How to set realistic goals for bigger plugs?
Hee all,
So I’ve got a problem. A good problem, but still. I recently got my largest plug in, it's 56mm diameter at it's widest, 137mm insertable length and holy shit, it felt amazing. Like, achievement unlocked amazing. But now I’m staring online at this other plug I’ve been eyeing, and it's 7.6cm diameter at it's widest and 24cm insertable length... And I need it. Not just to try, but to wear out. To the gym, to work, out with friends, just existing with something that big inside me, stretching me, filling me, while I act like it’s no big deal. Just fiy, I am aware that there is an ethics line here, I actually wrote another post on that which really helped me!
But here’s the thing, how do I get there? Is that even a realistic goal? I mean, this has got to be one of my fav, but also one of the most dangerous reddit communities out there: /r/AnalDildoGirls/ and they are quite advanced. Knowing from experience, that takes time, commitment, and stamina to achieve most levels seen there 🙈. But I do want to get there.. But is that even realistic?
I love the idea of working toward it, of training my body to take more, to wear bigger for longer. But I don’t want to push too hard, too fast, and fuck myself up (literally 😂). So, experienced peers how do you set goals for this? Do you just go up a size every few weeks? Do you wear your current plug for longer and longer before moving up? Or is there some other secret I’m missing?
And yeah, I love the idea of wearing bigger plugs in public. The fullness, the naughtiness, the way it makes me feel on edge the whole time… it’s intoxicating. But I’m also shy as hell in real life. So I’m curious, how do you balance the thrill with the practicality? Do you have rules for yourself, like “only wear this size in these outfits” or “only for this long”? Or do you just go for it and lean into the risk?
(Also, the base of my current plug does spread me a little, so depending on what I wear, it might be visible. And yeah, part of me loves that idea, only when I am turned on which happens a lot while wearing a plug, especially after multiple edges and days without cummnig.)
This is my first time posting about goals, so go easy on me. 😇
Xx Luna