u/mostlyestimstuff

This post is not meant as derogatory.

The high of this intricate, ultra-niche masturbation practice is unlike any other. A game changer.

But it is vastly, vastly distinct from commonplace BDSM practices romanticized in “Fifty Shades of Gray”

I’d wager:

- 90% or more estimmer practice solo. Without any interaction of a physical being in the room.

- I’d wager 95% never regularly practice with another estimmer outside the internet.

- 99.9% of the time, estim does not end in actual penetrative sex.

And this high ends the second one “achieves HFO”. Then we resume our regular lives.

Per my experience, the average estimmer is a married heterosexual who stims is private as a method of escapism. It makes sense.

However, as a single individual, I do not foresee estim evolving into a method of meaningful sexual connection. With others.

I’d love to hear feedback. Especially from opposing counsel :)

All else held constant, what is your opinion/go-to for the perfect electrode products?

I’ve evolved in my estim habit where “money is no object” yet continue to fail in my purchases. Nothing has seemed to truly do it for me.

For ref. I use the 2B or u312. Channel A is cock head to balls (in cock ring style). Channel B is bipolar to ass.

Despite spending $$ on brand name electrodes (every conductive rubber loop in recorded history, Moaner, Flange, PES Corona (the one with the urethral portion, all electrasystems plugs, I still can’t get it right.

I use plain 8mm bulk CR with a clamp on cock, 6mm on balls, and usually standard Rocker plug.

Watching others in estim cams makes me feel like a novice. What are your go tos?

Lol don’t roast me.

I have two 2Bs, the Micro312, Coyote/Tingler, every electrode and asstrode under the sun.

2B is my favorite.

Set up: Channel A - Unipolar - Some sort of Conductive Loop around my cock head (8mm or the PES Corona) and another around balls like cock ring (6mm)

Channel B - Bipolar - Variety of ass plugs. I hate the metal based ones. Electrasystems Rocker is a staple. Sirius is another.

Yes, I get the whole use a third contact point as the “base”. Aka split one prong from Channel A’s TENS cable to, say, my above mentioned cockring. And split one prong of B to cockring.

While the other remains on the area of interest: cock head and ass.

Now what? Does it diffuse the current to flow simultaneously through all three points? Is it more novel and exciting than just two separate channels going to town on both ends?

I have Electrasystems tri phase adapter, but it’s not a hard concept to figure out.

Please advise.

Thanks for reading this in its entirety.

Quality control on the 2B dumbfounds me.

Specifically, on stereo mode, when an auxiliary cord is plugged from port to an “output device” (aka our laptop playing an audio file), CHANNEL A DOESN’T WORK.

Just Channel A. And just on Stereo mode (presets are fine). B emits as normal. A no activity registered.

This is my third brand new 2B purchase, across three different retailers (incl Estim Systems, Happy Stim USA), that this SAME issue occurred.

***Btw, that excludes the FOURTH device malfunction. Paid $65 to ship in for repair, fixed and died thereafter.

It has to be something with the audio port, as Connect does not work on the device either (no device found when plugged in).

This has occurred across three different computers, iPhones, desktops, every brand of auxiliary cord, every TENS wire under the sun. So rest that argument pls.

(The Micro312 is cute, but doesn’t hit the same. The Coyote is too weak at this point. The Tingler feels like operating a cinder block.)