u/lynnerosie

To all the beautiful SB in this forum, what do you usually do to keep yourself look presentable, do you guy often update your wardrobe or get spa treatment?

I quite homely looking, I hide myself at a nails alone I worked for 18 years since I came to Canada unstill the owner retired and sold her salon..I worked 7 days a week 9 am ton7 pm..then went home with my dog and sleep..i didnt do anything with my look ans iften sent allmmy savemoeny to vn to sipprrt my elderly aprents ans siblings and relatives..I recently met this guy and he was so generous and nice to.me..he doesn't want to be call SD,, and he also didn't tell me what our relationship are like, he kept deposited money into my bank account..I told him had I know this before, I would go out looking for generous men like this when i was much younger..I'm.now 45, turning 46..where do you guy go to buy nice clothes..and what treatment you do to keep yourself look nice.

Thank you so much

Sorry, it's me again. I been doing this massage things for like 5 months now, I have a few regular who are very generous and nice to me, but I never texted them after sessions..one or 2 of Thema sked me out but I never go..I only spent time with one guy who came to me for massage..he been great and generous, he helped paid for my dog Teer heart surgery in Colorado this July..if my dog got deemed to be a good candidate.

We don't have arrangements, I am new to this things, I didn't ask him for anything, but he been gifting money and paying my visa bills,he seems doenst mind I see other regular guy..but he also talked me into going back to do nails..I worked at a nail salon for 18 years, 7 days a week..I told him had I know this massage thing can earn so much money ,I would do it much sooner when i was in my 20, or 30..now I'm not sure if I would go back to sit at the nail shop 9 hours a day filing people nails all day and make only 150 dollars a day.

He said he will help me open a nail salon, and I can just hire people to do it.i told him no..I don't know how to be a boss, since I always an employee. I like him alot, and want tonstopndoing this massage thing so I can be exclusive his, not sure it's a good idea..he doenst like to be call SD.. he told me he is just one of my patron,, I don't think we will have a future together ,I suspicious he married, I asked 3 times and he didn't answer me,,I been reluctant seeing people, even some of my favorite regular who paid me very well..should.i keep doing what I am doing..or should I quit doing massage and just focus on this guy..we onky see each other once a week..sometimes once every2 weeks, he is very busy with work and he travel alot to the US for business,, when we together, he often took me out to fancy restaurants and then took me shopping, I have to choose shopping or spend time with him in bed..I chose spending time with him..he then told me I can shop online and buy whatever I like and he pay all the visa bills ,so I been doing that..I got into deep and really like him, I been listening to some of you beautiful sugar baby here tontake a step back and stop texting him too much..and just treat him as my other transactional client..

Thank you so much for all your advices ,guidance as this is a very new experience for me..thank you.i really appreciated

So in the past, I had a few wealthy older men interest in me, but I always introduced them to my other friends,, they get spoiled , get their expenses paid monthly,, all shopping, even their SD bought them fancy cars.

So I really not interested in this,, I always try to work hard and paid my own bills, take care of me and my little dog..but last year, my mother who lives back home in vietnamngot really sick and need alot of heart surgery and other things,, then my 14 years old little dog got sick with heart disease too..so within a few months..I have to find 50 000 to pay for both ny mom and my dog..so I bought a massage chair, set up in my basement and provide relaxation massage..I wnat to massage woman only..but can't find customers..then many men asked to come but tehya sked for extra so I blocked many..but theneventuallt I'm so tired of blocking them, and kicked them out when they asked for extra, so I gave in. I provide hand job,, but then eventually I provide sex for much more paid..so I did make good money to pay for this 50 000 dollars and my bills monthly,, I have a few regular customers who are nice to me and very respectful.

Then last December, I met this guy..he became my regular but didn't ask for massage anymore ..but we went straight to bed...it just he paid me good when he came and that was ut..I never texted any if them..but then the last 2 months..he offered to.pay for my basement renovation bc I wnated tomamke it look really nice like a real spa..so he paid for changing floor, painting the whole basement and stuffs..and then he bought me expensive jewery..and invited me out for lunch to expensive restaurants , and then took me to fancy shopping malls and told me I can buy whatever I like..but I was very shy, and I never feel comfortable letting other people paid for my stuffs I didn't buy much..or just grabbed his arm and asked him to leave the store..when I saw the price tags of those fancy clothes and purses or shoes..once he took me to Tiffany and told me I can buy any earring or ring I like..but they are so expensive I told him no.

He been asking me for my bank account to send me birthday money, I said you don't ahev to but he insisted..then he kept ending me money, ut auto deposited ..I didn't ask him much, I feel like if I told him i want to buy this, buy that he will buy it for me..and it is like I'm taking advantage of him..so I never asked. I been texting him alot, we talked everyday for hours..I asked him if he married,, he didn't answer, I asked again and he said he doesn't wnat to discuss about it..so I am feeling confused and sad,, don't wnat to talk to him or see him anymore, even though he booked a reservation for us next Wednesday to a fancy steak house and then go shopping.

I feel like I really liked him because he so kind to me..in the past I ahd a few guy very generous to me too but i wasn't attracted to them so I always found them someone else..but I really like this guy,, and I been texting him..he still answer me but not enthusiastic like.me..he knew I still do massage,, he didn't tell.me sto stop or anything..I now only saw a few generous regular people..I don't see many people anymore..as my mother and my dog is fine now..I still ahve to save for my dog emergency..but I meant I'm not desperate for money..so I see very few people now.

I'm.sorry I'm writing too much as English is nit my first language..and I am talking round and around.. I thank you for your patient,, I just wnat toa sk..should I take a step back,, stop texting him as much,, and just think if him as one of my client,, just transaction,, I talked myself to do taht,, but I really like him..and I think he like me too..because he doesn't spend much moeny on himself..but he spent so much money on me and it made him happy..so I don't know if I'm just imagining that he like me too,like uts just in my head..I told him he is my sugar daddy..he said he is njt,, and he doesn't like those kind of relationship,, he said he is a good friend who wnat to help.me out because I'm very nice person..

Should I still seeing him but text him less..or should I block him before I got myself into deep..I haven't dated anyway for the last 15 years..thank you so much