Orgasm denial is difficult because of caged sensitivity
I'm not sure if this is a benefit or a curse, but it appears I may be too sensitive for the cage to act as an effective orgasm denial tool.
This isn't even about cheating the cage or cumming quickly from intentionally stimulating the cage.
I was with a partner the other day and was locked. I had locked that morning, and had dropped the keys with my partner before going to work that day so that we could banter and be playful throughout the day before getting together in the evening. So when we get together I'm worked up, but it's nothing crazy - maximum of 12 hours locked. She was going to peg me, so I wanted to make her cum first with my fingers. As I'm working on her, I'm getting worked up myself and I'm throbbing in the cage and getting turned on from her moans and reactions. As she is getting close to orgasm, I start to feel that familiar pressure building up, and all of a sudden I feel myself shoot a significant load out of the cage. At no point since we both got naked had either of us played with or really paid any attention to the cage. Both of my hands were occupied the entire time, so I couldn't play with it myself, and my partner was too involved in their own pleasure to be playing with it.
How can I effectively do orgasm denial when I can cum from just being turned on while fingering my partner? I've cum hands free plenty of times, but that usually includes something in my ass or something manipulating the cage. Here there was no direct physical stimulus at all.