u/miami_Babee

Well it is what it is sometimes, I should know that there will always be a new shiny object to either seek or find.

After a few months into a sr which started out like a beautiful romance spirit fingers consistency and feeling adored.

Soon a shift happened, and I felt the distance and lack of effort, I should have listened to my gut earlier. I’m too loyal and honest, it was exclusive

Caught a few flirty texts, maybe screenshots of girls, and I let too many things slide because I thought it was genuine, and my communication was open so I thought I was understood.

now understanding where things are, I no longer feel wanted, even if the words recently make it seem so, I’m intuitive and allowed the consistency and idea of honesty cloud my own judgement.

Men will find a replacement before replacing you, I’m not sure why that is. Not all but most, why not just be upfront

To the sd’s do you look for a replacement before you know it’s over?

What’s little things that really makes you adore your sb/sd more?

Not just taking you shopping, or anything typical. Like the small details that just make you feel seen, heard, appreciated

I think everyone tends to give and receive different love languages, for me to give is gifting and acts of service, receive is gifting and words of affirmation/physical touch. I come from a culture that gifting was just a big part of life growing up, and words of affirmation/physical touch is probably because I never received that growing up funny to think about that.

Have you ever been in a sugar relationship and the love languages didn’t match?

How do you casually bring it up?