u/monty_burns

I understand that this sub is primarily a safe space for venting, but the continual contempt for men in this sub has me wondering:

While booking 4+ hours maximizes the earning potential of a night, mentally, do you really prefer it?

There’s a high likelihood I’m very naive, but on the rare occasion I schedule, my preference is for 4 hours to overnight. I like to believe I’m not a sloth and make decent company; I am nearly always introduced to friends as referral or have repeat dates.

Many of your sites say you prefer long dates, (I know that is mostly for the reason mentioned above) but do you actually prefer it? Do you prefer to have to put on the act for that long or would you rather get it over with as quickly as possible?

In my mind, I want it to feel more like a “date”. Get to know your alter ego. Go to a nice restaurant, have a cocktail or two and not have to rush anything. Create a good vibe.

But now I am wondering; aside from the money, do you deep down hate the long date because it requires you to be “on” much longer?

Should I just book an hour and forget about the “date”?

The way I see it: the happier you are, the higher the odds of a good time.

There are multiple ads running in Chicago right now where different girls are using the same phone number. If you google the number, it’s being used all over the country.

I don’t see how tryst doesn’t have a simple filter that would only let a phone number be used for one person’s profile at a time.

I get that it’s hard on you, ladies. It’s also frustrating how much time I have to spend researching to avoid a bait & switch.

Search every number

Search every email

Google reverse image search every photo

Search for reviews to see if the photos are accurate (I understand why many of you stopped allowing reviews. So much of that is toxic. But I just want someone to verify the photos are accurate.

That’s just to see if I want to send an intro email. Still far from getting a date established.

My date tonight flaked, so here I am in my nice hotel suite, alone, sifting through crumbs to try to make something of the night.

cue infomercial narrator, “there HAS got to be a better way!”

I browsed a few posts in this sub and was surprised to see a negative view of p411 clients on many posts.

I thought p411 verification with okays was, essentially, the gold standard. I see SWs mentioning that they don’t trust clients from P411 the way they once did

Is there some other site I should be using? I’m not a frequent client; I like to meet for a night out a couple times a year (4+ to overnight). I rely on P411 as a client because most other sites are so loose on verifying SWs; Tryst verification is virtually non-existent. You can’t trust anything on PD. TER is so toxic that many SWs no longer use it.

I’m at the point that I often rely on girls referring their friends, because there is simply too much bait and switch at the level I invest when I do meet someone.