underwhelming first time (repost, not sure why removed)
well i just left my first time with an “escort” but it didn’t live up to my expectations. i found her through eros and messaged her as well as 7-8 other companions. she responded quite casually and came off as authentic. we verified with face time and i set a date and time plus sent the deposit. ive been excited all week for this. today is my birthday so i thought it would be special.
she looked like her picture and was pretty hot. i got there about 2-3 min late because the lyft driver got lost. she was waiting outside the building and welcomed me as i stepped out of the car. i greeted her and handed her an envelope and some flowers in a gift bag, with some condoms as well.
we went in to the apartment and i told her it was my birthday. she brought out her sister and said she could join for an extra $500. i said no, maybe another time. we got comfortable, had some drinks and put on some music.
after some talking, i got undressed and laid down for a massage (since thats one of the services she promoted). she got started and did a pretty decent job, nothing amazing but just alright. i booked for 1.5hrs and around the 1hr mark, she began asking if i wanted a bj or hj. i said bj, and she put one of the condoms on me. she did her thing but i wasn’t able to climax for some time. she tried everything but i wasn’t busting, just stayed hard. i expected that we would go further and do more than just bj and hj. she got a little frustrated and just told me to jack off while she played with herself using some toys. halfway through, the condom broke and she got me another one. after some time, she came and i didnt. but i still hadn’t stopped and close to the time limit, i finally finished after she twerked for a little bit in front of me. i basically paid $800 to jack off in a condom.
i dunno, i kinda left feeling a bit disappointed. i mean we discussed “additional services“ but i don’t think i got my moneys worth. i don’t blame her though, she did her best in the time being; let me feel her, touch her nude, etc. did i do something wrong? are all companions like this? she was polite and respectful, she kinda knew i was new to this and made me feel at ease. i just feel like for all my preparation and excitement, i was let down.
tl;dr - my birthday. booked escort. massage + extra services, 1.5hr. mid massage. anti-climactic hj/bj/masturbation. finished after she twerked for me. felt disappointed after. left on time, had a polite and respectful experience, but dont think i will go again.
honestly, i just needed to get that off my chest.
what is a healthy way to process this? how should i thank her? how do i avoid similar situations in the future and know what i’m paying for? i didnt wanna be too explicit on text so i just assumed we would be doing more. anyone else go through a similar thing?