u/maxamoe

As stated above, my wife (f43) and I (m38) decided Saturday night that in our marriage having me at the “helm” of our marriage has been bad. Trying to be “the man” and treating her poorly. At work I am an alpha personality and unfortunately bring it home and treat her like a coworker as she would say. Prior to this convo I was locked on Thursday and hadn’t cum since the last Sunday.
As the conversation progressed, she was very happy that I admitted to treating her poorly and glad to hear I wanted to make a change in a positive way. She also really notices how differently I act when I and locked up. She says it’s like she has the man she married back, I’m not edgy-crabby-argumentative. A more calm, patient helpful spouse.
We broke new ground and it’s going phenomenal so far.
The next morning while laying in bed she let me lick her feet for about 20-30min straight, I was in heaven! Locked or not I didn’t care, so extremely aroused it didn’t matter. She just played in her phone without a care in the world, as if I wasn’t even there lol. I asked her if I could be unlocked (totally against protocol haha) surprisingly she giggled and said hold on a second while she went to go grab the key out of her purse.There I was laying in bed waiting…took probably 15-20min till she returned. She laid next to me and watched as I turned the key instantly releasing a rock hard red cock. Laughing at me hysterical she said “looks like you already came!” Thankfully it was just a massive amount of pre cum. I asked if I could have her foot which she smiled and put it on my balls. With all the pre cum it was used like lube for me to hump and thrust against her foot. Asked if she would allow me her other foot to which she gave a very stern NO and said you have one that’s enough. Naturally I made the best of it and started to masturbate, after not going for a week it felt amazing. She just laid there and watched smiling. As I was about to go I said oh fuck I think I’m gunna cum -she with no hesitation says Jesus finally already with a half smile and eye roll. That comment alone instantly caused a massive eruption haha.
Worst part is? I shot the massive load all over my face-hair-chest-stomach-pillow. As soon as the first rope shot out and hit my face she lost it laughing uncontrollably. Naturally it threw my focus off from enjoying the orgasm to humiliation of my wife seeing me cum on my own face. I kept stroking but lost the big O even though there are just streams of cum shooting directly at my face. She laughed and laughed ( secretly I loved every min of it, too bad it didn’t land in my mouth 🙃) while I’m being sprayed. I looked over at her and her face was red from laughing so hard. I think she even enjoyed the humiliation I had just endured but didn’t know how to react other than laugh. Maybe next time she will actually request it and
say “good you deserve that not clean up and lock up ” 🤷‍♂️.
Who knows- a guy can dream! So far it’s going well, both enjoying it enough that I feel guilty when I even take it off for a good shower. I’ll give updates on how it’s going if ya’ll are interested !

So it’s been a week almost now, I had a doctors appointment yesterday so she kindly let me out but was to promptly put it back on upon returning home. Today is Friday and she is off to work for the evening. What am I doing? Well my wonderful wife gave me a nice list of things to do for her while she is gone! Change the sheets-clean her bedroom- unclog her shower drain and clean entire bathroom- make her bank deposit-car cleaned- water her flowers-fold her laundry- and start a couple loads. Annnnnnnnnd I’ve got about two things left hahaha.
Today before she gave me the list she asked me what I expected our FLR to be, my response was to do all the time consuming things (chores) that are a pain to do. To help her in anyway I can with whatever challenges are in front of her. Removing the stressful tasks in everyday life that no one normally cares to do. Cooking, cleaning, laundry, grocery shopping. That way, she can focus on more important things. what the plans are for her/our nights off, spending time with our young grandson, meeting friends for a glass of wine, catching up on her shows, recouping from all the late night serving shifts. Planning where she wants to go on vacation etc. She realllllly liked that ! Being that I am off work all next week she was quick to tell me that she will be keeping me plenty busy!
Maybe since I got this big list of tasks done I’ll be granted a reward? Lol. Last night she brought up me shooting a load on my face and laughed so hard she started to cough….hopefully it’s not a total habit but if it is that’s what I signed up for right?!
Again, if I should shut up-tell me
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As stated above, my wife (f43) and I (m38) decided Saturday night that in our marriage having me at the “helm” of our marriage has been bad. Trying to be “the man” and treating her poorly. At work I am an alpha personality and unfortunately bring it home and treat her like a coworker as she would say. Prior to this convo I was locked on Thursday and hadn’t cum since the last Sunday.
As the conversation progressed, she was very happy that I admitted to treating her poorly and glad to hear I wanted to make a change in a positive way. She also really notices how differently I act when I and locked up. She says it’s like she has the man she married back, I’m not edgy-crabby-argumentative. A more calm, patient helpful spouse.
We broke new ground and it’s going phenomenal so far.
The next morning while laying in bed she let me lick her feet for about 20-30min straight, I was in heaven! Locked or not I didn’t care, so extremely aroused it didn’t matter. She just played in her phone without a care in the world, as if I wasn’t even there lol. I asked her if I could be unlocked (totally against protocol haha) surprisingly she giggled and said hold on a second while she went to go grab the key out of her purse.There I was laying in bed waiting…took probably 15-20min till she returned. She laid next to me and watched as I turned the key instantly releasing a rock hard red cock. Laughing at me hysterical she said “looks like you already came!” Thankfully it was just a massive amount of pre cum. I asked if I could have her foot which she smiled and put it on my balls. With all the pre cum it was used like lube for me to hump and thrust against her foot. Asked if she would allow me her other foot to which she gave a very stern NO and said you have one that’s enough. Naturally I made the best of it and started to masturbate, after not going for a week it felt amazing. She just laid there and watched smiling. As I was about to go I said oh fuck I think I’m gunna cum -she with no hesitation says Jesus finally already with a half smile and eye roll. That comment alone instantly caused a massive eruption haha.
Worst part is? I shot the massive load all over my face-hair-chest-stomach-pillow. As soon as the first rope shot out and hit my face she lost it laughing uncontrollably. Naturally it threw my focus off from enjoying the orgasm to humiliation of my wife seeing me cum on my own face. I kept stroking but lost the big O even though there are just streams of cum shooting directly at my face. She laughed and laughed ( secretly I loved every min of it, too bad it didn’t land in my mouth 🙃) while I’m being sprayed. I looked over at her and her face was red from laughing so hard. I think she even enjoyed the humiliation I had just endured but didn’t know how to react other than laugh. Maybe next time she will actually request it and
say “good you deserve that not clean up and lock up ” 🤷‍♂️.
Who knows- a guy can dream! So far it’s going well, both enjoying it enough that I feel guilty when I even take it off for a good shower. I’ll give updates on how it’s going if ya’ll are interested !