u/mike681329

My wife and I are very new to exploring the bi/lifestyle side of ourselves together. We’ve talked about it for a long time but are finally trying to actually connect with people and communities instead of just keeping it hypothetical.

One thing we’re struggling with is privacy. She’s a teacher, we live in a smaller area, and the idea of making profiles or putting ourselves out there is intimidating.

For couples who started from a similar place:

• How did you ease into it?
• Did you start online or through events?
• Any advice for staying comfortable and discreet while figuring things out?

Would love to hear how other married couples navigated the beginning stages.