How do I arouse my mind?
I have a high “physical” libidio lately and I nd up masturbating around two or three times a day, which is a lot for me. But I have some difficulties arousing my mind. I don’t want to watch porn and I have some difficulties reading smut while masturbating, not because of focus but because it’s usually things that will later make me kind of uncomfortable? I’m not sure if this makes sense. I’m very much into kink and most works on Reddit, ao3, or dark romance books, have very toxic smut that sometimes involves kinks that turn me off or make me later on uncomfortable.
I know I can always just imagine, but that’s not always so easy, and something about audio files of men “talking you through it” always makes me physically cringe because I then imagine them in an empty studio doing so and it kind of makes me laugh (no offense, it’s just a funny situation to imagine while masturbating).
So.. I’m out of ideas.
Thanks for everyone reading this :)