForLust222 — 10 days ago

26 [M4F] Toronto - Charming man looking for lightheaded encounter(s)

Hello! As I hope you all know mother's day is tomorrow! So I think it's only right that a post near mother's day is a post that is about making sure a woman (preferably a mother but I am open) has a good time!

While I think a night out might be a bit hard this weekend I'm sure we could chat and find something fun for all parties involved. I'm very much open to many date (or after date) activities!

A bit about me (vanilla)

As the title suggests, I'm 26, but I'm sure you want to know more than just that! I'm white, 5'10", in Toronto, and muscular. I have blonde hair and blue eyes, I hold an advanced degree and what I like to think is a good job. As for if I'm actually charming, that's going to be up for you to decide. If nothing else I have a mischievous smile and a love for telling bad jokes.

Outside of things like that, I would describe myself as having very nerdy interests. I enjoy many forms of high fantasy and science fiction. I'm also an avid gamer and a passionate explorer of the city around me. I love to discover new cafés, museums, and hidden gems in Toronto that I haven't tried before (let me know your favs). I don't do any drugs, but I do drink on occasion.

A bit about me (sexual)

I think something that would explain me pretty well is I LOVE BRATS and I LOVE TAMING BRATS! Subs that bite back and love to tease just drive me absolutely wild.

Most of my kinks revolve around losing control after some teasing, punishing misbehavior, and breaking/taming following some brat behavior. On another note, I like to throw my weight around a bit. I'm muscular, and I think it's fun to engage with that during sex. Think not just being pinned down and thrown around a bit but also being forced into restraints. If you were curious, I'm above average down there. I'm not wielding any sort of lethal weapon though so you can rest easy.

If I didn't cover anything here that you're curious about again, feel free to ask, I'd be more than happy to explain to try to make sure we both get what we want.

As with many things in this post I am open to doing/not doing things. I one of the most important thing in any relationship (short or long) is the ability to communicate and compromise with your partner!

A bit about you

Ideally, you'd be someone curious, adventurous, and willing to try new things! I'd prefer if you didn't do any hard drugs, had overlapping interests, and also were into fitness to some extent. The latter two are not hard requirements though.

Meeting up

What is a steamy encounter without a little date to build the tension? At the very least I'd love to build it up somehow since I think that makes things so much better. I'm also ok with something a bit more spur of the moment if it seems right.

To Conclude

If this sounds like fun to you send me a message and we can try to set something up!

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u/lookingForLust222 — 14 days ago

Hello! Most of my posts so far have been looking for something very specific but this time I am widening my umbrella! Right now I'm looking for exactly what my title suggests! A steamy encounter! What that means exactly we can discuss, but I am open to most!

A bit about me (vanilla)

As the title suggests, I'm 26, but I'm sure you want to know more than just that! I'm white, 5'10", in Toronto, and muscular. I have blonde hair and blue eyes, I hold an advanced degree and what I like to think is a good job. As for if I'm actually charming, that's going to be up for you to decide. If nothing else I have a mischievous smile and a love for telling bad jokes.

Outside of things like that, I would describe myself as having very nerdy interests. I enjoy many forms of high fantasy and science fiction. I'm also an avid gamer and a passionate explorer of the city around me. I love to discover new cafés, resturants, museums, and hidden gems in Toronto that I haven't tried before (let me know your favs). I don't do any drugs, but I do drink on occasion.

A bit about me (sexual)

I have my kinks detailed in a previous post, long story short, I enjoy giving pleasure and girls who like to push buttons. Sometimes maybe a bit too much. I take pride in my skills and I'm willing to prove that I'm not just all talk ;).

A bit about you

Ideally, you'd be someone curious, adventurous, and willing to try new things! I'd prefer if you didn't do any hard drugs, had overlapping interests, and also were into fitness to some extent. The latter two are not hard requirements though.

Meeting up

What is a steamy encounter without a little date to build the tension? At the very least I'd love to build it up somehow since I think that makes things so much better. I'm also ok with something a bit more spur of the moment if it seems right.

To Conclude

If this sounds like fun to you send me a message and we can try to set something up!

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u/lookingForLust222 — 24 days ago