Chastised by other girls for not letting customers touch me on stage??
So I’m at a new club right and this was my first time working a weekend shift and therefore I had to share stage with like 3 other girls. I ofc prefer to have stage to myself but it’s not the first club I’ve worked at that makes share stage so whatever I get on and do my thing and ay the end of it when we are counting money, the girls tell me do do less pole tricks (even tho literally no one got hurt and it’s LITERALLY half of reason why I make money on stage to begin with and I wasn’t even doing anything fr) bc they say that the customers prefer when we interact with them more over pole tricks and I was just like??? I do a lot of floor work as well so I was really confused and was like wait really I did a lot of pole? (Mind you it’s my first set of the night and I’m tired so I know I wasn’t doing the most on pole) and they were like yeah you need to chill out and actually interact with the customers we were the ones actually getting touched by people and I was just like oh ok?? Like I didn’t know what to say because I felt stage was good and I genuinely didn’t think there was any issues and they basically we trying to say I need to let the customers grope me more (bc that’s what they’re doing) and maybe it’s just the atmosphere at this club and the girls here allow the customers to touch them damn near everywhere but that’s NOT my flow at all. I don’t let people touch me on stage bc I personally feel like the amount they’re spending isn’t enough to warrant them touching me. Plus I prefer to actually perform and put on a show and interact with the crowd from afar. I’ve worked this club a few times already and done stage by myself exactly as I mentioned and made amazing stage money doing things the way I do. I’m just so confused like am I in the wrong here? The girls were literally complaining about a guy grabbing their tits hard asf and then were getting mad at me essentially for not letting him do the same thing? Also the next stage set I did with a different group of girls they said my pole carried the stage for all of us and they liked it so idk I need to know if they’re tripping or if I’m missing something because just because a club normalizes heavy touching on stage that doesn’t mean I need to subject myself to that too right?