u/looseben

I met this girl F28 from work. She started 3 days before I was about to leave the company and country.

I didn't think much of her while we were working, but she was easy to talk to, and we both had the same type of humor.

So I decided to invite her to my leaving party and after the party I walked her back to her place and she invited me in, we ended up kissing and having sex. It was a great time that both of us enjoyed.

I think it was one of those "we both connect, but im leaving, so let's make the most of it."

A day after I left the country, she invited me to go to bali with her for a week because she had free accommodation there. I thought she might be joking, because we only met less than a week ago, but she wasn't and I decided to go.

The bali trip was about 2 months after we first met, and we connected again instantly when we got there, we didnt have sex the first 2 nights, but the 3rd we did and I got a bit in my head and kept going from soft to hard, we had sex a couple more times over trip, but I didnt cum at all. I dont know if it was stage fright or what. It felt good, and im attracted to her, I dont know what's wrong.

After the bali trip, she invited me to come stay with her at her place for a couple of weeks before I go back to my own country.

Im now back at her place.

I drop her off at work in the morning, and she lets me use her car, I cook dinner for her each night if we dont go out. We do a lot of couple things. We joke, kiss, and are touchy with each other, but we aren't having sex.

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u/looseben — 17 days ago

I met the girl from work and we only knew each other for 4 days before i left the company, we connected well and had sex the first night we went out, she even invited me to go to bali with her, but in bali we didnt have sex as much as i thought we would. Im from a different country than her and after bali she invited me to stay with her for a little bit but since coming back from bali we havent had sex and i dont know what im doing wrong here. We kiss and sleep together, but no sex

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u/looseben — 18 days ago