u/nerdyninja3

I finally have a day off and I kinda wanna get dressed up, sit at a nice happy hour, and freestyle a little… but I genuinely feel like I’ve exhausted every spot in Philly 😭

Can any Philly/NJ girls recommend good bars, lounges, where you’ve had decent luck lately?
I’m open to Center City, Rittenhouse, Old City, etc.

At this point I just wanna put on a cute outfit, order an espresso martini, and exist for a few hours lol

Being in the Philadelphia / South Jersey area, I feel like nobody really talks about how different this scene is compared to bigger cities 😭

I’ll go first—
I had to learn QUICK that just because someone sounds like a SD doesn’t mean they actually are one. A lot of “I’ll spoil you” turns into vibes and empty promises real fast out here.

Also… the amount of “SDs” who really just want a situationship with perks?? Yeah no. That caught me off guard at first.