u/lunavdlust

How to set realistic goals for bigger plugs?

Hee all,

So I’ve got a problem. A good problem, but still. I recently got my largest plug in, it's 56mm diameter at it's widest, 137mm insertable length and holy shit, it felt amazing. Like, achievement unlocked amazing. But now I’m staring online at this other plug I’ve been eyeing, and it's 7.6cm diameter at it's widest and 24cm insertable length... And I need it. Not just to try, but to wear out. To the gym, to work, out with friends, just existing with something that big inside me, stretching me, filling me, while I act like it’s no big deal. Just fiy, I am aware that there is an ethics line here, I actually wrote another post on that which really helped me!

But here’s the thing, how do I get there? Is that even a realistic goal? I mean, this has got to be one of my fav, but also one of the most dangerous reddit communities out there: /r/AnalDildoGirls/ and they are quite advanced. Knowing from experience, that takes time, commitment, and stamina to achieve most levels seen there 🙈. But I do want to get there.. But is that even realistic?

I love the idea of working toward it, of training my body to take more, to wear bigger for longer. But I don’t want to push too hard, too fast, and fuck myself up (literally 😂). So, experienced peers how do you set goals for this? Do you just go up a size every few weeks? Do you wear your current plug for longer and longer before moving up? Or is there some other secret I’m missing?

And yeah, I love the idea of wearing bigger plugs in public. The fullness, the naughtiness, the way it makes me feel on edge the whole time… it’s intoxicating. But I’m also shy as hell in real life. So I’m curious, how do you balance the thrill with the practicality? Do you have rules for yourself, like “only wear this size in these outfits” or “only for this long”? Or do you just go for it and lean into the risk?

(Also, the base of my current plug does spread me a little, so depending on what I wear, it might be visible. And yeah, part of me loves that idea, only when I am turned on which happens a lot while wearing a plug, especially after multiple edges and days without cummnig.)

This is my first time posting about goals, so go easy on me. 😇

Xx Luna

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u/lunavdlust — 3 days ago

I did it!!

This plug was a real challenge, bigger than anything I’ve taken before, and the biggest in my set. I just wore it for 30 whole minutes! Next goal is to wear it under my leggings at the gym. (I might delete this post later, but I wanted to share my pride a little 🙈)

u/lunavdlust — 5 days ago

Do’s and dont’s wearing plugs in public?

Hee all,

I’m kinda new to posting here but I’ve been into anal for a while. I’ve been training with plugs, pushing myself to take bigger sizes and wear them longer, and honestly? It’s working. The longer I wear them, the more my body accepts bigger sizes, and the more I crave that full feeling.

But here’s the thing, I’m starting to get obsessed with the idea of wearing them out and about. Like, everywhere, like office work, zoom calls, the gym. Even around friends or family. The thought of being filled up, sitting there all innocent while I’m avtually on edge the whole time… But I’m also so nervous. I’m shy as hell in real life, even if I’m not new to kink.

So I gotta ask, what’s sort of the etiquette here? Do you just… do it? Do you have rules for yourself? Like, “okay, this outfit is fine but that one is pushing it”? Or do you just lean into the risk and hope no one notices? (Or do you want them to notice? I don’t even know.)

Also, the base of my plug kinda… spreads me a little. So depending on what I wear, it might be visible. Like, if I’m in tight leggings or a short skirt, someone could see. And part of me is like yes, that’s the point, but another part is like oh god, what if my coworker sees.

I would like to add that I’m not really into pushing it in a way where it’s super obviously noticeable, but yeah, it’s kind of a rush where you can see it if you look hard enough..

Curious to hear your thoughts!! This is my first time posting so go easy on me 😇.

Xx
Luna

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u/lunavdlust — 6 days ago