I make a post mentioning my wife and get people in my DMs saying their horny and asking if I want to play with someone else🤦🏻♀️ I’m down to talk to people and make friends but don’t try to come on to someone who you know is married regardless of the situation.
I’m kinda struggling here because I was the one who asked my wife to enter a D/s dynamic with me. I’m naturally very submissive, and when I asked, she quickly agreed. We had a ton of conversations and check-ins about what we both wanted.
But after almost 6 months of inconsistency from her, and multiple attempts to address it that either get ignored or “fixed” for 2–3 days before slipping back, I’m starting to feel like she may not be capable of being the type of domme that I need and that we discussed.
One example is that she agreed to lead more and take some of the decision-making off my plate. One of the daily tasks she gave me is laying out her clothes every day (which I hesitated on but she talked me into). But then when I ask something simple like where she wants to go for lunch and try to have her decide, I’ll get frustrated responses like “just pick something and stop making everything so difficult.”
So I’m at the point where I just want the dynamic to stop, but anytime I bring it up she gets really upset because what she hears is that she can’t give me what I want. Then she kind of convinces me to keep trying to make it work. It’s not like I’m asking for a divorce or anything, but the dynamic just isn’t working anymore.
I don’t know, maybe I’m overreacting, but I’m dreading this conversation because I don’t want to let myself get talked into doing this again.
Just wanted to get this off my chest before I see her. Thanks for reading my vent 😅