48 m4f why is it so hard?
First off, if your mind went straight to the gutter we will get along just fine. I have been here before and had a few good along with some questionable connections here, but I find myself like many here and keep coming back for more. It’s so hard to find the ONE. It may be because I know that good connections can and do happen and I find myself an eternal optimist. Some of the challenge may be expectations, so I thought what if we just start with a simple hi and see where it goes. We could find out it goes no where but to a quick bye. But just imagine if that little hi turns into one of our best dream? Wouldn’t that be great?
A little about me. I am 48 years old and have been married 20+ years in the EST. I am probably considered average by many, but I don’t think I’m too bad. I’m 6’2” tall, brown hair, blue eyes, with an average body. My marriage is pretty much a roommate situation. I have two wonderful older children that are my world, and would do anything for. I am an open book and if you say hi, I will answer anything your heart desires to know.
A little about the woman I am looking for. I am not looking to be on a roster of men you are taking to. I want to be able to focus on one woman and have her focus on me. It would be nice if you were in a similar situation at home and live in the EST or close. The woman I am looking for is fun, charismatic, adventurous, and yes even with a hint of smart ass sprinkled in. I would like for you to have time throughout the day to build something we can both enjoy. As far as a body type, personality and confidence are far sexier than a dress size for me.
I am looking for one woman to build a safe place with for us to be able to relax and be who we are without judgement. A fun flirty friendship to last longer than a week. To do this we both have to guide the conversations, not just one of us. So I have rambled enough and if you made it this far, good job and thank you. All you gotta do is say hi and our dreams may come true together.