u/magicalsub

I am shaking as I am writing this. I have realized I have been emotionally abused for 3 years. Someone I had a connection with and stayed friends with. I want to warn every bdsm space on reddit about him. I have found a few of his accounts and want to at least use his first name. I thought he was just broken and traumatized, but I think he liked the pain he put me through even if it didn’t seem like it and it seemed like he cared about me. How do I best proceed?

He has my address, knows my full name. We have been friends. So I’m not sure if I will be in danger. I feel like he wouldn’t do anything physically. He never did. It was all just emotional.