Keeping emotional balance
Hello everyone. I’ve been a Sub to an excellent Dom for three months and I know how lucky I am. He’s great and I am really happy being trained by him. We are friends as well. I’m beginning to feel a real attachment now, but we are not a romantic couple. We care about each other very much, but he has a partner (ENM). I know the limits of this relationship but there is a part of me that is starting to need him. I long for him when he’s not with me. If I don’t hear from him I feel sad. He’s incredibly attentive and kind so I don’t feel neglected at all! But I want to be with him all the time.
My question is, as a new Sub in training, is emotional attachment part of the dynamic? Have other subs gone through this? How do you/did you keep your balance? He has another Sub he’s been with for ten years plus his partner for over 15, so this is potentially a long term dynamic. I want to proceed in a healthy way sexually and emotionally. Thoughts?