We only do blowjobs and usually I’m happy with just enjoying his dick in my mouth. But recently we have gotten more serious and he said he loves me and such. I’m not sure if I feel the same and I think part of it is that I don’t feel as connected to him during sex.
When I look up and see the back of his phone it just kinda makes me feel like we are each getting pleasure separately instead of doing something nice together.
The tricky part is that I don’t want to make the blowjob worse for him by telling him not to watch the porn. Especially if the porn is something that makes it more fun for him. I just think it’s kinda preventing me from feeling really close to him in the same way he feels about me.
Does anyone have advice on how to communicate this with him?