[30M4F/MF/R] 6’4 brown IT nerd from Sweden | Kinky, respectful & strictly no tech talk after work
Hey Melbourne 👋
I’m a 30-year-old single Asian brown guy, recently moved to Melbourne from Sweden in March. I’ve been taking my time settling in, getting used to Melbourne weather pretending it knows what season it wants to be, and slowly building my life here.
I live in Southbank in my own apartment, I’m sorted, independent, work in IT, and earn enough to look after myself. Also, before anyone gets worried, I don’t bring nerdy IT talk outside work. That’s one rule I actually follow. After hours, I’m much better at conversation than debugging. So I’m not here to be messy, needy, or weird… well, maybe a little weird, but in the good nerdy way.
I’ve had experience in the scene back in Sweden and I've travelled world, but I’m still new to the Melbourne lifestyle community. I’ve done some research through these subreddits and noticed there are a lot of single men posting here. Honestly, I’m wondering if any of us actually find couples or people to hang out with, or if we’re all just respectfully shouting into the spicy void 😂
Also, genuine question: how does swinging actually work in Melbourne? Is Reddit a real way to meet people, or is it more through RHP, private events, clubs, or friend circles? I just joined RHP and have a profile there too, happy to share it if required. I just thought I’d try my luck here as well.
About me: I’m straight, kinky, adventurous, clean, respectful, and big on communication and boundaries. I’m 6’4”, athletic, and in the gym 6 days a week, so I do look after myself. I’ve also been told I’m well-equipped and know how to use my hands, mouth, and other talents… but that’s a discovery for later 😉
I’m mainly looking to expand my horizons and make genuine connections here in Melbourne since I'm going to be here for the atleast 5 more years with the project that I'm working on right now. Open to meeting couples, women, and even single men for friendship only. Just to be clear, I’m straight as fuck, so single guys won’t get anything physical from me, but I’m definitely happy to make friends, grab a drink, chat, and get to know people in the community.
I can be a little shy at first, but once I’m comfortable, I’m playful, confident, cheeky, and apparently full of surprises. English is not my first language, but I think I speak it pretty well, blame Sweden if I sound too calm while saying wild things.
So, if you’re a couple or lady into brown boys, or just open-minded people who enjoy good conversation, chemistry, and respectful fun, hit me up.
I don’t disappoint 😉