26M [M4M] – Patient Dom seeking a serious, long-term connection with a chub sub. #Online
Hi Reddit, I'm "N," a 26 year old dom, and I'm looking for a genuine, long-term D/s dynamic built on trust, communication, and mutual respect. I'm not interested in quick, casual scenes. My goal is to find a dedicated partner to train, guide, and build something meaningful with over time.
**About Me as a Dom:**
I am firm, patient, and detail-oriented. I enjoy the psychological aspects of dominance, learning what makes a sub tick and using that to create a deeply satisfying experience for both of us. While I can be strict, my approach is always centered on creating a safe space for you to explore your submission.
**Who I'm Searching For:**
I'm specifically looking for a submissive partner who is:
**Chubby/Fat:** I have a genuine appreciation for larger body types.
**18+ and Single/Open Relationship:** the age part goes without saying, the relationship part is just a personal preference.
**Willing to Show Face:** A connection requires seeing who I'm talking to.
**Vocal:** Able to use voice/mic during tasks so i can hear you enjoy yourself.
**Bonus points if you have:** toys for us to use, an interest in serving outdoors, or a friend/partner available to serve alongside of or for me to team up with.
**Our Dynamic Would Focus On:**
My primary kinks involve structure, control, and teasing. I particularly enjoy:
Orgasm Control & Denial
JOI / CEI
Anal Play & Training
CBT
Outdoor / Public-adjacent tasks
**Important: I am not into feminization, sissification, or cross-dressing. It's just not part of my dominant style.**
**How to Approach Me:**
If this post resonates with you and you feel you could be the sub I'm looking for, send me a message. To show you've read this far, start your message with: ***“Ready to serve, Sir.”***
In your message, please introduce yourself with your:
Name, Age, Height & Weight
A bit about your submissive experience
Relationship/Living Situation
What about my post caught your attention and what you hope to gain from a D/s dynamic.
I look forward to your message, we both know you want to!