u/nervousbot-20

I know this is kind of a repetitive question, but I won’t lie I’m starting to feel hopeless. I’ve been in this space for a while now, I’ve also met some mommy’s online. But there’s always been quite a bit of distance between us. I’m not talking like a city or two, I mean like countries apart.

Also those few encounters/relationships I’ve had just ended with me getting ghosted, it was confusing because 1, I was 100% respectful and 2, the last message they sent me was very positive.

But getting back to the main question, basically I’ve yet to find anything irl. I’ve also yet to find anyone who’s in the same county as me. Like I said I’m beginning to lose hope, because like most of us here what I want is a relationship with someone I can love and trust.

Also I would like to state this is no way shape or form an ad or a post for sympathy I just want some clarity from others who’ve been in my situation or understand my situation and can maybe give me some guidance.

Also lastly I’d like to state I’m from the uk, so it would be appreciated if someone from the same country as me gave some insight. And any advice on how to find someone irl, or if there is any sort of dating sites/apps for this dynamic would be appreciated.

TLDR: not looking for sympathy, just need advice on finding someone irl I’m from the uk.

I’m asking this because I’ve always enjoyed the idea of my mommy having control over my orgasm, one common way to do this is a chastity cage.
But they make me a little nervous, also worried from a health perspective.

I’ve done the science/medical research and all, but I was hoping to get some insight from people who have experienced it.

The closest I’ve come to it is a bit of a funny story, basically I was wearing an athletic cup (groin guard) and I got a random boner in it. Which does happen to me quite a bit. 😅
Needless to say it was kind of a pinch especially because I’m not exactly small.

(Also I know I mentioned how I’m not small, that is true I’m above average. But I’m not saying that to gloat it’s just to hopefully get a better understanding from people who are similar to me. Also I kinda enjoy some light SPH with my mommy. 😳.)